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Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

They usually don't though.

According to you. Those foreign men I mentioned apparently have a different opinion.

Read my early posts in this thread about this problem and how women react negatively in public and the workplace when anyone tries to point this out to them.

Your post was about American workplace though. What American women wear is an American problem. So don't project American problems on Polish society.

women are known for their procrastination

No, actually it's men who are known for that - or, to be more precise - husbands :)))
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

Men are better than women at spotting fine details

From what I remember I've read it's the other way around.
Also, men often don't know what jewelry their own wife likes and you're trying to tell me that you remember every outfit and accessory that every woman you meet wears every time? lol Sorry, but unless you're completely obsessed with what women are wearing (which would be very weird) - I'm just not buying that o_O

You mean moth-worn because you waited too long.

No. As I wrote already - there are no clothes moths at my place. My clothes fall apart from me wearing them. Which happens rarely and usually only with clothes made from thin materials that I wear often.

they are not frugal when it comes to showing off and don't care about the impact it has on the environment, their own purse or the wallets of the men who put up with them.

That's really touching that you suddenly care so much about the environment :D, but don't those women work? You only ever meet non-working housewives? :)

How do you know where they shop? Do these foreign men stalk them and report back to you?

You'd have to ask those men :)

Do you stalk them and take notes yourself?

No, but I'm guessing where they may be shopping. They may be shopping Polish fashion brands, for example, which are cheaper than Western ones.
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

I don't know. It sounds very unsanitary.

Probably less unsanitary then trying on clothes in a store that were tried on by hundreds of people before. And you can wash clothes, you know lol
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

Like I said they always wear something once. This isn't an exaggeration either.

I honestly don't know whether to believe you, because you exaggerate and lie often. Also, as I wrote - I'm guessing that you don't meet those women on daily basis.

Another thing - how on Earth do you keep track of what they wear? Do you take notes? lol

Even you will then throw them away when they become too dated, too moth-worn or too small to fit into any more.

I already explained it to you, you little liar, that I only throw away clothes "if they literally fall apart". If they become too dated then I take them to my grandma's place, so they could be worn when working in the field or as rags for cleaning. Sometimes my mother uses them to sew new clothes for my little niece. And I don't have clothes moths at my place, so my clothes don't get moth-worn. I still have some clothes from my teenage and college years and I still wear winter jacket from my college years, imagine that. 🤷

Still, the clothes get throw them away.

Not in my family.

Whether the Polish women I know do it in the the same year or pilled up in a closet and thrown out in another year it doesn't matter.

But you don't know what those women are doing with their clothes. You're lying.

they look completely out of their league when you know they live with their parents or in a tiny, cheap apartment.

I've seen foreign men commenting on PF that Polish women know how to shop at affordable stores in such a way as to look good. What's wrong with that? You'd rather they looked bad? Are you jealous or something? :D
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

If that's really the case then either those women are rich, or they are master sale hunters or you simply don't meet them on daily basis.

There's also another option - you can rent clothes these days :) So, for example, if you have a wedding or some fancy party to attend and you don't want to buy a dress that you're going to wear once or twice you can simply rent it and give it back after the event.
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

I know many Polish women both personally and professionally.

But you don't live with one, so how would you know what they do with their clothes? :)))

But wasn't there a comment made on here recently by a different poster saying they believed you were actually a man posting as a woman? :)

I don't care what some random stranger on the internet who doesn't know me in real life "believes" when I pi$$ him or her off lol I am a woman :)

Anyway, at every meeting, at every event (formal and informal) with them each one always wears a different outfit each time.

Poloniusz - the female fashion detective :D It may seem like that, but it may simply mean that they cleverly mix different pieces of clothing. I really doubt that you can tell (unless you're gay? lol).

Nothing is worn twice or mixed and matched. Nothing.

This includes the accessories.

If that's really the case then either those women are rich, or they are master sale hunters or you simply don't meet them on daily basis.

Either way - it doesn't mean that they wear those clothes once and then throw them away. I don't know any woman who would do that.

Based on your posts you seem to have a lot more in common with them than the typical Polish women I know.

I don't know what you mean. If you mean my looks/clothes then I have long hair and wearing jeans is normal for women in my city. I also wear the right shoes for the right occasions lol

So, Poloniusz, is Beata Szydło a "butch lesbian", according to you? :D And where do you live??
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

Sorry, but I just have to comment on this:

Granted women will wear something once and throw it away

I only throw away clothes if they literally fall apart. If I know I won't wear some clothes anymore I either give them to my female cousins if they're in a good shape, leave them at my grandma's so they could be used when working in the field or in the garden or as rags for cleaning or I donate them to charity. It's also always been a kind of "tradition" in my family that women would leave their kids' clothes for younger kids in the family. The same with toys - they'd be passed on to younger generation. Even nowadays if I know that I won't wear some shoes and they're in a good condition I give them to my aunt who has the same shoe size as me.

My mother doesn't throw anything at all, because she's very tight-fisted.

You could say that in my family nothing goes to waste and it's the women who take care of that.

