Love / How common or culturally accepted is divorce in Poland? [43]

Okay, this discussion has turned more into a religious/legal discussion about divorce. Just to clarify that my question was to figure out how common and socially acceptable is it to get a divorce in Poland?

The relevance of the question, a person X who grew up in a country Y where divorces are pretty common and the society is more accepting of it might be more accepting and inclined to get a divorce in a marriage. Whereas, a person A who grew up in country B where divorces are pretty rare and the society is not very accepting of it might be little less accepting and inclined towards a divorce personally too.

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Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]


Oh! I guess rebel was a wrong choice of words there given it can be taken in a negative sense. What I wanted to say was she is very strong-willed and independent. She doesn't take any **** from her dad/mom etc.


Yes, my fiance keeps telling me about the social welfare stuff.

Love / They seem nice, but could Polish girls be "gold diggers"? [196]


I know this post is really old and kinda irrelevant now. The OP might even have recovered from all this and who knows might have found true love and be really happy today.

Although here OP was naive to let someone take advantage of him so much. A man who doesn't think from his dick knows what the girl is up to more or less. First of all, OP shouldn't be paying every single penny of her education and living. Tons of college student work at different places to support themselves in college OP could have asked her SO to do the same rather than being a sugar daddy. If you did ask her to and she didn't do it then you ignored a red flag there. Also, if you married her when she had no income and you were the breadwinner and had assets you should have done a prenup. If you didn't do it then it's not anyone else fault but yours. I am not a pole neither am I trying to defend one here but you got burnt because of your own mistakes. Man up and accept it rather than playing the "women!" card.

Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

Totally true!
She is not at all daddy's girl's kinda girl though. She is a rebel. She moved out of the home and started living on her own in young age and did/does what she wants to do. One of the major reason I put a ring on her. Don't need someone who just says yes to me all the time.

Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

I have been with a Polish girl for last 2.5 years. We got engaged 6 months back and are planning to get married. My observations are very different.

- Yes, she is very different from what she was when we meet. But don't we all put our best selves in the beginning of a relationship. I am sure I have changed too from what I was 2.5 years back.

- She is not at all materialistic. She doesn't do any show-off. She is so economical and cheap that sometimes I get annoyed by her evaluating and re-evaluating a small purchase. She will never buy a single piece of clothing for her, bags, shoes or anything. She doesn't expect me to gift her anything at all and even when I offer to she will not allow me to.

- We live in the US and neither of us is a citizen. If she was really into being a gold digger she could have easily found an American citizen with whom she was guaranteed a citizenship within few months. With her hot body and beautiful face pretty sure she can do much better than me. I am not bad either but I think she is the better looking one among us.

- She earns her own money, pay for school from her own earning (most of her friends who I know of have their studies/life sponsored by their SO)

- She pays half the rent and contributes half for all our common expense.
- The only issue which I can relate to is being moody. But then I guess that's because women are from Venus. To be honest, most of the time it's not even mood swings but she gets stressed about minor things and then just reacts weirdly haaha She needs some life lessons I think which she will have with time.