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SingleFemale   
6 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

There's this new man at work who has been telling people around him that he wants to separate from his girlfriend because she is so possessive(according to him). He isn't bad looking really; in fact one or two women have had some interest in him. I noticed that a few weeks ago he was starting to be flirty, occasionally giving a wink or two, giving that mischievous smile or that romantic stare, even at one point asking for my phone number(which I didn't give, of course). Even one of our colleagues has noticed that he seems interested in me. Now I maybe single and not dating someone at the moment but the mere idea of someone trying to hit on me while he is with someone else-I find it annoying, irritating and disgusting. I think that men should first try to sort out their relationship differences with their partners(whether they break up with them or not) before being on the look out for other women(don't you think?). I mean...if he can do this to his present partner, what more to his other future conquests?

My questions are these :

1. Do a lot of Polish men like to flirt while they're in a relationship with someone else?
2. Do Polish men tend to cheat on their partners?
3. How would you know if they genuinely like a girl or they're just playing around?

He would've been alright if not for the fact that he's younger than me(too young, I think) and has a girlfriend(and nope, I do not want to ruin any relationships). Plus, he has been incurring the ire of a few of the colleagues because of his work behavior(read: he hasn't been hard working lately).

Thanks and appreciate any replies.Just curious.
SingleFemale   
6 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

As for the man at work, keeping sex and work separate is always a good idea (unless sex is one's profession).

Well, he's not bad looking(he's tall, has a nice bod, and intelligent enough) but I'm not after him for a shag(especially as he's a colleague). And yes, keeping sex and work is a good idea. Attention from a younger man is flattering, but not when he's with someone else.

Re your answers to 1 and 2, I am now inclined to believe what a male friend once said, "Men are monogamous in marriage/partnerships, but polygamous in nature."
SingleFemale   
8 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

Thank you for sharing your story. Your story is sad but at least you have a lovely 5 month old daughter so yes, it's not all that bad or tragic. As I mentioned before, the attention is flattering(as he is younger than me) but I do not want to get involved with him, anyway, esp. as he is a colleague and is involved with someone else. I was just curious about his behavior.(and no, I don't have a thing for Polish guys. I've met only a few, including this one). I like him but not like him enough to fall for him. I don't know whether he has a wife back home but he definitely has a girlfriend here(and he keeps announcing he plans to separate from her-why he does that, I don't know).

I would assume now that they are like any other men from other cultures. Some have the roving eye, some don't. I guess women have to use their instincts first, and not just listen to their hearts when it comes to men.
SingleFemale   
8 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

now do all man do that and all women as well ? yes , yes and yes.

Nope, I disagree, not ALL. Many men and women would probably flirt and like someone else(and that applies to Polish and non Polish) but cheating? Ah, not all would tend to do that.(though it would be presumed that flirting is already a subtle form of cheating). There are still such things as loyalty and faithfulness(though they're hard to come by these days).
SingleFemale   
8 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

Interesting post,people put more input on polish men,it will give a wider idea how they are

Curiosity got the better of me. Why would a Polish chap, after being with the same person for several years, suddenly say to people around him that he was planning to leave her because she was so possessive and clingy? (and obviously it will bring about another topic-are Polish girls possessive and clingy?) Is it a form of self preservation or self-advertisement? So that when he finally decides to leave her women will form a queue? Interestingly enough, a few have found him "hot".

Of course I will agree with Ironside that some men are good, some are bad. But then I initially thought that Polish men would tend to be more old fashioned and traditional when it comes to relationships (the country being a predominantly Catholic one).

And another burning question which brings to mind as well-Do a lot of them like to have relationships with women older than them?
SingleFemale   
8 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

I have a story about a Polish man but I want to say that every person is different and it's not about the culture

Thank you for your story.( all sob stories about Polish men in this thread I noticed). now I'm beginning to think I should stay away from them haha.
SingleFemale   
8 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

You love your partner and there is much more than one reason you don't want to cheat her/him even though it doesn't mean you don't thing about it.

