Love / Polish men calling polish girl for dating englishman [80]


You've just offended maybe 90% of this forum, including some of the most beautiful, intelligent, educated and decent women in the world - Polka :-)

Love / Best way to find a Polish husband...ideas? [120]

I think the best way to find a wonderful husband is to stop looking for one, or rather to stop looking for someone who meets a very specific set of criteria such as ethnicity, age, type of hme town etc. Better to be open to new experiences and look forthe goodness in everyone. You might be surprised by what you find... and you might just fall in love with it too :-).

Love / How i can make a relationship with a Polish girl? [20]


IMO independence and rebellion are desirable qualities in a woman. I agree Polish girls tend to value their independence and self respect. Which is one of the many reasons why they're the best :-)

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

Of course there are huge variations among Polish or British women. But on average, I do think Polish women are more beautiful. It isn't just that they're slimmer, due to better diets, but it's also genetic. Although both nationalities are broadly Caucasian, of course due to the histories of our countries and their locations there are other influences in our gene pools. I think that the mix of Germanic and Slavic heritages of most Polish people contribute to women from that wonderful country being exceptionally attractive.

Likewise I think that the cultural differences favour Polish women. Catholicism means a respect for the family and intergenerational care, while exposure to the Soviet era I think makes Polish people care more about freedom and self-reliance, which British people sometimes take for granted.

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

Kaz, I'm interested that you think Polish women aren't particularly self-reliant, as the ones I've met have seemed pretty independent. Also a while back I started a thread asking whether Polka prefer wearing skirts or trousers and one woman replied saying "trousers, because we like to be independent".

BTW, are you Polish, British or some other nationality?

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

Tommy, I don't know. kaz seems quite critical of Polish women, but this doesn't necessarily mean she's British (or Polish either...)

Travel / Driving to poland from the west midlands [11]

You have to carry a breathalyser in France.

Love / Chastity rings in Poland - bad news for 'dziwkarze' [42]

I think if a girl or young woman in Poland or anywhere else has the self-control and self-respect to commit herself to remain pure until marriage she should be admired for it. The chastity ring signals her decision to men. Some kinds of men will love her for her decision, others will shun her. The ones who shun her are unlikely to be worthy of her love.

Love / Any English guys give me advice please. Are Polish women very different to English women? [46]

Of course there's a huge variation among Polish girls, as there is among English ones. But on average I'd say Polish girls are less materialistic, more health-conscious, more interested in their extended families, more independent/feminist, more thoughtful, more sensitive toward sleights or being treated inconsiderately, more thoughtful, more inclined to use smilies in emails and texts :-)

Love / Why don't Polish women treat education seriously for themselves? [130]

I guess all-male workplaces could be criticised too.

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

This is a rather crude difference and could be unfair...

I heard that many Polish girls keep the hair in a certain place, where most English ones remove it...

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

@ ilmc, you've got to admit, smooth is preferable for certain activities (which women like receiving almost as much as man enjoy giving...)

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

I don't buy the idea that man liking women to be smooth down below are secretly into pre-pubescent girls. On the contrary, they like it because it's more beautiful, and more intimate.

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

@ ilmc, if you're concerned about getting a rash or whatever from shaving or waxing, use tea tree oil afterwards. Or explicate, or use Veet cream. But surely it's more hygienic to be hairless, never mind prettier and better for both man and woman when it comes to sex.

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

1:0 to Dominika, I'd say. And I know who I'd rather go down on... :-)

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

@ Ruzumiemnic, how old is she? Is she single? And most important of all, would she consider dating and Englishman?

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

A.K., if you're allergic to waxing that's fair enough. But it's no excuse for being hairy. There's shaving, epilation, cream, electrolysis and laser hair removal. Why not do one of these? You could be as beautiful as Dominika :-).

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]


I don't think women are just here for my pleasure, in fact the opposite. I'm sure I'm not the only many who'll tell you that when a woman is smooth down there, the only thing we want to do is caress that area, with our hands or mouths, whereas when she's hairy we'd rather just get on with pumping away. So I'd say men are better lovers, and women enjoy sex a lot more, when they're smooth. Also they're more sensitive down there because of removing the hair.

@AK, sorry for misjudging you - I think it's good that you shave, much better than someone else on this forum who seems to think it's OK to stay hairy... Sorry about the hedgehog problem :-(.

Not being female I haven't tried the creams, I'm sorry if they don't work for you. I think electrolysis removes a single hair but also kills the follicle, so no more hairs can grow there. It's a bit like the laser treatment, has to be done a few times but can stop any hair ever growing in a particular area.

I'm pretty sure an epilator is an electrical device, a bit like a shaver to look at, except that it plucks hairs out instead of cutting them. This means it doesn't have to be done so often, and when the hairs return they are very fine and barely visible, and can be plucked out again by the epilator before they become noticeable. It might be the best solution for you - you can be beautifully smooth, without hedgehog days :-)

Love / Observations and experiences so far about Polish women [93]

Natasia wrote: 'So you could, I suppose, translate that into they are man-grabbing, possessive, traditional, opinionated, narrow-minded, frigid mini-matriarchs (if we are talking about the ones in their 20s) ... but would that be fair, I wonder?'

