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Last Post: 3 Nov 2014
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SingleFemale   
3 Nov 2014
Love / What do Polish guys think of Asian girls? [50]

Beauty is subjective. In my opinion men whether they be Polish or not, have different ideals when it comes to women especially when it is all about beauty.

P.S. Asians are just not about Chinese, Pakistanis, etc. We have the Japanese, Thais, indonesians, malaysians, indians and of course Filipinas.
SingleFemale   
29 Jul 2014
Love / Age difference in relationship with a guy or girl from Poland? [28]

Very interesting opinions.

I used to abhor the idea of an older woman dating a younger man, but when one of my mates married a younger man(think 6-7 year difference-and they are still together after 15 years) I thought, ah, now that's different. But then I see or hear , say, a 50 year old woman dating a 25 or 30 year old guy, I'm thinking...do they need a mother figure or something?

All in all I think circumstances/intellect, do play a part...not just age alone.

Defo agree on this.
SingleFemale   
18 Jul 2014
Love / Age difference in relationship with a guy or girl from Poland? [28]

Does it really matter with the age differences if a couple is very much in love?Just think for a moment about you seeing someone who you like very much would you give him/her a miss because of the age issue?

Age would not really matter, I guess....if both of you have the same interests and priorities. But...if one wants to get married and have kids, while the other(obviously the older half) doesn't(and mainly because of the age issue AGAIN)... wouldn't age be an issue this time?

PS And I cannot imagine someone in her 40s or 50s giving birth. Oh dear.
SingleFemale   
17 Jul 2014
Love / Age difference in relationship with a guy or girl from Poland? [28]

Are you talking about short term affairs or one night stands? It is probably easy to have relationships like that, but another thing when it comes to serious relationships.

.it is after all the 21st century, cougar style is IN!!!

Oh last time I checked, I still haven't had any claws yet. LOL
SingleFemale   
16 Jul 2014
Love / Too late for a serious relationship? or not - I'm 39 and looking for someone Polish [27]

And 39 isn't old at all.

Agree 100%. Do stay away from rebound relationships though =D.

39 isn't old. I'm in my 40's and I'm not even worried about my age(and I'm a woman!). When you exude confidence within you, age is no longer a matter of concern or worry. You will find the right person for you eventually, who I'm sure not give a damn about your age.
SingleFemale   
16 Jul 2014
Love / Age difference in relationship with a guy or girl from Poland? [28]

When I was 23 I met and lived with a woman who was 39, we lived together happily for about 6 years and then my work took me away overseas.

lol you've been quite busy during the past years.... =D

The farthest age difference I had in a relationship was years ago. I was 25 and he was 49. Lasted for 6 years and only ended because we both drifted apart. We were both busy with work(I had my career, he had his) but until now we are still friends. Very caring and understanding.

Now I'm in my 40's and what surprises me is that I meet men a lot younger than me(one is more than 10 years younger) and I'm thinking...Whoa! I must be really getting old!
SingleFemale   
15 Jul 2014
Love / Age difference in relationship with a guy or girl from Poland? [28]

I think society has been quite harsh with couples who have large age differences. If the man is several years older than the woman, he is deemed to be a sugar daddy, dirty old man, what have you, etc. The woman, on the other hand, is branded a gold digger, one after his benefits, money, etc.

On the other hand, if the woman is older than the man, she is deemed a cougar, one after the young boys, etc. There's not much ostracism on the part of the man though he would also be assumed to be after her money as well..

But I think age is just a number

I agree that age is just a number. But it will not be just a number if the people involved have varying interests and mindsets based on that number. But if they do have shared interests and values, then everything will just fall into place. The relationship will work no matter the age difference
SingleFemale   
12 Jul 2014
Love / Age difference in relationship with a guy or girl from Poland? [28]

Hi, just curious about your opinions people.. what do you think is the ideal age difference for relationships(I'm talking of man-woman relationships)? I hear there should be a maximum of 5 years(whether the man or woman is older). But then I also hear and know of relationships with more than 5 years' difference that have withstood the test of time, and others with less than 5 years' difference whose relationships that have just gone with the wind?(lol).

I know that some people might say that age doesn't matter but then...shouldn't it also be a relevant factor when considering a new relationship? Or does it have to depend on who's older or younger?

Thanks and awaiting your relevant opinions. =D
SingleFemale   
20 Jun 2014
Love / In love with a perfect woman from Poland (she has a boyfriend?) [9]

Sorry to hear you have lost... I am not going to say you and her were not meant for each other, probably you just met at the wrong place and wrong time.

