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Paulina   
28 Mar 2024
Life / Fresh water fishing in Poland [31]

When the weather is appropriate is there much freshwater fishing in Poland?

I'm not sure what you mean by "much"... Obviously people are doing freshwater fishing in Poland... :) It's apparently one of the most popular hobbies and there are roughly 2 million anglers in Poland.

And what sorts of fish?

No idea. I had a boyfriend from one of the Polish port cities who was into fish and maritime stuff, I even translated some things for him into English, but I can't remember any of it lol

I know though that if you're a Polish citizen older than 14 years old you have to have the "angler's card" (fishing licence?) and know which fish you can fish, how big, where, when, etc. You have to take an exam in order to get this card and you have to have it on you when you're fishing.

If you're a foreigner who's only temporarily on the territory of Poland, you don't have to have the "angler's card" though.

What are some of the most scenic places to go?

The Masurian Lake District would be my guess.

Mazury
Paulina   
28 Mar 2024
News / THE ARMY OF POLAND - THE REALITY [493]

If you don't train, you won't be able to fight.

I know, I know... But 5 deaths in one month is rather unusual (at least by Polish army standards).

The Polish army doesn't have to train.

I'm sure Trump would disagree lol

Deaths frequently happen in the USA services.

I know. Apparently more US soldiers die in training than in combat. But in the US they also do "safety reviews" if "too many" die in a short time span:

news.usni.org/2023/08/30/marines-call-for-safety-standdown-after-5-marines-die-in-august-training-accidents

When my brother went into military this was one of the things I was afraid of most - that he will die or get maimed in one of those accidents.
Paulina   
27 Mar 2024
News / THE ARMY OF POLAND - THE REALITY [493]

After a series of deadly accidents during military training this month the Minister of Defense decided to halt some types of training in the Polish army. Officers agree that it's a good move - the situation should be investigated and improved:

o2.pl/informacje/sprawdzic-wyjasnic-i-do-boju-czarna-seria-wypadkow-na-szkoleniach-wojska-7010435315456992a

At the beginning of March two soldiers were ran over by a military tracked vehicle at an army test range in northwestern Poland. The accident took place at the Land Forces Training Center in Drawsko Pomorskie.

On Monday this week two soldiers from the 5th Chemical Regiment died during a training with explosives.

Yesterday a soldier from Special Forces unit NIL died during training in the Tatra Mountains.

🕯️😢
Paulina   
22 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

@Novichok, your "detector" is malfunctioning then. I feel neither disappointment nor outrage. I feel for those people, but it's a complicated issue.
Paulina   
22 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

On a healthy child???????

As I wrote:

but in practice - it's not really possible, I guess...

Paulina   
22 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

Men in these white nightgowns with a black ring on their heads look like saints, women all in black with covered hair look like devils.

Yup, it gave me such associations too...

From what I understand the point of those dark colours is that the body shape is less visible in them. You can see this in that photo of the Crown Prince of Dubai and a woman walking next to him that I posted. Those traditional white robes for men are more see-through and you can see the body shape better, while women's bodies in that photo are just big black spots. So I guess men can look all hot and sexy and "tempting", while women - nope...

How does one "transition" fully vs partially?

I meant hormonal treatment, because that's what affects the height and muscle mass (and that's what counts in sports) and not whether you have a d1ck cut off or not.

Long hair on men is a bit like facial piercing. It only suits about 10% of those who do it.

Well, not every look suits everyone... The same can be said about short hair on women, I guess...
Paulina   
22 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

Do you think a man can be a woman

Not at this point in time.

and compete with women in sports

In theory - yes, if he transitioned fully at an early enough age, but in practice - it's not really possible, I guess...

even worse than the dark clothes are the primitive compulsions to cover hair and/or face....

Yes.

it's a hideous look and the philosophy behind it is hideous as well....

I don't think the look itself is hideous, but it isn't fair that men can wear white and women can't wear light colours and have to cover their hair pretty tightly, especially in a hot climate - that's pretty cruel. And yes - the "philosophy" behind it is what puts me off the most.
Paulina   
22 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

@Alien, yes, women have it worse in life, what can I say... lol
Paulina   
22 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

I think of Saudi/Gulf state Arab men as wearing nightgowns....

I honestly like how men there look and move in those "nightgowns" lol Darker complexion and white colour creates nice contrast and those robes are not as depressing as the dark clothes of Muslim women...
Paulina   
22 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

Kilts in Scotland (and only in the highlands

Yes, that's what I meant :)

Scottishkilt

Btw, didn't they wear kilts in Ireland too? 🤔

however in much of the Middle East and most of Africa men wear garments similar to dresses.

Yes and as a heterosexual woman I like how men look in them, actually, so I see nothing "unmanly" in them lol

Fazza

Very comfortable and they suit hot weather well.

