I really like this Polish guy....what to do next??

mmm...you bet! I can HONESTLY say I have never met a man as hot as you!!!!! ......lucky love socks?????......with a picture of Snoopy?????

.....the lady swoons.............

yes it happens all the time.what can i say,i'm a playa.
i guess irish women are still what they used to be...
my grangrandad married irish girl in 1909,he met her in new york,but he decided to return to croatia when he earned enough money.she went with him too,of course.

maybe if you are lucky,we can meet on holidays?

now playing franz ferdinand...lucky lucky,you're so lucky...

dont worry about that. I am 4 years older than my partner and he doesnt seem to mind..although his family think it strange that Ive never been married at my age.. but thats cos things are different here.. especially in big cities, people are leaving it til later to settle down and have kids. He does call me babcia at times, but hopefully is only joking.. and most people think he is older than me as he looks it. Anyway, good luck and keep us posted.

My boyfriend is 2 years older than me... and i think he doesn't mind at all. Her mom is even 4 or more years older than his dad. So i guess it'll be fine.

2 years is average age difference between partner.
my grandmother said me that 50 years ago was a custom to have 12 years older husband.girl 18,man 30...

its often best when the guy is around 15 years younger than the woman.. well for some things anyway ;)

my god i couldn't imagine having a girlfriend who is 37 that would be a bit too much of a gap for me, lol :)

or my man whos 3 years old haha

An interesting article on this topic: timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/science/article2344049.ece

Why men who chase after younger women are just obeying natural selection.

you might not have that much in common for a long term relationship, but believe me there is something to be said about younger men and older women getting together for fun..:)

what he is three years older than you or three years old?? lol


i guess so but still i'm not sure :)

I thought that guys liked younger women, personally i'm not to bothered either way but there is a limit for me in how much older or younger a girl can be than me

monica bellucci for example!
she's perfect!
she's better than full bus of 20 year old models
;)

well everyone is different and there are plenty of young men that like older women, either for relationships or sometimes just for fun. Maybe you need to get out more Torny :) Before I was with my current partner I had some experience of this. I have dated a guy 15 years older and 15 year younger and the younger ones win every time, they have the stamina and you have the experience, so its a winning combination.

I'm not counting out older and younger woman on stamina because usually the stamina is down to the man, so i'm not to fussed about that.

i'm 22 myself so youngest i'd go is probably about 18 and oldest 28 something like that, sensible i think. I've got nothing against older women its just the way i work

older women are more charming and sophisticated.and...skilled:)

i see what you mean a lot of younger girls do tend to be immature, so you have a point there, i'm sure there are girls who are young that are not immature but i haven't met many

i'm 24, i'd go from 18-40.


neither do I.but being fun isn't inmature,i meant inmature with their feelings and relationships.

i've met a one girl... she is 25, and she is more mature then all of us who will hit 30 soon...

Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
Old before her time, or are some oldies just childish?

Ive had relationships with guys in their early 20s when I was in my late 30s.. we knew they werent gonna last, but they sure were fun. I blame myself for starting this, but we seem to be trashing Irishgirls thread.. maybe should start a new one if anyone is interested in this topic?

I had a relationship with a woman about 10 years older than me. It didn't worrk.
Next time, 10 years younger?

If you're wondering how old I am,
the answer:

donkeys years.

of course!

its a good thing... she is a very fun to be around, but she thinks about stuff we dont .... she 'takes care of us all'

yes, believe her.

sapphire - no worries about trashing the thread......it did me good to see that many of you think there is nothing wrong with men dating older women!! I have a feeling that the guy I have my eye on might be a couple of years younger than me....

Update on asking gorgeous Polish man out........well I called into his shop yesterday only to find that once again he wasn't there!!!! Oh the disappointment......don't you hate that when you you have built yourself up for something and then it doesn't happen??!!Don't know what to do now....just play it cool and continue to call in once or twice a week in the hope that he hasn't gone off to a new job (or gone home to a wife or girlfriend??? ha ha ha.....THAT is always a possibility)

Or should I casually ask one of his Polish workmates, "hey, where's Peter these days?"

But that might embarrass him and I wouldn't like to do that....there is a lovely shyness about him.........

No harm in that - at least then you would know.

any news on Peter?

I have only seen him once in the last week....unfortunately the shop was really busy when I went in (he works behind a counter so it's not the most intimate setting! ) and we were surrounded by people on both sides of the counter....but yet I have to say he seemed really happy to see me and when he was finished serving me he continued to smile and gaze into my eyes....I had planned on asking him if he would like to go for a coffee sometime...but I chickened out big time.....

As I was leaving the shop that day I noticed some of his co-workers smiled at me, as if they had noticed something between us....I suppose I have to admit that there has been a very gradual progress over the last few weeks, in the beginning he used to just try and catch my eye and smile at me, at least now he comes straight over to me when I enter the shop and he makes small talk....but mainly we just look into each other's eyes (and then of course my knees go weak and I can barely remember what it is i want to buy...nevermind ask this guy out!!!!!)

Somedays I am all for going in there and asking him to go for a coffee....then other days I think it is the wrong thing to do.....I am going in tomorrow so fingers crossed that he will be there.

oh, and thanks for asking about him, :-))))

mmm I need to be taken care of too ;)

why dont you go in before lunch time and ask him what time he has his lunch and if he fancies having it with you? another option is to put your name and number on a piece of paper and a note saying call me and slip it him next time you are doing a transaction with him.. quite bold, but I would probably prefer this option to the former as you dont have to say anything and if he does choose not to, then you need never mention it again. He might be interested but not sure if you are attached. Failing that, get yourself a job at the supermarket :)