I had that same experience(and the same ending as yours). I didn't lose, I just let go. I believe it is not right to ruin relationship just so you can have that piece of happiness with that person.

Better to move on and get on with life....good luck.
SingleFemale   
29 May 2014
Love / What does my Polish work colleague's behaviour mean? [12]

Oh they all say that when they're here. LOL(of course he's not with his wife because she is in Poland). =D

Phrases like "not right now, OK" and a serious look might be a good way to do this.

Don't give him false hopes with phrases like that. Unless of course, you really like him and want to give him a chance.
SingleFemale   
29 May 2014
Love / What does my Polish work colleague's behaviour mean? [12]

Sounds like some Polish man I know, who's immature, and childish at that. Very different in the way he treats me from other ladies, teases me, annoys me, ****** me off, though he did admit one time that he likes me. Now lately he's been saying(and says he's serious) he wants to marry me and have babies with me, that my age will compensate for his age(I'm older than him), etc., etc. ! Jokes with other ladies but with me the treatment is so different. I never know when he's serious(though really I don't treat everything he says as serious even though he keeps saying he is because I just think he's immature and just a joker) or not but it's getting to the point that I will have tell him to f_ _ _ k off because people are starting to talk and it's beginning to make me uncomfortable when we're working(just like what you're feeling right now). Also,......... the jerk has a girlfriend!

Bottomline though is, I think your colleague likes you. He(and like all other jerks regardless of nationality) just has a crappy way of showing it. Though if it's really getting to the point that you've become so uncomfortable with him just talk to him and tell him to back off.
SingleFemale   
21 Feb 2014
Love / Confused . . . did I Misunderstand Him? Found out he is from Poland. [13]

Nevermind if you don't see him again. I'm sure you will be meeting a lot more younger men in the future.(ahhh, cherish the feeling and be flattered.Means you're still hot!). Although I do wonder what will be the ending of your story with him. Hope you will still get to see him though,....
SingleFemale   
28 Jan 2014
Love / Cultural difference or flirting? My boyfriend is from Poland. [7]

I am not Polish and am still in the process of learning about Polish culture in this forum(as well as about Polish men) but this much I can say : FLIRTING IS A GLOBAL PHENOMENON, not just being done by Polish men.(but yes, based on experience some can be incredible flirts).

It's not really all about cultural differences, just be vigilant and trust your instincts as to whether it's just harmless flirting or a dangerous one.
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [175]

very few to be honest :D unfortunately

Too bad. guess have to be content with my Polish friend.lol
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [175]

Oh, and I forgot. I'm Germanic and you're Celtic. :-)

What's the difference? (forgive my ignorance)
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

but fstop is right - you have to establish what is on and what is not right from the beginning!

Well I will give the Polish chap the benefit of the doubt.

do not leave it until it is too late!

I'm still trying to learn more about him. He seems alright, though at this stage can't determine whether he will turn out to be a good future husband or a crappy

future one.....
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

yes something like that only of course you will be working as well and still be skivvy, picking up his socks and pants and so on, cleaning his skidmarks off the loo.
This is a serious warning!

Oh dear. I guess that's a global thing :(

(making clear what's acceptable and what's not, instead of hoping for a miraculous change)

Ah there's still hope. =D
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

yes well good luck with that

(sigh). now I will have to ask my Polish friend if he still lives in the ancient times(you know, "you woman, I, man, you do household chores, I work") and knows how to even change a light bulb(lol). Otherwise he won't stand a chance with me.

Polish men need strong women.
Then everything will be fine.
;)

Strong in what sense?
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

So does that mean that most(I say most because I'm not sure in general) Polish men are ultra conservative and traditional(read : ancient) when it comes men-women gender roles in marriage(and household)?

(I know how to change the light bulb and some home maintenance stuff but I still prefer equality of the sexes-both have to do their share in the household(and maintenance if possible) chores)
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [175]

Ah alright lol. If a lot of Polish men looked a lot like Jason, I'd start setting my eye on Polish men(bald or haired).

The Polish man I know is bald and not bad looking, but I'm waiting for him to grow his hair(he might look better with it).
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

With what I'm reading now, I'm beginning to believe that Polish men are not good husband material.....
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [175]

lol! So you're assuming you're as hot as Jason Statham? Carry on. Whatever floats your boat. =D
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [175]

Jason Statham mmmmm.

Oh yes. Jason Statham. unfortunately I have yet to find a bald Polish man as hot as him. I guess I have been looking at the wrong places. lol