In ancient times men were wearing robes and nooone saw anything wrong with that.

What's next? "Men cannot have long hair, just as women cannot have short hair"? lol 🙄

Aquaman

NataliePortman
Paulina   
22 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

@Alien, sorry, but you'll have to do better than that. Women do wear trousers these days and in some countries men used to wear skirts and still put them on for some occasions (Scotland) lol 🤦
Paulina   
22 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

I like doing it because this is how you test idiotic ideas.

No, that's how you avoid having a serious, adult discussion on difficult topics.

it's just that neither men nor women can cope with this new division of roles

And why do you think that? And what do you mean by this "new division of roles" exactly?

the first male person in our company to go on maternity leave. This ultimately cost me my job

Well, well, welcome to the women's world then! lol My sister-in -law's going on maternity leave also ultimately cost her her job.
Paulina   
21 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

@Novichok, I know that you like to take things to the ad absurdum level, but I think that Alien didn't mean things that men are physically incapable of in a marriage :))
Paulina   
21 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

@Alien, are you one of those sexist, selfish a-holes who are too lazy to let go of that "division of roles in marriages" and wish it was preserved? :)

Especially as the division of roles in marriages has changed.

Please explain what it has to do with the survival rate of marriages :))
Paulina   
21 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

Have you ever trained or participated in a sport for a long time? It can be amazing therapeutic.

No, I haven't, but I think I can somewhat understand this - painting is like that for me. It is therapeutic - when you're painting you focus only on that, it takes your mind off things, it can be an escape, something to help you get through stuff. But, to be honest, if someone very close to me died - a husband or a child - I wouldn't give a sh1t about painting... I think painting could prove to be therapeutic some time after the death, but not right away...

Sitting on the floor and pouring ashes over your head is of course nice and desirable - but not everyone can do that, Paulina.

There's nothing "nice" or "desirable" about sitting on the floor and pouring ashes over your head. I'm just talking about a normal human reaction to the sudden death of someone you loved very much...
Paulina   
21 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

Besides she said they weren't together anymore.

Ah, sorry, I had no idea about that when I wrote my comment... I assumed that if he was with her in Miami then they were together. It must've been a recent development... That changes things.

According to his ex-wife it's possible that he got drunk and fell off the balcony:

telegraph.co.uk/tennis/2024/03/20/aryna-sabalenka-konstantin-koltsov-death-break-up/

Not to mention that being a sociopath is not a crime.

I don't claim that is.

noone can help the way they feel (or don't)

Apparently that's not the case with sociopaths - from what I've read.
Paulina   
21 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

@Bobko, I don't know, for me the death of a grandmother is something different than the death of a spouse or "the love of my life" or your own kid...

Some people go and play basketball the next day after their father was murdered, and play the best game of their life.

Some people go into the boxing ring, the same night their mother died

Not everyone loves their parents (and not all parents deserve that love).
Paulina   
21 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

@Lenka, true, but I guess there are some limits for me... The guy isn't even buried yet...

We all deal differently.

Sure, but there are also different people in this world - including sociopaths, for example. So I'm wondering what's the deal with her, because this is defenitely an unusual behaviour for me... I remember that when I was watching the first interview with little Magda's parents - when everybody still thought that she was kidnapped - her mother was crying (like with real tears and all) and pleading with the "kidnapper" to return her daughter, but I could somehow tell that she's faking it. I just didn't understand at that time why she's pretending to be distressed. When it turned out that she killed her daughter - I wasn't surprised.

Of course, I'm not saying that this tennis player pushed her boyfriend out of the balcony (although it did cross my mind for a second).
Paulina   
20 Mar 2024
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [765]

Damn... Can anyone explain this, because this is not normal to me:

cbssports.com/tennis/news/tennis-star-aryna-sabalenka-will-play-in-miami-open-in-wake-of-the-sudden-death-of-her-boyfriend/

I wonder what she would do if her kid killed itself - would she decide to play anyway too? o_O'

IceQueen

🥶
Paulina   
11 Mar 2024
History / History of Polish-Russian relations [186]

Paulina you need to study more history, if you hope to continue debating.

Bobko, you need to study more Polish history, and not RuSSian version or your personal version of it, if you hope to continue debating Polish history :)

The Marquis de Lafayette, despite being an aristocrat and one of the richest men in France

That's all great, but the thing is that we're not discussing French history. We're discussing Polish history. Czartoryski being a Prince is just a fun fact that I provided for you. It's a detail, not my main argument :) Did you read the November Uprising's manifesto that I linked for you?

You may or may not like elites, but they exist, and they are necessary for the masses to be mobilized.

