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How do Polish boys feel about foreign girls? [163]
All comments are welcome!!
I'm south american middle 20's and catholic girl...euro/american licentiousness is new for me!!
I met a polish guy (late 20's) at a church single's activity...the thing is that we barely had a conversation that day, we just danced like 10 min....though he managed to get my number. After a while he called me and we started "dating"...
1 date. Just some coffee and conversation
2. We went dancing....some drinks, kisses...but nothing else...he proposed me to have sex with him that night...but hey it was just the 2 date....I didn't know him...To fast for me (I was the type of girl who first has an official boyfriend and then thinks about that...south american way)
3. We went to the movie theater....again he proposed the same thing...I had to travel, and also it was to fast...so no way...He told me we were just friends, I agreed with that...
4. We went to a party....this time he got away with it...so we went to his place and had a great time...(no "wanna be my girl" proposal)...his status changed from friend to "friend".
5. Another party with his and my friends...but this time I was kinda confused....I don't know if this is the polish way to be or what...remember he told me we were just friends...ok...so I was dancing and random good looking guys wouldn't stop asking me to dance with them (don't want to be conceited but I'm pretty) ...I knew they wanted me so bad....but I was with my polish "friend", so I respected that fact...The thing is that he was so dumb....because he didn't do anything to stop those guys...I mean....the guys knew I was with him, because I told them, but he didn't do anything...So after 6 guys trying to dance with me, I thougt: Hey this polish guy just wants to be my "friend"....so I will dance with this other guy....So I danced with him, because I wanted to see if my polish "friend" did something about it (like Latins...they rescue their girl) but he just kinda got mad...and said "she is a grownup woman, she can take care of herself"...After that we headed to his place and well...had fun...
The point is that I don't know how polish guys behave....I never called him, he always calls me and invites me to places, buys the drinks and all the stuff that boyfriends do....but seems he is not thinking about proposing something else to me.....is this a normal polish behavior?? He is so loving and cares so much about me when we are at his place...or together...without his or my friends....I like him and would love to be more affectionate with him....but since we are just "friends" (which I cant understand well yet) that's not gonna happen...I'm thinking if I did well or not sending him a message wishing a good week...I don't want to pressure him either, not my style (my style is the guy asking, not the other way).
I'm not gonna be waiting for so long...there are more guys waiting for me that I've denied to date with because I was giving preference to the polish....Do you think this guy is worth it, I even managed to learn some polish words and stuff about your culture (there's nothing about dating polish guys)....I met him in a church event, but even though sometimes I think he must be dating other girls and having sex with them because of the early proposals he made on the 2 and 3 date maybe he does that all the time...and here in U.S is really easy to find a girl that will do it (I don't like to do that...I like to be with one guy and take my time...this was the exception...cultural shock...hehehe) and that maybe I'm just another in his list (of course that isn't worth it for me!!)....I'm confused so If you polish guys can say how do you behave with not polish girls, if you are always so reserved, how this "friends" thing works, and if you just think on going to bed...I will appreciate that :)