If you love your partner and are contented with him or her, then that's enough reason to stay loyal and not even think of cheating on him/her.
SingleFemale   
9 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

Very interesting feedback on both Polish men and women, though I am more curious about Polish men(unless I decide to change preferences LOL)

Just to be clear though, the person I am talking about is single but has a girlfriend/partner(that's what he says-unless in reality he has a wife and 3 kids back home).

But I guess flirting, cheating , and liking other women would be the same for all, whether he be married or just has a girlfriend.
SingleFemale   
9 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

I think it depends the word "single" would depend on your location/where one comes from. "Single" from my country means someone who is not married. So even if one has a girlfriend...technically he is still single.

From what I know his partner's also here with him(unless he also has a wife and 3 kids in Poland)
SingleFemale   
9 Jan 2014
Love / Questions about Polish Men - flirting, cheating, liking? [44]

The reason I say this is because Polish men 90% of the time are not physically attractive at all. There is no way they would have this much luck with British women or others.

Not to take sides, but I've only met a few Polish men and all of them are not bad-looking at all(although one one of them unfortunately is gay). Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, so to speak.
SingleFemale   
12 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

I've seen 1 or 2 Polish men I would consider handsome, the rest seem to be bordering on average

Yeah, I agree. I've met a few, the most handsome turned out to be gay(as in openly gay) and the other one...ah, he was alright in the looks department but he had a warped,twisted and most of all dry sense of humor(so dry you could pour water over it lol).
SingleFemale   
26 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

You often see too many Polish men shave their heads when many of them just can't pull that look

Can anyone tell me why some Polish men shave their heads? One Polish I know has his head shaved, and he's not bad looking, but I think he's better looking with hair.
SingleFemale   
26 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

maybe he is going bald?

That does mean majority of them go bald early in life? Because this one is not that old, late 20s...

because hair is good for fags :-)

That's a joke, right? lol
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

Jason Statham mmmmm.

Oh yes. Jason Statham. unfortunately I have yet to find a bald Polish man as hot as him. I guess I have been looking at the wrong places. lol
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

lol! So you're assuming you're as hot as Jason Statham? Carry on. Whatever floats your boat. =D
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

With what I'm reading now, I'm beginning to believe that Polish men are not good husband material.....
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

Ah alright lol. If a lot of Polish men looked a lot like Jason, I'd start setting my eye on Polish men(bald or haired).

The Polish man I know is bald and not bad looking, but I'm waiting for him to grow his hair(he might look better with it).
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

So does that mean that most(I say most because I'm not sure in general) Polish men are ultra conservative and traditional(read : ancient) when it comes men-women gender roles in marriage(and household)?

(I know how to change the light bulb and some home maintenance stuff but I still prefer equality of the sexes-both have to do their share in the household(and maintenance if possible) chores)
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

yes well good luck with that

(sigh). now I will have to ask my Polish friend if he still lives in the ancient times(you know, "you woman, I, man, you do household chores, I work") and knows how to even change a light bulb(lol). Otherwise he won't stand a chance with me.

Polish men need strong women.
Then everything will be fine.
;)

Strong in what sense?
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

yes something like that only of course you will be working as well and still be skivvy, picking up his socks and pants and so on, cleaning his skidmarks off the loo.
This is a serious warning!

Oh dear. I guess that's a global thing :(

(making clear what's acceptable and what's not, instead of hoping for a miraculous change)

Ah there's still hope. =D
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Do Polish men make good husbands? [106]

but fstop is right - you have to establish what is on and what is not right from the beginning!

Well I will give the Polish chap the benefit of the doubt.

do not leave it until it is too late!

I'm still trying to learn more about him. He seems alright, though at this stage can't determine whether he will turn out to be a good future husband or a crappy

future one.....
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

Oh, and I forgot. I'm Germanic and you're Celtic. :-)

What's the difference? (forgive my ignorance)
SingleFemale   
27 Jan 2014
Love / Are Polish men handsome to you? [182]

very few to be honest :D unfortunately

Too bad. guess have to be content with my Polish friend.lol