Genealogy / Americans of Polish descent. How many of us are on Polish forums? [216]

I am! I am about 1/8 blood and am 5th generation. I think I and other people in my family look very much like the people in Poland, and we have the same values. I wish to reconnect with my Polish side by being on here. I feel so alone in this Southern bible belt.

Life / Individualism in Polish culture...Is it almost Nonexistant? [170]


I guess I tend to think of religion as a collectivist tool. The more religious the people the more self-sacrifice and social dogma to think a certain way there is. Since Polish people are so religious and they place such emphasis on family I assume they would be kind of collectivist.


Yeah, but it's different in the modern world when they are not Polish citizens anymore. Polish culture is very tight knit among families. Maybe they are just not good examples. For example, I hear stories about Polish-Americans who tell their family member something and they can't keep a secret. Every extended relative will know.

Life / Individualism in Polish culture...Is it almost Nonexistant? [170]

This is true, it is a global phenomenon which affects pretty much everyone in the world relative to their cultures and customs.

Life / Individualism in Polish culture...Is it almost Nonexistant? [170]

Thinking about it now, I guess it makes total sense. I think of Russians as one of the most anti-individualistic societies on the planet, so I assumed all Eastern Europeans had similar leanings, but that doesn't make any sense. I suppose that's why Russians and Poles despize each other.

Life / Individualism in Polish culture...Is it almost Nonexistant? [170]


It doesn't have anything to do with what the people here think.

Americans of Polish decent , How many of us are on Polish forums?

USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

White Americans think people are not American just because Polish is their culture! As soon as they get this "feeling" that someone isn't completely like them they stay away. They're not even consciously thinking that they're rejecting them because they're Polish.

USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

Dutch people are ok, because they're "Western" European and not foreign to Americans in the same way Poles are.

USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]


Yeah, that's probably true. She didn't seem very attracted to him. The sister probably noticed this and that's why she told her to let him go. He was more attractive than Jef IMO though when you take away the nervous energy and sensitive personality. If I were in her position I would have probably picked Arie in the end, Sean has no personality and seems very boring to me, despite being the best looking.


People who don't have an exciting life lol. My sister and her group of lawyer friends have a girl party every week and watch this show together.

USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

That's not what it was, earlier in the show she admitted that he was good looking; there was just something about him that she wasn't as attracted to. Probably that he's sensitive and came across as kind of a nut. He also came across quite stand-offish, which wouldn't be a good quality in a father figure for Ricky. Most women don't like men who are too sensitive either. Women are just more attracted to certain men than others. It could be any number of things- pheremones, looks, personality etc. He just has to find the right kind of woman for him, some do well with a sensitive personality.

Genealogy / Typical Polish Eye Color [77]

My sister has light Green eyes. Don't know where she got those from. My daddy had blue eyes, and his momma and daddy had blue eyes. My mom's family all has light brown or blue eyes.

USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

I was kind of semi-joking when I made this thread? Why does everyone on here take these things so seriously? It's just a dumb show.

Chris is an attractive man, I kind of get the feeling that emily is a little biased because she likes southern men. She wants to continue her southern bell legacy. I think she's going to go for sean for that reason. She just kept Arrie on there over Chris because he's a race car driver.

Life / Individualism in Polish culture...Is it almost Nonexistant? [170]


Very interesting...

I want to know how access to the media makes a culture more individualistic? LOL.

Genealogy / Americans of Polish descent. How many of us are on Polish forums? [216]

Calm your hostility, your Polish values may not be every Pole's Polish values lol.

Genealogy / Americans of Polish descent. How many of us are on Polish forums? [216]

Hard work, belief in a higher power, discussion of politics, traditional family, loyalty etc. I meant more close to like a Polish-American.

And to me my emphasis on being very well groomed and quaffed (I usually never let people see me when I'm not waxed, my teeth aren't whitened, and I'm not wearing eye makeup) is more of an Eastern European cultural thing. It's not very normal for an American, unless they're just following trends, which is not for my area.

Genealogy / Americans of Polish descent. How many of us are on Polish forums? [216]

No, technically it could be considered either one. ;)

USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

I'm not crazy. I was joking when I wrote the thread. Emily wants to be in the spotlight and continue her southern bell legacy, I said this a million times. Even though Arie is not very American, he's a race car driver and that's enough to continue her southern bell lifestyle. She lost attraction to chris long before she dumped him. Her portraying Ricky as the center of everything is only supposed to distract from her real intentions about wanting to be more famous.

Genealogy / Americans of Polish descent. How many of us are on Polish forums? [216]


No, eyebrows hehe. I actually don't wax that area anyway, I do something different LOL TMI!


No one has thousands of friends, if so they're not real friends, just acquaintances. No human can possibly process that many relationships at the same time. Maybe 50-100 at the most for some people.

Genealogy / Americans of Polish descent. How many of us are on Polish forums? [216]


pseudo know-it-all

I don't mean my description is like modern people in Poland today, I mean it's like the traditional core of what it means to be Polish.

Genealogy / Americans of Polish descent. How many of us are on Polish forums? [216]

It would be very interesting if I found one of the members here to be a distant relative of mine. However, I don't think I could have many blood relatives in actual Poland, if at all, because almost every single young family member of my ancestors emigrated to the USA at some point. The only people left were maybe distant relatives and the old folks. They left at a good time though right before WWII, it's like they were psychic or something (lol jk).

USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

Who is that, a friend you know in Chicago?

USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

Yes he is, he said so himself. He said, "On a scale of 1 to Polish, my family is... Polish."

Language / Learn Polish or Russian [86]

I think Polish could be a very fun language to learn in my spare time. The problem is it would really be a total waste of time because there would be no one to speak it with. What is most difficult about the language? I don't think I'd have a hard time with the prununciation, but if the grammar is really complicated like German for example it would give me a problem. If I ever moved to like Chicago or something I would def try to learn it.

Language / Learn Polish or Russian [86]

No, I meant there is no Polish community so it would be a useless skill. Its no fun unless you use it in everyday life to talk to people, like for part time jobs or a career. The language is really fun to speak and interesting, not like boring Spanish or German.

Genealogy / my Polish Grandfather in Hitler Youth? HOW? [65]

@Slavicaleks

Was he a stolen child that was Germanized? That was happening more in the 1940s though.

Genealogy / my Polish Grandfather in Hitler Youth? HOW? [65]


I didn't know they wanted Poles cooperating with them. To join the Hitler youth I assumed you had to be purebed German or pass as Germanic from their racial tests.


In rare cases they took children as old as 12.

Genealogy / my Polish Grandfather in Hitler Youth? HOW? [65]


Is it possible the mother moved to Germany because it was mandatory that they be Germanized and she had the choice not to leave them or was it just because she had nowhere else to go because of the war?

Genealogy / my Polish Grandfather in Hitler Youth? HOW? [65]

Fully German, that's why I think he and his sister were probably Germanized based on subrace.

Genealogy / my Polish Grandfather in Hitler Youth? HOW? [65]

Because that was probably the nationality of his ancestors going back a few generations, but if they thought you had Germanic blood of pheasants that migrated there and you passed racial tests they could make it mandatory that you be Germanized. They needed to increase their birth rate so they were trying to get all the flesh and blood they could. You couldn't survive Germanization without being deemed "Aryan" and all Aryans were required to join the hitler youth.