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Speaks Polish?: No just learning and trying
Interests: Polish language....not picking up a partner :)

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miss_happy   
1 Aug 2012
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Being female it is aways really difficult to answer a question like this, because if you are slightly negative then you are thought of as just being jealous and your opinion dismised :) but by the end of my post you will see that this is not my point :)

I have a number of Polish female friends all of whom I consider to be beautiful, I have British friends whom I also consider to be beautiful. I have been to Poland many times and seen a number of beautiful women who are alongside the ordinary women who are alongside the 'Oh dear I am sure her Daddy thinks she is beautiful' girls. The exact same can be said for British women.

What I think is the difference here sometimes is belief, the confidence you have in yourself. As a child growing up we are given messages 'glasses are ugly' 'long hair makes you pretty' 'thin is attractive, fat is ugly' 'ginger hair is ugly and horrible' 'men should be tall, dark and handsome' 'women need to have big boobs' 'men need to have huge penis' so.....if you grow up to be a tall dark and handsome man with a large penis that is exactly the way you have been told all your growing life what a man should look like so your confidence is sky high :) and everyone can see that confidence and be drawn to it in equal measure to the attractive looks. However, if you grow up knowing that this is the ideal but you happen to be short, with ginger hair and glasses with an average to smaller size penis then it is going to (potentially) effect the way you see yourself fitting in with the stereotype of percieved beauty, therefore (potentialy) your confidence is lower and because of that you don't portray yourself to your best ablity.

I suppose I am saying beauty on the outside starts with what you believe on the inside. Polish little girls are told they are the most beautiful in the world, they believe it all their growing lives and they have that confidence for when they are women. They are confident and exude that belief which makes the average looking polish woman very attractive ad beautiful :)

Alas, I am British so the stereotype (without knowing me, just based on my nationality) is that I am ugly, fat, don't care about myself and make no effort for my partner.

:)
miss_happy   
1 Aug 2012
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Where did you get such a stupid stereotype from?

It's not my stereotype, I don't have to agree, just saying :) The polish folk that I speak to, their friends and in general when I am there, one of the first things that is said to me is that I can't be English as I am not fat :)