History / What should Russia and Poland do to become if not friends, then at least not enemies? [945]


And that is before the last, most difficult part- she must find you interesting/attractive too.


Part of it is simply can't. Work and small kids don't go together with big social life with single friends.
Part of it - they have less and less in common with you.

History / What should Russia and Poland do to become if not friends, then at least not enemies? [945]


Sorry, thought that is an issue.


From what I heard/read that is roughly when usually the first bigger crisis hits.

Your dad criteria is not very sensible in my opinion as in our generation and geographical location there have been a fair share of dad's that were so bad it would have been better if he wasn't there. But I guess your 'good family' covers that.


Young, pretty, intelligent and educated, multilingual from good family and good financial standing...

History / What should Russia and Poland do to become if not friends, then at least not enemies? [945]


While I can understand not wanting to be a step dad (it is a huge responsibility right from the start) why would her being divorced matter?

And to be honest, why would such an amazing women be with you when, by your own admission, you can't even really love her?

Work / How can I found job for Hebrew speakers in Poland? [46]


When I was still attending church most people shook hands. But I attended mass almost only in Silesia

Life / Poles are not racist [873]


No, but the experience of blackface and resulting emotions are.


No, I would prefer they would finally understand they are not the whole world, their world view is 'not the one,true and only' and certain things may have different implications in different parts of the world.

Quite frankly I find this attitude very imperialistic.

Life / Poles are not racist [873]


Buahaha

Why push certain countries hang ups on others? We have enough on our own


The thing was it wasn't a blackface.

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]

I meant only the part about working minimum full time.


Trust him that he doesn't get sick or die?

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]


Great:)
Enjoy your family :)

Off-Topic / Random Sports News [855]

Special for Crno:

Poland kicked Serbia's ass*s out of European Championship in volleyball:)

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]


Financial independence, not being able to stay at home completely for more than about 1-1.5 year, enjoying working. Hating being solely responsible for house chores. Need more?


Sorry but what do you mean?


I enjoy DYI. Give me a flat pack and I'm happy.

And the crazy feminist tell me exactly what I feel myself- that I don't have to stay at home or be solely responsible for house chores. That there can be balance.

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]


Because they don't do it. Believe, girls are not born with the knowledge how to cook, clean etc. We learn. Do you want to tell me that an adult man is not capable of distinguish, vacuuming and following a recipe?


It doesn't have to be but more and more women decide that they don't like that division. Plus unless a women is not working at all it makes it u fair.

Life / Why is women-hatred and stereotyping so popular in Poland? [181]

O completely agree. It's like disabled kids in Poland. All are for protecting their lives in pregnancy, doesn't give a shi* once born.

Life / Why is women-hatred and stereotyping so popular in Poland? [181]


It's very relevant.
We don't force people to donate Blood or organs even when it can save a life. But we do force women to be unwillingly carry a baby.

That being said I'm not a supporter of late abortions beside medical issues

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]


Of course not but you gave it as an example of how you have time for your kids.


Neither. I'd rather we both worked and both took care of home and kids.

But tbh if the kids and cares were really taken care of I would rather work.

Somehow guys don't jumping on those 'not that hard chores'

Life / Why is women-hatred and stereotyping so popular in Poland? [181]


Which people that advocate such rules (and it's not that many) it's the part that +1 baby isn't in somebody's else body.

Life / Why is women-hatred and stereotyping so popular in Poland? [181]

Personally I don't know a single women that would be fighting for that.

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]


So your kids do homework after 19:30?
In most homes I knew that was time when kids were having their bed time phase.


How do you know she doesn't?

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]



That means that Monday to Friday you work over 12 hours a day.
What time do you actually do that homework with them?


Paulina never said if she has kids. It's possible she is a mother.

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]


Apparently it makes up for going to park with your Daddy. To each their own.

And yes Kania, I would rather have my kids going to state school than have their father being basically gone from their life.

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]


Usually both work.


I'd rather have less materiał things and have a father, partner etc that is actually there when I need him.

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]


I'm Polska A and I see tge same you so.

News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]

While I do know of some man that may take a gig or two outside of their Jobs 95% of man I know and knew had 1 job. In fact it was my mom that at times worked more than one job due to the demand.

Life / The Polish Wedding - What is it Like in Poland? [338]


Or maybe simply the women in those households are better at it? Or the women has better idea how to devide the money from all that 'homemaking duties'.

Life / Polish authors, books & literature. [125]

I know Brzechwa, doesn't mean I like him :)

Life / The Polish Wedding - What is it Like in Poland? [338]


While weird that would be OK, but all that margines spoleczny crap?

As to the freil and emotional? Well, Paulina showed the best answer with the article.

Life / Polish authors, books & literature. [125]

I must say I never was a big Brzechwa fan. I prefer Tuwim.

Life / The Polish Wedding - What is it Like in Poland? [338]


Yyy, the couple's decision about who keeps the money is enough to assign somebody to margines społeczny. Not how they spend they money or even if they have any money to keep? Wow...

History / Historical look at various civilisational differences between Russia and the West [159]


I think it's enough to read few of Velund's and Crno3 posts to wonder why you'd ever like anything Russian.


But at first killed many in Union with the Nazis.

Life / Polish females who made it [29]


We also have to rememberthat marrying a girl to a wealthy man was often the only way to secure her economically in the future. Today a woman can marry a poor man and still secure her living by her own work. Back then she could only rely on man.

Life / In Poland on holiday - need help with bad case of homesickness [108]


It will be 10 years soon.


I meant compared to UK:)

I slightly recovered and I'm back from my holiday.
The funny thing is when I like two sides for the same issue. E.g.:

I like that doctors, nurses etc are being polite, more partner-ish etc in UK but I hate that the hard truths are being glossed over,

Example that I came across was a pregnant women (just the beginning of pregnancy) with BMI 30 was told that it's fine. While I understand that she shouldn't go on a diet or anything in that time I would like a middle ground when she would be informed that it's too high and care has to be put into healthy food.

Or H&s:
I like the care put into h&S measures in UK but I also like the feeling of personal responsibility that comes with the more relaxed Polish approach.