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Posts by Lenka  

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Lenka   
8 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

Omg, sorry about that, my phone was set on Polish.

Still it's the parents who prepare the food so if you had to have a fight with someone about it it should be them
Lenka   
8 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

You'd think so, but some of them had very curious ideas about nutrition

Stilo it's The oarents WHO preparat The Good so if you nawet to have A Light with someone about it it would be them

Omg, sorry about that, my phone was set on Polish.

Still it's the parents who prepare the food so if you had to have a fight with someone about it it should be them
Lenka   
8 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

older daughter at primary school simply doesn't eat the school lunch

Most kids don't eat the school lunch. They have sandwiches and fruit/snack that they bring from home.
Pre-school is trickier.
Lenka   
8 Feb 2021
Food / Is brain-damaging vegan fad growing in Poland? [176]

the world of today is the result of our collective lack of morality

Could you point me to a time in history when the world was or at least tried to be more humane to animals?

My friend consumes meat only when she can hunt it herself or knows the origin of the product very well. Other than that she is vegetarian
Lenka   
7 Feb 2021
Off-Topic / Polish Music. [269]

Reggae was the wave after hip hop. In my surrounding it was like this- a guy liked hip hop, got into weed, started moving towards rasta and found out reggae is good for smoking and parties etc :)

I must say I heard some pretty good concerts and what always was a bonus people just had fun, little to no tensions. To this day I really enjoy it when hearing occasionally
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

such individuals usually end up sad and lonely when they get old.

Well then they suffered the consequences of their decisions but still I doubt that will convince anyone to have kids.

raise a family with 2 people working outside.

I'm the opposite, I don't understand how someone can stay many years at home. I think 2 years at a time is absolute maximum for me
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

I will let her know that putting it in writing might be a good option.

The thing is the kid already has a problem and not addressing it will only make things worse.
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

On my, not that moronic notion.

Kids shouldn't be born so you have a nurse!

Ever think what will happen if they move far, far away and won't be able to take you to the hospital? Or even worse- simply will not want to?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

When man and woman come together as a team, it actually is great to raise a family.

I did say it's rewarding. But it is a hard and constant work and is expensive.

If after an awful long day your boss calls you at 1 am and tells you you have to work through the night you say no. But kids can and do that. if your boss physically hurt you you take him to court but you just hug them even if they scratched your eye to the point of A&E visit (true story from my surrounding)

Again, raising kids can be great but to pretend it doesn't take a lot of effort is stupid and counter productive
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Now the brainwashing is against the family

Or maybe simply people realise that raising kids is a hard, never ending work that is extremely expensive?
It's rewarding but not all people want to go through it and definitely nit 3 or 4 times.

Can be done but it's stupid as it adds another challenge without anything good on the plus side.

Noone said that these women have to live in Poland (most don't probably) and even in Poland it gets much more common
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Selfish because no thought is given to the future of the mixed-race, fatherless child.

And how many couples of the same race give thought to the future of their not mixed-race, fatherless child?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

I doubt it. And even if that is the case it won't be some silly campaign telling them they should suddenly want that.

Btw, I don't think decreasing birth rate is only due to women. I think man also choose to lower the number of kids.

I actually read a book of ex-orthodox Jew and one of the things was how stressful it was economically

As to the thread topic - who cares what others think? If I happened to fall in love with a black person I wouldn't care in the slightest. Aggression of course would be different matter
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

I told her to tell the teacher that if the kid was allergic to something she wouldn't let her have it just so she is not sad, would she?

And the kid is 7, she is big enough to understand!
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

It's in UK. I was actually quite surprised she wasn't listened to.
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Doubt it. The mothernal instinct, sexual drive and not-always-thought-of contraception will take care of that.

But any dreams of returning to the past and the sex decided life roles are going to fail.
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

From what she said she spoke to the class teacher. After one conversation she picked up the kid early next day (doctors appointment)and the girl run out with a piece of brownie in her hand.

I will suggest the principal then
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

onourterms.barnard.edu/article/womens-declining-happiness/

Not a very good source. But I can find one that states single, childless women are the happiest:
Zadowolone singielki. Niezamężne i bezdzietne kobiety są szczęśliwsze kobieta.wp.pl/zadowolone-singielki-niezamezne-i-bezdzietne-kobiety-sa-szczesliwsze-6472147679823489a

"support themselves and their kids" courtesy of a lot of assistance programs from big daddy Government.

In Poland?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Food / British food products in Poland? [334]

Thank you Atch, I may try that but sounds like a lot of hassle compared to just turning them on :)
I never have that problem with Charlotte ones

By now I know on the peeling stage whether I will like them. Even raw they are different

Btw, I had a question in School meals thread if you could help :)
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Start differentiating present and past tense.

That 'carer' is about times when women weren't considered capable of making their own decisions and required a male guardian.

I would like to see these studies. And it still won't make me any less happy that I'm not dependant on a man. Double happy if we consider certain type of man from this forum.

And divorce don't bother me. Please don't mix marriage with family
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Some man couldn't, some weren't encouraged against being legally forbidden...Grow up.
Raped man are to me exactly the same victims as women . I'm more than willing to encourage and support a campaign and programs addressing it. The difference is that rape in a relationship wasn't recognised by law.

Most divorces are finished without a man having any responsibility for the women.
As to sexually abusing kids,care to give us any data as the general agreement is that man are quite ahead in that?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Why should it give anything to man if they already had all those things? But of course if you want we can strip man off all those and then after many years give it back to them. How is that for equality?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Feminism gave me the right to vote, go to school and be independent of a male 'carer' . It gave me the right to look for justice if I get raped, even if it's my partner/husband that did it and much more. It also didn't stop me having the family I want (where I choose what I want and not fate)

What do you offer if?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

Anyone but mostly Atch:
My friend has a problem. Her kid has rotten teeth (and it went also on her few adult teeth). The kid has
School meals and every day something sweet. The mother asked multiple times but the only response was that she will feel bad if she is the only kid without something sweet. What can she do?