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Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]
His story about having to stay with his wife even though they're divorced can't be true. The government gives money to women who need it so that they can pay their bills and buy food, especially if they have children. That's why women come here to have kids.
This happens in the UK, but I knew a couple that lived together for a year after their divorce, simple because of financial reasons - large mortage and kids to support.
If he had really told his wife about you, she would have left him and maybe taken him to court and sued him because that's what women do in the U.S.
But they're not in the UK, they're in England and they're not American, different culture.
but it's very common in the U.S. for a 45 year old man who has been married to the same woman for awhile to say these things.
True, its the same all over the world, its called a mid life crisis.
A man will usually look for someone who lives in his city. If he looked for someone overseas it's because it's easier to hide you that way.
The Philippines is a bit far to go for a bit of slap and tickle though, wouldnt you agree? Unless this guy is quite wealthy and can afford to do it and judging by the OPs comments, he doesnt fall in that category..
Yeah I am new in this forum.What's the difference between old and new member
Coming on here and ripping in to a member who has been here for a while isnt good manners.
Yes Amthyst you are right WHATEVER WILL BE WILL BE. BE HAPPY AND FOLLOW WHAT YOUR HEART SAY.. LIKE WHAT my bf told me last night that time will tell!
I do hope for your sake he is telling the truth, but as you say, time will tell.
