It wasn`t the case of good or bad relationship. It is the mental problem of the eldest child who is at first the only one and then has to confront his numerous siblings, four of them. Parents` attention has to be divided onto all of them, not just the eldest one.
So, now, he is trying to get the attention that he thinks he once didn`t get from us.
That is why I cannot blame him and have to accept his tattoos.
dumbest way to get attention.
Yes, but some people can`t refrain. :):)