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SingleFemale   
26 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

maybe he is going bald?

That does mean majority of them go bald early in life? Because this one is not that old, late 20s...

because hair is good for fags :-)

That's a joke, right? lol
SingleFemale   
26 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

You often see too many Polish men shave their heads when many of them just can't pull that look

Can anyone tell me why some Polish men shave their heads? One Polish I know has his head shaved, and he's not bad looking, but I think he's better looking with hair.
SingleFemale   
26 Jan 2014
Love / Filipino guy with a Polish girl.. [60]

But something must be in fact that Polish and Filipinos are attracted to each other. I like theirs specific sense of humor.

Then it must be a good combination then, Polish and Filipinos(notwithstanding their cultural differences). But then it takes two to tango, i.e., it takes 2 people to make a relationship work, not just the attraction or the sense of humor.

A Polish man I know had a dry, warped and twisted sense of humor that at one point I was so annoyed with him and ready to give him a slap if he hadn't told me immediately he was joking. He had the sense to tell me later on that it's not the standard Polish sense of humor; it's just Him having that dry sense of humor. You just couldn't tell whether he was joking or not. So there.
SingleFemale   
25 Jan 2014
Love / Filipino guy with a Polish girl.. [60]

But for example they can learn from Polish guys how to be more confident for example at work or how to be more relax if somebody make joke about them, because they are sometimes so serious, and Polish guys are more relax in this case, have more sense of humor :)

Filipinos in general have a very good sense of humor, even in the face of adversity. You probably met the serious but rare types....
SingleFemale   
25 Jan 2014
Love / I have a crush on my boyfriend's Polish friend ( advice needed ) [33]

he is very stubborn , says he aint got a problem, saying he doesnt harm anyone so theres no problem.. well he will get smarter some day hopefully, because hes breaking himself down...

Ah boys will be boys, still immature. It's up to you as to how long you can tolerate his behavior. One thing I can say for sure though is : it is wrong to stay in a relationship just for the sake of the kids. They will be the ones affected most.

at least you get to see him everyday.. wish i could :D so if he decide to leave his gf , will you tell him?

He's been saying that for the last few months, but he hasn't done it, so I reckon he won't leave her anyway.

And if he finally does leave her , I wouldn't tell him...unless he asked me first.
SingleFemale   
24 Jan 2014
Love / Filipino guy with a Polish girl.. [60]

There are a- - - - - -s and j- - - s from the world over, unfortunately. They abound everywhere, whether it be in the Philippines, Poland or UK. But yes, Filipinos as a whole are a very nice and friendly people.
SingleFemale   
24 Jan 2014
Love / Filipino guy with a Polish girl.. [60]

One factor for women to consider is that Filipino men are almost all circumcised

All of them are by the time they reach adulthood.

which is rare in Poland.

Really? I didn't know that.
SingleFemale   
22 Jan 2014
Love / I have a crush on my boyfriend's Polish friend ( advice needed ) [33]

and theres no issues with my kids :) they are doing well as always... and problems with my bf is not easy to solve but im trying, so i ammm dealing with that beside this so no worries.

Well and good then. The kids should always be top priority; the bf.....yes, any problem can be solved with a serious talk.(unless he's stubborn enough not to want to change for the better....)

but yes it would be nice to hear the same from him, but if he felt that, he would most likely say, yes i did feel for you too but i was holding back and i am now in a relationship, or something like that, and i would respect that as i never expected anything from him. he have sent lots of hints during the time, that he could be interrested tho....

It's your call, though I can assure you that if you do discover that he has feelings for you as well...then you will never be at peace.Because it is hard enough already knowing that he is in a relationship; it will be undoubtedly harder knowing that he has feelings for both of you and yet both of you are still with your current partners.

and in your case, if you knew the guy you like , that his relationship was ****, then why not tell him, if he felt the same, and he at the same time could get away from a bad relationship, and what if he really was your true love, why miss that chance?

if things was like that for me that i would have told..

Not possible for me, dear. I see the guy almost everyday and if he indeed(as he claims) issues with his gf, he can sort it out himself(fix it or leave her) without me meddling. I don't want to have a guilty conscience. Besides, his life is complicated as it is, I don't want him to complicate my life as well.
SingleFemale   
21 Jan 2014
Love / I have a crush on my boyfriend's Polish friend ( advice needed ) [33]

And after he learns of your feelings for him, what's next?When you have sent him a letter detailing all your feelings for him, do you think you will be at peace? Yes, you do not have any intention of messing up a relationship but do you think if the gf learns of it will it not be a cause of strife between them?

