Love / Age difference in Dating a Polish - Is it ok for Man 27years to date Polish Lady 39years? [19]

Hi,

Questions...was it just the age difference you saw as an issue? Does your brother want children? As I'm sure you're aware, woman can suffer birth complications the closer to 40 they approach...but this is only a generalisation. Is your brother fully aware of your reservations?

At the end of the day, they're going to do what they're going to to do...regardless. I struggled with acceptance issues in my relationship...so just be supportive, whichever way it goes.

Best, A

USA, Canada / Should I move to Poland? (dual citizen of Canada and Poland) [22]

Hi vikkiitoria,

The things I can address in your original post are:

qualifications...my Polish gf studied in Poland and she lived in the UK for about 2 years. She said employers weren't looking at her qualifications very keenly

job...it's not the easiest thing to find a job here in Polska, from accounts given by my students (I've been teaching EFL since last Sep, btw). But you could try to find work as an English teacher (quite a few of the schools here use a method based on repetition, the Direct Method, and as you're a native speaker I would say schools would be keen to have you).

Hope your confusion clears...

p.s. and, no, I have not felt despised since entering this fair land!