I do have some clothes that I haven't worn yet, but I don't throw them away - they're waiting patiently for their turn :)))
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

Btw, my boss looked like a younger, prettier and slimmer version of Beata Szydło, but with blonde hair and without the usual Szydło's brooch:

Szydło

I didn't know that Szydło is a "butch lesbian" :D
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

I pointed this out earlier and the harmful impact it is having on the environment. You said you didn't care because at least someone is making money off of it.

No, I didn't write that I don't care about "harmful impact it is having on the environment" (which I'm sure is lesser than that of all the plastic that is being thrown away by both men and women :)) That comment of mine was an answer to this: "Women are still the largest segment when it comes to buying and following fashion trends."

Fashion industry provides work for many people and that's a fact.

You know what I am talking about

No, I don't really know what such a f*cked up misogynist like you has in mind, so please, explain it to me :)))
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

and then you said you wear that for shopping and to the park.

Not really, firstly, I asked you whether "wearing jeans and trainers when going shopping or to the park is "revolting" to you".
Secondly, when I wrote that I can't imagine my life without jeans and trainers I didn't specify when and where I wear them, so I didn't change any "setting" or "my story".

Women always have closets full of clothing worn once (if that)

You either have no experience of living with a woman or American women differ greatly from Polish women (which I doubt that they differ that much).

You need to work in a real office that is busy and with heterosexual men and women working there. Not some hideaway back office operation managed by a butch lesbian.

I already explained it to you that I worked in a big company with heterosexual men and women working there and the boss that was directly over me wasn't a butch lesbian, but a heterosexual married woman. Do you have reading comprehension problems? :)

The world is my domain with Poland at the center. :)

What a coward you are! :) Are you that ashamed of where you live? Why? 🤔
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

. But your earlier description of your workplace sounds like it is run by a lesbian so it is highly unlikely any men ever worked there

LOL
Well, you're wrong, as usual :) She was married to a guy (who was an alcoholic, unfortunately) and was feminine, it's just she dressed modestly. And it was a big company, so of course there were men working there :) Her boss was a guy, for example.
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

You lost the argument and that's why you needed to change the setting of when you dress inappropriately

I didn't lose any argument and I didn't change any setting. I didn't write when and where I wear jeans and trainers. I only wrote that I couldn't imagine my life without them (as in - if they didn't exist at all) and not that I wear them all the time and everywhere o_O

Granted women will wear something once and throw it away

That usually pertains only to menstrual pads, but I'm guessing that a guy like you who's never been with a woman doesn't know such things :)))

don't tell me revealing clothing like that is limited to private bedrooms and street protests.

Depends what you mean by "revealing clothing like that". If you mean being half naked with a tape put over your breasts then I certainly haven't seen it anywhere.

Woman will wear elements of that at work and make sure to reveal it to key males they want to manipulate for sex and/or promotion. It happens all the time.

Where? Where does it happen "all the time"? Do you have any real life examples from your own experience? :)

After you, women first! :)

But that's not a secret - I often write where I live - Poland, Holy Cross region, Kielce :)

Now your turn - where do you live, Poloniusz? :)))
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

@Torq, that's a pity if being a decent human being "bores" you. That's not very Christian of you.

Remember:

"So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets."
(Matthew 7:12)
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

That kind of attitude towards women look actually has the opposite effect on me. It makes me care even less what I wear.

I know what you mean.

*yaaaaaawn*

Grow up.
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

Oh, you're such a gloomy pill, Paulina.

No, I think that making fun of people's looks is in bad taste and is a proof of bad character. You're simply being a bully.

Cheer up :)

I wonder how would you feel if a bunch of women would made fun of your looks :)

In your dreams. :)

Yeah, it's easy to make fun of other people's looks, isn't it. Weakling.
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

She could very easily destroy patriarchate just by sitting on it.

That's a low life comment. How about you post your photo, so we could have a laugh too :)

🤣🤣🤣. Now that's funny!

You can post your photo too, Mr Beautiful :)))
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

Changing your story as you go along I see.

No, that's what you're doing here:

Really?

Yes, really. We're discussing work place environment now and not street protests.

Where do YOU live, Paulina?

I asked you first. So, where do you live? Are you ashamed to admit where you live? :)
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

If you do 't understand what I mean, I can't do or don't care to help you understand it. I'm not much into forum pedantry.

It's not "pedantry". I'm honestly curious what bothers you exactly in the way people dress and why.

It was you and your female cohort who made your admissions:

Wearing jeans and trainers when going shopping or to the park is "revolting" to you?? :D 🤦

This is such a problem that even HR departments try to address it

Maybe in the US. I haven't noticed such a problem where I live. Where do you live, Poloniusz?

Have you ever worked in a 21st century office environment which tried to formally publish and enforce a dress code? No, clearly you haven't.

I worked in a 21st century corpo and the dress code depended on what kind of job you were doing. The management was wearing typical office attire and IT people - pretty ordinary, casual clothes - nothing inappropriate or revealing though. My female boss had short hair and wore bland office attire, no make up and no jewelry even.
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

Of course it's a general statement, as we are talking about a general topic.

