Polish first birthday traditions? Or birthday traditions in general..
My son is about to turn one and I was wondering about any Polish first birthday traditions that might be nice for his special day. He is half Polish as my husband is Polish and I know of a few, but if anyone has any ideas or special local customs I would like to hear them.
You probably know the one where the 1-year-old is placed on the floor surrounded by a vodka glass, book, rosary and banknote. What he/she reaches for first is said (cum grano salis) to predict what he/she will do in life:
vodka glass = toper book = scholar rosary = priest or nun banknote: financier, banker, person of wealth.
I'm throwing my Aunt a birthday party next year and I would like it to be Polish themed. She has been in the United States for 8 years now and she feels like she's losing her culture. I want to surprise her by having many different Polish birthday traditions, decorations, and food & drinks. I have the food pretty much set, but I'm lost when it comes to the traditions and decorations. Thank you so much!!
I'm lost when it comes to the traditions and decorations.
There are no traditions of birtday celebration in Poland. Because traditionally birthdays have not been celebrated. People have started to celebrate birthdays recently.
Traditionally it is the name-day that is celebrated.
Swede, that's not strictly true. It's a tradition for them to pay for their own drinks. It works out better for them as they don't need to pay for the drinks of their friends on their birthdays. It's observed here.
There are no traditions of birtday celebration in Poland. Because traditionally birthdays have not been celebrated. People have started to celebrate birthdays recently.
Because she feels like she's losing her culture... what Polish traditions or customs and decorations are there that I can incorporate into the party? I want her to feel "home" Are there special occasion drinks or food?? Should I decorate with the colors of the Polish Flag? Do I serve an actual birthday cake or is there another pastry that she would have eaten on her birthday/name day? Thank you for all of your answers :)
I've heard that 44 is considered special by some Poles.
Doubt it! I mean there is not any significance attached to 44th birthday. If anything there is some cryptic verse by a Polish 19th century poet - '....his name 44'.
A imię jego to czterdzieści cztery... He who shall release Poland from the torture of the three empires ... it seems the mystery choice of 44 persists to this day!
Mature Poles and Polesess celebrate birthday anniversaries at home or in town.
Here, we are waiting for all guests to arrive, killing time with small talk and antipasti. Eventually, the party can start. Presents except flowers are not handed in yet, wishes go first.