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Mali   
8 Apr 2008
Polonia / Polish Zloty Can't Exchange in France!.. [24]

Versaille, South of France, Champagne, etc.

what I don't like about France-> most of the food. I like the cheese and wine but I'm not a big fan of fish, snails, frogs, boeuf, duck, and all the other different types of meats that the French eat at every meal. I hate red meat, so dinners in France are gross to me :(
Mali   
2 Apr 2008
Genealogy / Do Polish people have big noses? [450]

@southern
Yes, noses are a very complicated issue....

I think most Euro nations are known for having big noses (ie French, Italian etc.).

A few of my dad's friends have huge noses, but I don't know too many Polish people with really big noses.
*I have a small nose* :)
Mali   
25 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Are all Poles blue eyed and blonde? [450]

I'm a brunette with brown eyes. My sister is strawberry blonde (orange lol) with blue eyes and my brother is a blonde, most of my cousins are blonde. My grandmother has black hair with blue eyes. We have a lot of range in my family, but people usually guess that we're Polish.

'How many Polish people are ginger?'

My sister. Also, my paternal grandfather (although he is no longer alive). My dad's facial hair grows in orange/ginger. :)
Mali   
16 Mar 2008
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

just thought, a problem that sometimes strikes me is, how to girls/women on this forum, depict the weird, stalkerish, puppy sort a guys from the normal ones.

The whole 'Polish Personals' section weirds me out! The world is full of people, why seek them out online? But then, you always hear these stories how people met, fell in love, got married, and it turns out one of them is a serial killer. I haven't been in that situation myself, but I imagine there would be signs. Some people will see what they want to see, and this is whether they met online or anywhere else.

I can only claim to be normal i guess as i cannot prove it myself and it could only be resovled by others statements. I'm just interested, for example, if i pm a girl/woman on the forum, sometimes i think, 'hm whats she going to think' and its because of some of the weird types on here that make me think that.

Although, sometimes its easy to spot a psycho on here because of their writing styles. They feel comfortable enough to be themselves because no one knows them. The flip side to that is that it can be easier to disguise your personality because you're not showing facial expressions, body language etc..

Mali, it's funny, i'm sure there is many beautiful girls, i don't feel proud or anything else and i don't think i will stay with nothing if nobody say something pleasant about me... we joke here, as you see... and what "power" are you talking about?

You're young still, and probably like all the 'attention' from the men here, which is fine, but you should definitely be careful about it. The 'power' I refer to is this idea that women feel like they're controlling the situation because the men are specifically looking at them; you control their gaze. However, once the gaze moves onto the next woman, you have lost the sense of 'power'. You can never be fully confident in yourself when you depend on the attention that men give you due to your looks.

I have nothing personal against you, panienka.

ETA:

Be proud chick. Make the most of it. Show the world! In 20 years time we'll all be old gits!

Panienka is a beautiful girl, no doubt about it. Nothing wrong with being beautiful and making the best of it. It can become a problem (especially for women) when they depend on it.
Mali   
16 Mar 2008
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

lol, i agree, however the problem is there are plenty of puppies on this forum, jesus just look at the advertisments for 'polish girls' etc etc. Even if one or two do give up i'm sure there will be another 10 waiting to replace them :).

'Advertisement' is a great word actually. Thats a good depiction of how some people represent themselves or the women.

coming from a male perspective here, i don't mind girl 'knowing' she is attractive, that is sexy, however saying it, bragging, letting it slip or whatever just says to me........ well i can't say those words on a public forum, but i think you know what i mean :)

That's why I said overly :) . Being 'attractive' is well and good, but its not something I would want to rely on. And yes, I completely get what you mean :)
Mali   
16 Mar 2008
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

The master only has the 'power' as long as the puppies are interest. Once their interests move on to the next 'master', this master is left with nothing. This is why nothing good can come from being overly proud of one's looks.
Mali   
16 Mar 2008
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

lol, everytime somebody with a decen photo comes online, its the same same same same thing, lol, i've been here long enough now probably like you to understand this :). It's like the new girl at school syndrome :)

I've been on this forum for only a few weeks, technically speaking. I've checked it out before but never felt like signing up until recently. Some people need attention more than others :)
Mali   
11 Mar 2008
Life / Poles are not racist [873]

You've never heard a Polish person utter 'murzin' or 'mosiek' or something about tzyganki? And there are plenty more. I've even seen murzin in a Polish TV Show not that long ago.