Yes, but "lack of modesty, courtesy, self-awareness, and taste" may mean different things to different people.

Examples: women who dress and leave nothing to the imagination

Again - this is subjective. So what does it mean to you?

men who dress like they are in a locker room

I have no idea what this means. You mean wearing sportswear?

Fat people who let it all hang out.

I am yet to see obese people walking in the street with their naked bellies hanging out. Is this what it's like in the US?
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

However, in Europe they survived into modernity mostly as a part of prison/social margin culture. Well, sailors had them too. :)

And nowadays soldiers and police officers wear them too, so you'll have to learn to live with that, I'm afraid :)))

Don't compare children playing at their granma's house in the countryside to adults walking the streets of cities.

I will, because it's the same mentality - appearances more important than comfort and common sense.

We live in a decadent, dying out, society, so it's only natural that the dress code is practically non-existent.

Bullsh1t. There's still a dress code - in the street and at work and for different occasions, etc.
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

@AntV, that is a rather general statement, so I'd appreciate some examples of what you mean. 🤔
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

Prison "culture" entering everyday life.

lol
Tattoos have been present in many cultures around the world for thousands of years and ignorant people like you behave as if prisoners have invented them :)))

Most people tried to dress smartly even under communism

In the past people cared more about appearances. I remember how my mother would obsess over me getting my clothes dirty when I would go out to play outside in the playground when I was a kid, because "what neighbours will think". I hated it. I felt free only at my grandma's in the countryside, because noone would see me in the yard and I could play as I wanted to.

But, what's happening nowadays is unseemly slobdom that is uncivilized.

Meaning?
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

You can thank feminism, sexual liberation for women and ultimately "SlutWalks" for the pathetic and even revolting way women "dress" in public.

In what kind of neighbourhood do you live, if women there dress in a "revolting" way? lol Or better yet - which country? 🤔

Women also dress trashy in the workplace because they know they lack other skills so it is the only trick that works in getting advanced

You're sick from hate towards women. Get help.

Women are still the largest segment when it comes to buying and following fashion trends.

So? Someone is making money on making those clothes.

Sorry but I love jeans and trainers.

It's not that I "love" them, but I simply can't imagine my life without them :)
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

Yeah, we've gone way too far with casual slobdom.

Not in Poland, imho... People here don't come to the store in the mornings wearing pyjamas :)

In all honestly however, even though I like it when people dress nice, I prefer it that nowadays comfort is more important than superficial appearances. 🤔

and if they wanted a pįss or worse when they were out and about, they just squatted over the gutter

Eww...

In the days before washing machines, those long skirts must have been a real hassle and permanently mucky.

Yup. Of course, those two ladies in the photo probably weren't washing them themselves - their servants were doing it for them...

there have to be weight limits introduced for certain items of clothing and police should come down like a ton of bricks on women who don't respect the limits.

Why only on women? How about half naked men on the coast coming to stores and restaurants like they're still on the beach? 🤨
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

The women's clothes look uncomfortable and constricting, though warm.

And ugly. Grandma clothes. 😒
Also - unpractical, because those long skirts would get dirty quickly during autumn and winter time.

The men's suits aren't that different from how I dress now.

Exactly.
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

@Torq, no, I'm just bluntly expressing what I think about your comment :)
Paulina   
16 Jun 2024
History / Pol-Shorpy Photo Thread [950]

Before we make fun of India or joke about Cанитарные Bойска, we would be well advised to remember that (...) on the threshold of the 20th century there was no running water (...) Europe.

Sorry, Torq, but this is a nonsense comment... That was over a centaury ago. In case you haven't noticed - a lot changed in Europe during one century lol

one cannot help but wonder what went wrong meanwhile?

You mean what went wrong with your head? I don't know, you tell me - it's your head after all... 🤔
Paulina   
12 Jun 2024
News / Referendum to decide about exotic immigrants in Poland [559]

@gumishu, not necessarily. Giving them a visa and them staying in Poland are two different things, as we found out, especially if that would happen during the period of 8 years. It would also depend on where someone lives - big city, a town, a village, etc.

because it would be readily visible around you

Well, even in my local Biedronka I've seen in more recent years groups of young men that look like they're from Pakistan/India/Bangladesh (and I live in Kielce and not some big city like Warsaw). My guess is that they're probably students, but who knows what other people might think...
Paulina   
12 Jun 2024
News / Referendum to decide about exotic immigrants in Poland [559]

can I call those people who believed (...) stupid , too

I don't think it's as easy for an ordinary person to verify how many visas were given to foreigners or how many money were "drained from the Polish state budget by VAT fraudsters" as is looking around you and checking whether your own country in which you live is "in ruin" or not lol
Paulina   
12 Jun 2024
News / Referendum to decide about exotic immigrants in Poland [559]

so how come people believed in that lie if it wasn't true at all

Because they were stupid? I honestly don't know how anyone with half a brain could believe that "Poland in ruin" bullsh1t.