Beautyful_souls
29 Dec 2015
Love / Hispanic girl Polish guy [9]
This is the first time I do this but here it goes please no judging. If your going to say something mean rather no response at all. Thanks!
So I've been dating this polish guy for a couple months now and honestly it's been great. He has always been extremely respectful with me loving and supportive. We rarely ever have any disputes and usually if there's a problem were able to fix it and get back to normal. The communication is rather great. Now he's the problem he's polish and I'm Spanish. To me that's not an issue at all and neither for my family. I don't think it's so much of his family not liking me but the fact I'm not polish. He would want someone that can have a relationship with his mother which I would love and to me it's extremely important. The thing is the family barely speaks English if any at all. I'm willing to learn polish if things work out down the road but it's not the easiest language. But I'd want to communicate with them & be able to feel apart of the family. We're both very big on family which is something I truly love about him. His fear is that his parents won't be happy if he gets in a relationship or in future marries someone who isn't polish. He would do anything for his parents and sister literally anything. Even if it means he won't be happy. He says he really wants to be together and loves the connection we have & to him that's more important than trying to find a polish girl. He says ya he could find a polish girl but it doesn't mean it'll work. He sees it as your heart chooses who u want to be with. I have not met his parents they don't know anything yet. I've only met his sister which she was very sweet spoke English and polish and made me feel comfortable.
So my thing is does anyone have experience of dating a polish guy or girl and you weren't polish and let's say met the family? How was it ?
Oh he's 27 and I'm 24
This is the first time I do this but here it goes please no judging. If your going to say something mean rather no response at all. Thanks!
So I've been dating this polish guy for a couple months now and honestly it's been great. He has always been extremely respectful with me loving and supportive. We rarely ever have any disputes and usually if there's a problem were able to fix it and get back to normal. The communication is rather great. Now he's the problem he's polish and I'm Spanish. To me that's not an issue at all and neither for my family. I don't think it's so much of his family not liking me but the fact I'm not polish. He would want someone that can have a relationship with his mother which I would love and to me it's extremely important. The thing is the family barely speaks English if any at all. I'm willing to learn polish if things work out down the road but it's not the easiest language. But I'd want to communicate with them & be able to feel apart of the family. We're both very big on family which is something I truly love about him. His fear is that his parents won't be happy if he gets in a relationship or in future marries someone who isn't polish. He would do anything for his parents and sister literally anything. Even if it means he won't be happy. He says he really wants to be together and loves the connection we have & to him that's more important than trying to find a polish girl. He says ya he could find a polish girl but it doesn't mean it'll work. He sees it as your heart chooses who u want to be with. I have not met his parents they don't know anything yet. I've only met his sister which she was very sweet spoke English and polish and made me feel comfortable.
So my thing is does anyone have experience of dating a polish guy or girl and you weren't polish and let's say met the family? How was it ?
Oh he's 27 and I'm 24