That's a very negative picture. A more positive way of looking at things would be to say that Polish women link love and sex more closely than, say, their British counterparts, that they are strong-minded (but also good home-makers) and that, far from being frigid, they expect lovemaking to be about receiving as well as giving.

On that basis, I think Polish women are very special, actually :-)

Love / Marriage with a polish woman - Heaven or Forever Hell ? [60]


I'm not married to a Polish woman (unfortunately), though I'd like to be.

It's my experience that Polka are kind, loving, honourable people who would make amazing spouses. But then, I've met only a handful so am basing my observations on a small sample. It may be that others here who've had less positive experiences are falling into the same trap, only worse.

Love / Marriage with a polish woman - Heaven or Forever Hell ? [60]

What's the plural of polka? I thought it was also polka...?

Love / Woman 23, man 47 years old. What do you think about ? [162]

Well I'm 44, and while I know the chances of me attracting a 23 year-old are small (especially as I really want a Polish one...) I'd like to date a younger woman. It's not because I'm shallow, it's that I'd like to have kids and I think if I could find someone in her early 30s or so the chances are a lot higher.

Love / Why a polish girl would prefer a relationship with a foreign man? [30]

Some people think mixed-nationality marriages can be good for bringing up children - they get to learn from and appreciate two cultures.

Love / ACCEPTABLE modest wear for Polish women? [49]

@ the OP, the best way to fit in with a foreign society is to honour its traditions and customs. Polish women are not expected to over their faces and hair. They are not second-class citizens and nor are men treated as animals who cannot control themselves if they see a woman's face or hair. So one option might be for your fiancée to wear a normal fitted top and a skirt or jeans.

If, however, she chooses to maintain her Muslim dress code in a European Christian country, so be it. But it would be wise to reflect on the fact that a Polish woman who travels to, say, Saudi Arabia, Pakistan or Afghanistan cannot dress as she would at home, as Islam is not yet at the point in its evolution at which it tolerates contradictory views or behaviour.

Love / My reaction to a thread against foreigners marrying Polish girls [37]

Being British, and attracted to Polish women, you won't be surprised to say I think cross-cultural relationships and marriage are good :-). And since we're also in the UN, there could never be any suggestion that either of us would be in it for green card reasons :-)

Love / My little confession hehe - I always thought polish women were ugly [57]

BigDundeeDave, I think the Polish women you've met may not be typical of their country as a whole. Maybe it's because you're in Dundee :-)?

Seriously, the Polish girls I've met, here in the UK and in Poland, have been naturally beautiful - pretty faces, little or no makeup, natural body shape (not underweight or artificially enhanced). They've also been independent - degree educated, not willing to pander to men or accept poor treatment.

People of any nationality vary a lot of course, but on average I'd say Polish women are better looking and easier to love than British ones.

News / Krystyna Pawłowicz and the 'marsz szmata' (slut walk) [52]


I'll hold her down while you give her a good smacking.

Some deeply offensive comments from a narrow-minded woman who's a disgrace to her gender.

News / Poland marching for life and family [132]

Marching to celebrate happy, nuclear families is a good thing, provided it doesn't imply condemnation of other family, household or relationship types.

Love / Fresh, wholesome country lass in Poland - getting married and going back to the US [167]

I think the guy, deep down, is either insecure or hates women. What's really sad is that it risks becoming a self-fulfilling prophesy: the only women likely to respond to him are looking for a passport or a generous divorce settlement (or both). Having experienced such treatment, he's likely to hate women even more. Most tragic of all is the thought that he may have been hurt before, and it is this that is leading him to his particular search requirements, the nature of which will drive away decent, self-respecting, intelligent women who could genuinely love him and turn him away from this bitterness.

Love / Fresh, wholesome country lass in Poland - getting married and going back to the US [167]

Why would a man want his wife to be a virgin on their wedding night, anyway?

I ask for three reasons. First, would he not want to have sex with her himself before marriage? They might discover that they like different things sexually or were otherwise incompatible. And if not, they could enjoy closeness and intimacy together while getting to know one another better, then while waiting for their wedding day. Sex should be an enjoyable way for two people wh love each other to bond. Why deprive yourself and the person you love of that?

Second, those who favour physical virginity - an intact hymen - seem to want women to bleed on their wedding nights. That sounds like it could be a painful and somewhat scary experience for an inexperienced young woman. What kind of a man would want his wife's first experience of married life to be like that?

Third, wouldn't a man want to share his life with a woman who has a healthy sex drive, as opposed to someone who has suppressed her sexuality because she thinks there's something 'dirty' about it? OK, I know there are many ways that a man can please a woman, or a woman can please herself, that don't involve losing her physical virginity, and from a male perspective these are more enjoyable than straightforward vaginal sex, but a man would surely prefer his wife to enjoy that aspect of sexuality at least occasionally.

I'm not suggesting that I believe in casual sex or promiscuity - I think sex should be for people in established relationships who love one another. But think this standard should be applied equally to men and women, and I think it's crazy that a man should expect physical virginity from an adult woman. It could easily lead to unhappiness for both of them.