/ How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported.
: how do I do whatever, go wherever I want without him getting jealous and beating
Ive been with my bf for 4 years, he is polish/im black..
He wont let me do anything. I cant go to the shops or to my friends house without his following. He is constantly on my phone and is extremely paranoid and on top of that his friends tell him to beat me more and that its not enough, girl like this get taken very easy. I want to go to parties with my friends and dress sexy. He wants me to dress like a mother all the time and I cant be friends with unmarried girls. it can be a very violent relationship. Last week the police got called because he punched me in the eye and head cause i would not let him see my phone. When i was pregnant he dragged me on the street by my hair all the way home. He is not ashamed to make a scene. Im living in fear all the time because most of his friends here in london are against me. They are always watching me and tell him things about me thats got nothing to do with them. They will tell him i was on the street talking to men or that my dress was too short and breasts were showing. Im young i can dress how i want. So what if i talk to men, i like it. I cant get him to understand that. And there no argueing back as well, he just beats me and then go get drunk with his spy friends and come home and beats again. Sometimes its like walking on eggshells but i still love him and i can see he loves me too cause he works very hard to give me everything i want., we have a two year old daughter together. His friends and family in poland tries to protect us and give us advice. Here in the uk not really.