Love / I'm an Asian girl. Polish boyfriend has never kissed me, but I'm in love to him. [13]

I'm an Asian girl. Recently, I met a Polish boy on a dating app, and I went on dates three times with him. But he has never kissed me, and even more, he has never held my hand.

If he was Asian, it's normal things. I'm not worry about anything.

But my Italian room mate said,"it's a strange situation, normally she kissed on first date."
I'm worried that he considers me as just a friend category because I'm in love to him.

In Asia, we usually do concussions before the start dates.

When European dating start? How?
He and I are in dating, or not?
How can I step up?