Czartoryski didn't mobilize anyone. He was made the head of the Provisional Government not entirely out of his will.
Paulina   
10 Mar 2024
Love / What would be a traditional wedding ring for a man? [6]

@BlendedLife, another thing to consider - how will you choose the size of the wedding ring? Does your partner wear any rings? It would be a good idea for him to try it on first to check if it's comfortable to wear on daily basis, imho.
Paulina   
10 Mar 2024
Life / Womans day in Poland? [242]

So? I don't trust them either.

Well, when my grandma ended up in hospital with a broken pelvis, it was you who gave a lecture about skeptical/critical family members of patients making life harder for doctors and you pointed out that you have doctors in your family... So I find it ironic that you don't trust doctors yourself :))
Paulina   
10 Mar 2024
Life / Womans day in Poland? [242]

@Bratwurst Boy, that's why I always try to check opinions about doctors online before picking one, if it's possible.

Myself personally I hate doctors. I would rather be sick for weeks than subject myself to their "care".

But don't you have doctors in your family? lol 👀
Paulina   
10 Mar 2024
Life / Womans day in Poland? [242]

For most guys I know - it's their significant other sending them around to doctors.

Most guys are terribly afraid of doctors for one reason or another.

Yes, you'd have to drag my father with a horse to a doctor and it was usually my mother and me trying to talk him into going. It was only when things got really bad - like he was in a lot of pain or ended up in hospital it got better and now you don't have to convince him - he's going on his own.

Most are just not uptodate with the newest scientific developments since they left med school!

I don't know about most, but I've definitely had experiences with some doctors who knew less than me or were simply wrong (about pretty basic stuff that a doctor with their specialisation should know) o_O
Paulina   
10 Mar 2024
Love / What would be a traditional wedding ring for a man? [6]

But before I buy one, can anyone advise if there's a traditional style, or metal or anything else, that a Polish man's wedding ring would usually be expected to have?

I'd say that the most traditional wedding ring is classic, plain gold ring:

allegro.pl/oferta/zlota-obraczka-meska-585-14k-polskie-obraczki-r-11-12507532021

But it really depends on what your partner likes...

I think couples usually buy wedding rings together - after all you're supposed to wear it for the rest of your lives, so it's best if both of you like them... I personally wouldn't turn it into a surprise gift - in my opinion buying wedding rings together is romantic :) - but that's just my take on it :))
Paulina   
10 Mar 2024
Life / Womans day in Poland? [242]

Paulina`s wishes weren`t for you.

Yes, my wishes definitely weren't for johnny_reb/Ironside :)))
Paulina   
10 Mar 2024
Life / Womans day in Poland? [242]

Do even those mothers who are responsible and provide care for their children treat them as equals?

Of course they don't.

Yes, according to this survey majority of mothers treat their sons better than their daughters (I experienced this first-hand from my own mother):

theguardian.com/society/2010/oct/06/most-mums-favour-sons-survey

That's wrong though and stems from those mothers being raised in a patriarchal society.

Such women only care for their children as a longterm investment for their own benefit

That depends on a particular individual. There are women and men who are like that, but there are many others (women and men) who aren't like that.

they know they will send their husbands to an early grave

A quote from a Polish article on WP abcZdrowie titled "Polish men live 8 years shorter than Polish women. National Health Fund is giving causes.":

"5. Men who are in a relationship are healthier

Scientists from Harvard Medical School have proven that men who are in relationships are healthier (especially if they're married), they are three times less likely to develop cardiovascular diseases and they live longer. The partner's role can't be underestimated also in Poland. The portal uPacjenta has conducted a poll which results show that:

- men in relationships are more convinced about the necessity of preventive examinations: 80% of them think they're necessary (only 60% of single men think the same),

- 25% of men declare that they're usually being reminded about examinations by their other half."

they will still need someone around to take over his responsibilities of providing for her.

In Poland women have retirement pensions (if they worked) or so called family pensions (if they were housewives and didn't work).
Paulina   
10 Mar 2024
Life / Womans day in Poland? [242]

Let me know when Men's Day will be celebrated so I will trans back to a man.

Today :) At least in Poland :)) (the International Men's Day is on November 19)

Best wishes to all non-misogynist men on this forum! :)))

PolishMensDay
Paulina   
9 Mar 2024
Life / Womans day in Poland? [242]

No, men provided women care, protection and provision for millennia.

While not giving them equal rights and opportunities for millennia and treating them like subhumans.

Oh, so you approve that this "man" conformed to your expectations.

Yes, this man "conformed" to my expectations of being a decent human being condemning rapists and murderers lol And why "man"?

Yeah, you don't respect him and you know it otherwise you would have said so.

You're either seriously sick in the head or you're a very dishonest manipulator. You claimed that "women don't appreciate anything men do for them" and that's why I wrote that I appreciate what Żartowniś Ponury did. You didn't write anything about respect and camels and so I didn't write anything about respect and camels either o_O