"and hopefully never will", interesting, you don't like the idea of immigrants coming to Poland?

What goes on in Poland is Polands problem, not some British and Canadian problem. Poles can do whatever they please, its their own damn country.

Thats good because as a dual citizen, I can complain about Poland's racial problem all I want.
Aren't you half Polish? Technically, I'm more Polish than you (100% if thats even possible, and born there) :)

Who is pretending? I have seen it, and well, what I have seen is very innocent in comparison to what happens in the West.

Europe is part of the 'West'.
Canada is pretty bad with the Natives, there's no denying it. Just like there's plenty of racism to go around in Poland.

how can you be a feminist with so many men in the world just waiting to please you and make you the happiest girl alive, man i can't imagine hating women and its not just a sexual thing. There is just something you get from women that you can't get from men.

Its not about hating men, its about being equal.....but dammit, I don't want to be a Pole, I want to be a Polka! lol
Mali   
11 Mar 2008
Life / Poles are not racist [873]

No problem :)
Pole is just so asexual (and I'm supposed to be a feminist :p)

Tornado, the UK has had horrible racist driven crimes lately... Poles racism is much more innocent, more likely driven by curiousity. Like for example, an old Pole sees a black man for the first time in his life.. of course he will stare at him..

The topics are worthwhile discussing according to whom? So its okay to complain about the way that Polish people are treated in other countries but its not okay to complain about how Polish people treat others in Poland?

Yes, there definitely is racism in Canada today but the government actually tries to put a stop today, and racial slurs are generally condemned. Poland isn't the only country in Europe thats racist,( not even close! - I could go on and on about Germany and Italy) however, the topic of this particular thread is the racism in Poland. I do believe that Poland has this more deeply ingrained than does Canada or even the UK. Why pretend its not there? It just sounds counter-productive to me.
Mali   
11 Mar 2008
Life / Poles are not racist [873]

my comment followed by the views of a Pole, what else can i say

I prefer the term Polka over Pole :)
Mali   
11 Mar 2008
Life / Poles are not racist [873]

Both of you make me laugh. You talk about racism, yet you talk about it on a forum and think that will somehow change things. If you are so worried about racism in Poland, go over there and paint slogans, go to demonstrations..

And it doesn't make you laugh that people go on to the forum to complain about 'polonophobia', Poland's history etc..?
Another way of saying 'forum' is 'discussion board', meaning that people are going to be discussing their opinions. Someone made a post saying that there is no racism in Poland, and that's their right to think so. However, I have a different opinion and experience and so I posted my thoughts on this topic. Because people have a differing opinion they shouldn't be discussing it on a forum? How high and mighty of you!

I'm sorry, but the problem really isn't as great as you are making it out to be?

Maybe you'd be right on this one if I would have been arguing from pages 1-21. I'm simply posting my opinion, as is Tornado, as I'm sure you do also.
Mali   
11 Mar 2008
Life / Poles are not racist [873]

i like you because your a realist and unlike a lot of the people on here you recognise the problem in your motherland.

It just feels really really wrong to pretend that everything is perfect. You can't fix a problem if you pretend not to see it.

Poland as far as i know has a big racial problem, its not the only country, however i'm talking on a polish forum to polish people. As i have said in other posts i know of Polish people who are racist, they are my friends yes, although that does not mean i have to agee with their views. People who are racist i think are just ignorant of other cultures, countries and life in general.

It totally does, if anyone reads Amnesty International reports they will see how bad the racism is. Gypsies getting beaten, or refused entry into elementary schools, etc.. (oops, I should probably call them Roma, not Gypsies).

How many posts have we seen on PF where a Polish girl is saying that she wants to date a Black guy but her parents will freak if they find out?

I'm by now way saying the UK is not racist, in fact far from it, however we are more embrassing to other cultures and ways of life

Thats because it became illegal (ie anti-discrimination laws) a long time ago, and new generations of people are moving beyond it. Thats what Poland needs - to move on from the current mentality.
Mali   
11 Mar 2008
Life / Poles are not racist [873]

There's no racism in Poland.

?????
I'm pretty sure there is! I love Poland and all, but there needs to be serious work done regarding the racism there. I don't just mean whenever there is a minority to put them on TV to pretend that Poland is multicultural, I mean a serious overhaul to get rid of the racism that exists there.

The fact that people still use 'murzin' (probably spelled that wrong) is pretty telling that racism exists. There's also a distrust/hatred of gypsies and Jews that exist in many places.
Mali   
11 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

Serbian or Croatian maybe.

