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Posts by Monya  

Joined: 19 Nov 2009 / Female ♀
Last Post: 25 Nov 2009
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Monya   
25 Nov 2009
History / Poland and Muslims (Tatars and others). [81]

Well, there is a difference between what you see on TV, and what the reality is. People who call themselves Muslims and make it to TV are usually fundamentalists. After all, why would you put on a program portraying Muslims as peaceful, family loving people? What's interesting about that?

There are numerous cultural differences between Muslim and Christian worlds, and that's why whoever decided to cross these differences, needs to adjust. I am not advocating unconditional acceptance of all behaviors. What I am trying to convey is that we cannot equate Islam and its followers with terrorism and abuse. There are Muslims coming to Poland who work hard, and who contribute to the society as much as others do. I don't see any reason as to why they should be "banned" from Poland. Should they try to impose their ideologies on others, only then I see it becoming an issue.

But claiming that

There will be kebab stores with rotten meat and sperm-filled sauces on every street corner in the big cities, small gangs of youths hanging out at whatever place they find and abuse polish girls and women, and last but not least, their own court system, the sharia laws, that will be above polish law. How about that?

is blatantly hate-filled. Or perhaps we can go back to the communist times and review some of the claims communists made to protect their states from the West... I have a feeling that the degree of absurdity would be very similar.

If anybody wants to use such claims as arguments and then claim himself to be either an examplary Christian or a Polish citizen, then both Christianity and Poland are in real trouble.
Monya   
25 Nov 2009
Love / How do Polish boys feel about foreign girls? [163]

Well said... Now, when you live outside of Poland it is becoming less likely that you will marry a Polish person. Generally, people end up with people who are like them. People LIKE people who are like themselves. If you look for strong religious/ethnic/cultural bond, you will look for a person who represents these things. On the other hand, if you are looking for a partner who reflects your intellectual/philosophical likings more than anything else, the ethnic background won't matter as much. Especially if you live outside of your country of origin. I guess it applies to both men and women.

And about Polish people living in Poland and dating foreigners... I don't think most of them were looking for a foreigner to marry. If they did, I would be interested to know why (if you're looking for a rich foreigner to marry, Poland is probably not the best option to find one).
Monya   
25 Nov 2009
History / Poland and Muslims (Tatars and others). [81]

Exactly... I just hope that the people writing their "no acceptance of Islam in Poland" comments are not Christians. They simply cannot be...