Love / Fell in love with Polish girl at work : / [22]

Take my advice , forget her.
My wife is polish, my son is half polish and my best friend is polish. And one thing I have realised, is that the poles are very warm, friendly people, and it's very possible that you have confused her friendliness for attraction. If she has been with her boyfriend for so long then they obviously love each other. Honestly, if she felt the same way you do, then you would know it and you would not need to post this, she is probably too polite to tell you she isn't Interested and to save you anymore pain I would advise you to let her go, and find someone who loves you back.

I wish you all the best my friend.
You will never be happy if you obsess over her (and it sounds like you do.) I hope you work it out.

I mean , my wife is polish and even I've not felt the need to learn the polish language. (my wife speaks perfect English). I personally think that you attempting to learn polish is a wasted gesture. In fact it seems a little creepy to be honest , if you were in a relationship I could understand but realistically you are attempting to learn a new language just to impress a girl who already has a long-term boyfriend.

Let it go brother , you will only cause yourself more pain in the long run .