I hate to say this, but whether you admit it or not, you want to tell him your feelings because you(subconsciously) also want to know how he feels for you when he learns of your feelings for him-how he will react, and what would be his next move(does he have feelings for you too? will he choose his gf over you?. etc., etc.)

You should instead divert your attention to more important issues such as your kids and your relationship with your bf. If your bf won't change for good, then leave him and start over with your kids(away from the bf and away from the other guy).

I am more or less in the same dilemma because the guy I like also is in a relationship but I won't make any effort to tell him my feelings simply because he is in a relationship(nevermind if the relationship is in the brink of breaking up). If I were you I'd do the same-THINK SENSIBLY, DEAR.
SingleFemale   
21 Jan 2014
Love / I have a crush on my boyfriend's Polish friend ( advice needed ) [33]

I still say you try to sort out your relationship with your bf first. If it doesn't work out, fine, then try to have an amicable separation if only for your kids. After that move on. Best to try to forget though your Polish crush as he is in a relationship with someone else. You will just be getting into a messy situation by trying to get in their way. Try to avoid him at all costs.

If the guy loves his girlfriend how is she going to mess up the relationship? You can't mess something up that isn't already about to break. If he loves his girlfriend he won't be interested.

That is "IF" the guy loves his girlfriend enough.
SingleFemale   
20 Jan 2014
Love / I have a crush on my boyfriend's Polish friend ( advice needed ) [33]

No, he's got a girlfriend. Leave him at it.

I agree. Best not to mess up someone else's relationship. Try to get over it.(yes, I'm basing it on experience). Avoid the Polish if you can. (easier said than done, but it can be done if you really want to).

I think you better concentrate on deciding whether you want to stay with your boyfriend or not. Have a serious talk with him, and see if both of you can still salvage and improve the relationship, especially since you have children. Because even though you have kids, if you are no longer happy with him, sooner or later, both your behavior and his will be very obvious to the kids and they will be the ones affected most. Besides, it's no use being in a relationship if you are no longer happy with him.
SingleFemale   
18 Jan 2014
Love / Why should I support my partners sister and boyfriend? [23]

The one point you should consider is your partners sister and bfriend are a reflection of the family you could potentially be marrying into. Is that what you really want for your son, maybe it times for you to start conditioning your future companion.

I definitely agree with this.

Get your act together for the sake of the baby. I am a woman but I do not agree with the actuations of your girlfriend nor her family. You should man up, kick them out of your life and talk to your gf seriously. If she doesn't change or grow up, then I think you need to think long and hard if you still want to continue your relationship with her.

You are already a father; and whether or not you continue your relationship with your gf that will never change. The most important thing at the moment is you love and support your child, financially and emotionally.(and-for crying out loud-You're already 30!You're not that young, you know.....)

PS Stay away from the vodka if you can't handle yourself drinking that stuff(or any other booze for that matter).
SingleFemale   
12 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

I've seen 1 or 2 Polish men I would consider handsome, the rest seem to be bordering on average

Yeah, I agree. I've met a few, the most handsome turned out to be gay(as in openly gay) and the other one...ah, he was alright in the looks department but he had a warped,twisted and most of all dry sense of humor(so dry you could pour water over it lol).
SingleFemale   
9 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

The reason I say this is because Polish men 90% of the time are not physically attractive at all. There is no way they would have this much luck with British women or others.

Not to take sides, but I've only met a few Polish men and all of them are not bad-looking at all(although one one of them unfortunately is gay). Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, so to speak.
SingleFemale   
9 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

I think it depends the word "single" would depend on your location/where one comes from. "Single" from my country means someone who is not married. So even if one has a girlfriend...technically he is still single.

From what I know his partner's also here with him(unless he also has a wife and 3 kids in Poland)
SingleFemale   
9 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

Very interesting feedback on both Polish men and women, though I am more curious about Polish men(unless I decide to change preferences LOL)

Just to be clear though, the person I am talking about is single but has a girlfriend/partner(that's what he says-unless in reality he has a wife and 3 kids back home).

