Love / Want to ask a Polish girl out? [27]

Thank you everyone for your response, I will keep that in mind, the only thing i'm cautious about is will she feel comfortable in me asking her while she is at work most people tell me asking someone out while they are working is creepy for the person

Love / Want to ask a Polish girl out? [27]

Thanks everyone, I will go ahead and do it tomorrow, it will be very difficult with everything going on in my head, but I think its better to do it, Does anyone have any ideas of what exactly is best to ask or say?

Love / Want to ask a Polish girl out? [27]

Hi Rozamunda. Thank you very much for your response much appreciated. Yes I do think highly of this girl that's why I'm seeking help also in regards to myself I just want to give everyone an idea of myself lol So they can understand the situation. In terms of asking her when business is quite slow as johnny reb above mentioned, the only problem is this takeaway is really busy especially during her shift times.

Funny thing, once about 3 weeks ago I was on the phone outside the shop waiting for her shift to finish so I can ask her, however when her shift finished a guy came and picked her. I spoke about this to my friends they all assumed that it could be her brother as he was very very tall compared to her, the only thing that gives me the inner gut feeling to not ask her is that I fear she might say No, I only have this feeling of rejection from her because I like her a lot and also if she says No I will be so embarrassed to walk into that shop again, I hope everyone can understand this.

Also to note in London it is very mixed racially you see a lot of mixed couples especially eastern European Boys and Girls mixing, So I dont think that's an issue however I keep thinking it is as one of my Polish friends at work said Polish girls are restricted to go out with guys non-white as it brings shame to the family, is this true?

Love / Want to ask a Polish girl out? [27]

Merged: Asking a Polish girl out?

I'm an South Asian guy living in London; I was born and brought up there, I'm 6ft5, good looking (according to a lot of girls I know lol), I dress very smartly and formal at all times and I'm medium built masculine.

Back in early December I went to to my local takeaway shop which I've been going to for the past 8 years since I was 8, I'm 18 now, I'ts obviously an Asian run takeaway business, my point is there was one time when I went there and I saw this young girl working there who seemed like she is the same age as me and was working part-time, I did sense every time I was sitting down in the shop she looked at me and whenever I looked at her she looked the other way, at first I wasn't interested as she didn't seem my type, she was quite short, had short hair and slim, however her English was really good and at the same time she did seem like a down to earth person but I just was not interested.

Once I went to the shop with my friends there was about 6 of us while we was having our meal one of my mates kept whispering 'that girl keeps looking at you' after while we all went home they where all telling me to speak to her and that throughout the time they were at the shop she kept constantly staring at me.

That's when I took a slight interest in her, That shop is a place where I go to regularly almost every day, there was one point when I went there and I asked one of the senior staff members who she was and he told me she was just a part time student from Poland same age as me working there.

3 months on I go there regularly I see her all the time, she looks at me I look back at her, but that's it. My point is I want to ask her out, However a lot of people tell me asking someone out at work there is always a 10/10 chance in them saying No. So does anyone have any suggestions to what I should do?