Love / What do foreign women think of Polish men? [120]

king polkagamon

An 'ex-gfr' once told me "I became attracted to you because I realised you weren't as confident as I thought"

Love / What do foreign women think of Polish men? [120]


There are many like that - simple, lacking in wit, etc. That's mainly true of the small town/village girls. I agree that there are exceptions too.


You mean he had a scar on his face or he looked scared/frightened?


No, there is a rule. Some nations have it more than others for the reasons discussed in this and other threads. As has been said before, attractive and educated girls from western nations generally prefer to be single than settle for a 'loser'.

Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]


This is a very good point. I remember when Polish girls were really fascinated with foreign men back in the day. Many foreign guys in Poland at the time were poor or stingy, but they were perceived as being rich and of course took advantage. It wasn't necessary to treat girls to expensive dinners, buy gifts, etc - the perception of high social status was enough.

Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]

I think you have missed the main points of this thread, which can be summed up as follows:

1) Do Polish girls go for fairly well-off guys who are otherwise undateable to western girls?
2) Financial security is a bigger priority in Polish society because it is a poorer country.
3) Polish girls, like many girls, are attracted to social status rather than money (meaning that a loser with a foreign passport has a higher social position in Poland than in his own country)

I wouldn't categorise them all as gold diggers either. But it's hard to say if given the opportunity how many would go for money or 'perceived social status' at the expense of everything else (looks, character, extreme cultural differences, etc.).

Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]


That's the impression I get about Russian women. They even publish books in Russia to help attractive women find, seduce and marry oligarchs. I stressed 'fairly well-off', meaning that those guys are not exactly super rich, just financially confortable.


Yes, that's why I wrote 'perceived social status'.

Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]


Wrong. Many beautuful girls are still in Poland because either they can't speak English very well (dumb shallow models etc), are married to one of the successful Polish entrepreneurs of the 90s, or dating the son of an entrepreneur.


Actually, the opposite is true. In Poland it's often better to look like a nobody. Guys who look too slick, especially foreign guys, scare away many girls (except a certain type) because they are considered less likely to be faithful.

Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]


That's not an easy thing to prove. However, if many Polish girls do cheat a lot, I put it down to their criteria for selecting boyfriends. A Polish girl once told me that some women's magazines in Poland even advise girls to seek out unappealing guys because they will be more faithful. They are so concerned about a guy being unfaithful that, contrary to western girls, they are prepared to date someone who doesn't arouse them very much. What happens in many cases is that certain needs go unfulfilled and it's no surprise that they cheat (e.g. with the macho mediterranean guy that KP described).

Now I'm not suggesting that you might be one of these doormat boyfriends, I'm just giving my opinion based on experience and observation. There may be other cases too. But as the above mentioned girl said to me during the same conversation "it's better to cheat than be cheated on."

Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]


It's about security - they want a doormat, preferably one that dispenses cash. But even so, it's difficult for us guys to comprehend how such a woman could possibly share her bed with such a guy let alone get aroused. These women must have a wh@re gene in them. I don't know any guy who'd date and be intimate with a rich woman who he finds physically repulsive. It's almost biologically impossible.

Life / Has feminism and lesbianism progressed in Poland? [645]

If you ask them, many Polish girls will admit to having French kissed other girls. Quite a few claim to be open to the idea of a menage-a-trois. There are certain clubs where it's quite easy to provoke girls into kissing each other.

Love / What do foreign women think of Polish men? [120]

You mean higher standards.

But I have to disagree with your opinion. Some nationalities do indeed have lower standards than others on the whole.

Love / What do foreign women think of Polish men? [120]


No, by 'standards' we are talking about their taste in men.


Well, I wouldn't say beautiful, but you do see guys of all backgrounds, including African, Turkish etc, with girls considered to be pretty in western societies. But you also see many with below average girls.

Love / What do foreign women think of Polish men? [120]

Standards is not only about looks.

Love / How could I change her opinion about me? [60]

Grow some self-respect. Do you know how badly Polish girls used to beg for foreign c**k? Go to Poland, meet other girls, and get some perspective. She sounds like a low class girl anyway.

Love / How could I change her opinion about me? [60]


That's very true. Girls in Poland generally prefer to give the silent treatment then take responsibilty for their decisions. Call it lack of spine, courtesy or respect for men or whatever. Western women are more likely to be straight with you and let you get on with your life. Let's say you meet a girl in a bar, get her number, text her later and for whatever reason she changes her mind about seeing you. A western girl is more likely to text you back, e.g. "I'm sorry it's was nice meeting you, but I was a little drunk last night and I have a bfr". Polkas would rather not reply or just let their phone ring and ring, frustrating the hell out of the horny foreign guy. ahhh...

Love / How could I change her opinion about me? [60]


Yes, those expectations definitely compound the feeling of frustration and anger. It's amazing what a simple Polish village girl can do to western guy's ego. :)

Love / How could I change her opinion about me? [60]


Dear pgtx, I was actually making fun of myself and other western guys who have shared the same experience if they care to be honest.

News / Is it possible that Polish president was assasinated? If so then, by whom? [921]

The suggestion of a conspiracy is a bit ridiculous IMO. Why would Russia risk international condemnation over such an irrelevant issue (in the context of their geopolitical ambitions)? Where's the motive? If they wanted to punish Poland for something, they would have turned off the gas a long time ago. The suggestion on another thread of IMF involvement is even more ridiculous. How does assissinating the president guarantee Poland will accept IMF loans? As far as I'm aware, the prime minister has the decision making power there anyway.

Clearly this sad unfortunate event seems to have been the result of recklessness and possibly an 'over-eager' president. That and the Polish government's cheapness - packing everyone into one dodgy plane. I hope this will change the frustratingly thrifty attitude among much of Poland's ruling and business class, and make them realise that cheap is not always good.