But I guess flirting, cheating , and liking other women would be the same for all, whether he be married or just has a girlfriend.
SingleFemale   
8 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

You love your partner and there is much more than one reason you don't want to cheat her/him even though it doesn't mean you don't thing about it.

If you love your partner and are contented with him or her, then that's enough reason to stay loyal and not even think of cheating on him/her.
SingleFemale   
8 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

I have a story about a Polish man but I want to say that every person is different and it's not about the culture

Thank you for your story.( all sob stories about Polish men in this thread I noticed). now I'm beginning to think I should stay away from them haha.
SingleFemale   
8 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

Interesting post,people put more input on polish men,it will give a wider idea how they are

Curiosity got the better of me. Why would a Polish chap, after being with the same person for several years, suddenly say to people around him that he was planning to leave her because she was so possessive and clingy? (and obviously it will bring about another topic-are Polish girls possessive and clingy?) Is it a form of self preservation or self-advertisement? So that when he finally decides to leave her women will form a queue? Interestingly enough, a few have found him "hot".

Of course I will agree with Ironside that some men are good, some are bad. But then I initially thought that Polish men would tend to be more old fashioned and traditional when it comes to relationships (the country being a predominantly Catholic one).

And another burning question which brings to mind as well-Do a lot of them like to have relationships with women older than them?
SingleFemale   
8 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

now do all man do that and all women as well ? yes , yes and yes.

Nope, I disagree, not ALL. Many men and women would probably flirt and like someone else(and that applies to Polish and non Polish) but cheating? Ah, not all would tend to do that.(though it would be presumed that flirting is already a subtle form of cheating). There are still such things as loyalty and faithfulness(though they're hard to come by these days).
SingleFemale   
8 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

Thank you for sharing your story. Your story is sad but at least you have a lovely 5 month old daughter so yes, it's not all that bad or tragic. As I mentioned before, the attention is flattering(as he is younger than me) but I do not want to get involved with him, anyway, esp. as he is a colleague and is involved with someone else. I was just curious about his behavior.(and no, I don't have a thing for Polish guys. I've met only a few, including this one). I like him but not like him enough to fall for him. I don't know whether he has a wife back home but he definitely has a girlfriend here(and he keeps announcing he plans to separate from her-why he does that, I don't know).

I would assume now that they are like any other men from other cultures. Some have the roving eye, some don't. I guess women have to use their instincts first, and not just listen to their hearts when it comes to men.
SingleFemale   
6 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

As for the man at work, keeping sex and work separate is always a good idea (unless sex is one's profession).

Well, he's not bad looking(he's tall, has a nice bod, and intelligent enough) but I'm not after him for a shag(especially as he's a colleague). And yes, keeping sex and work is a good idea. Attention from a younger man is flattering, but not when he's with someone else.

Re your answers to 1 and 2, I am now inclined to believe what a male friend once said, "Men are monogamous in marriage/partnerships, but polygamous in nature."
SingleFemale   
6 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

There's this new man at work who has been telling people around him that he wants to separate from his girlfriend because she is so possessive(according to him). He isn't bad looking really; in fact one or two women have had some interest in him. I noticed that a few weeks ago he was starting to be flirty, occasionally giving a wink or two, giving that mischievous smile or that romantic stare, even at one point asking for my phone number(which I didn't give, of course). Even one of our colleagues has noticed that he seems interested in me. Now I maybe single and not dating someone at the moment but the mere idea of someone trying to hit on me while he is with someone else-I find it annoying, irritating and disgusting. I think that men should first try to sort out their relationship differences with their partners(whether they break up with them or not) before being on the look out for other women(don't you think?). I mean...if he can do this to his present partner, what more to his other future conquests?

My questions are these :

1. Do a lot of Polish men like to flirt while they're in a relationship with someone else?
2. Do Polish men tend to cheat on their partners?
3. How would you know if they genuinely like a girl or they're just playing around?

He would've been alright if not for the fact that he's younger than me(too young, I think) and has a girlfriend(and nope, I do not want to ruin any relationships). Plus, he has been incurring the ire of a few of the colleagues because of his work behavior(read: he hasn't been hard working lately).

Thanks and appreciate any replies.Just curious.