Haha, wow, Indian? Italian? Crazy! I'm not even kind of Indian or Italian in any way! :]

Mali   
10 Mar 2008
Life / Why are Poles always so miserable? Why do they never smile? [512]

I'll never get this "miserable" thing. It's an unnatural thing to walk about with a big grin on your face so therefore most people will not be smiling when you see them, particularly if they are alone.

This made me laugh because I'm picturing someone leaving their house with a big smile on their face the entire time. Who does that?

I find people in Poland to be happy and laid back (sometimes a little too laid back).

I do admit that my grandmother will never smile in a picture. She wants people to think she's a serious woman, lol
Mali   
10 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

No, not really. You almost look Italian with the dark hair, .

I agree. You do look a bit Italian.
Mali   
9 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

ow believe me the women don't need to drink from kegs to get drunk, they find their ways some how, whether they drink bottle after bottle of cheap vodka or are just lightweights, eitherway does for them :)

But its not as gross...

i can see your point there, but just think of the snowball fights and the snowmen you can build :)

Yeah, snowball fights are especially fun when people don't expect to get hit :)
Mali   
8 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

that is so kool i'd love a snow storm here in the uk it would be so good to have all that snow to play in :)

Snow is only fun until you have to drive somewhere. Thats usually when the cursing begins :)

lol i've seen it on the simpsons and in Ibiza but not in the UK :) maybe it will reach us soon

See, until then you guys can't complain about how 'unfeminine' and 'drunk' your UK girls get. Its really difficult to out-trash a keg stand. Keg stands get people drunk faster than they would be if they were drinking right side up, which means that they're puking sooner also.
Mali   
8 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

wow that is a lot of layers, surely you shrink in all those clothes, lol :)

Whatever it takes to stay warm :) Btw, we had a huge snowfall yesterday afternoon and it hasn't ended yet.

i actually think women are worse with drink, i can't speak for any othe country but my own but the UK is awful for it.

Here both sexes are drunkards. Have you ever heard of a 'keg stand'? Its when you drink from a keg almost upside down while two people are holding your legs. That's the kind of sh*t thats normal here at house parties in Canada and the US. People actually pride themselves on their keg standing abilities. I really haven't heard about people complaining that women do it in the UK.




Mali   
6 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

it must be weird learning your own language, lol, i mean i couldn't imagine being english and living in spain from age four and having to learn english :)

nah, its not nearly as difficult for a child to learn new languages as it is for older immigrants going to a new country.

best wrap up warm, although i guess the vodka keeps you warm inside

Vodka has got to be the worst tasting alcohol ever :). I'll stick to wearing seven sweaters.

No, you are too stupid to do that...ya think its only English women that get drunk...Isnt usually British men that drink themselves to death!..litterally!

Isn't that quite the double standard? Guys can drink until they've fallen like idiots and sustained head injuries (and yes, I actually do know a few of these dolts) but when women do it, its unattractive. Does that girl look like she cares if some guy on PF finds her attractive? I highly doubt it.
Mali   
5 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

you don't speak polish then?? lol, so are you half polish/canadian??

Born in Poland but moved to Canada when I was four. I speak Polish but its pretty badly butchered. I can read and understand Polish pretty well though.

its not so good partying in the winter anyway, well spring as it is now :)

We just had a snowstorm today in Toronto :)

Also I wanted to add re: pear shapes -> Pear shaped women are actually quite healthy as when they gain weight it is in their lower body area instead of the waist. Both men and women that gain weight in the waist area are more likely to acquire health problems. The drunk girl has a small waist and is probably pretty healthy (I would know because I'm like her but taller and sober)
Mali   
5 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

LOL no! Those pics were taken in Toronto during the summer when I had time to boogey. Although the thought of me singing or acting (in Polish no less) is hilarious in a frightening way.
Mali   
5 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

Yup, there's nothing wrong with my body or that girl's body. The only thing wrong in that picture is that she's **** drunk and as you said, that could easily be a Polish (or any other nationality) girl.
Mali   
5 Mar 2008
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1410]

Spot the UK "lady" after a night out that went horribly wrong. Eeeuuuwwwwww.
Note the waist to hip ratio.

She's a pear-shaped girl, nothing wrong with that. I'm pear-shaped too and I'm Polish (although you definitely won't find me drunk like that. alcohol = gross)


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