I really like this Polish guy....what to do next??

I don't believe it sapphire....yesterday before going to his shop I wrote out a short note saying how difficult it was to talk to him as he was always so busy and would he like to go for a coffee sometime, then added my name and number....

But of course, he wasn't there. He is always there on a Sat. so I'm going to try again tomorrow.

I also think you are right when you say he might think i am attached....he has probably seen me with my 12 year old son and is wondering what the story is (I'm separated).

Sooooo, we have just proven that great minds DO think alike!! let's hope our cunning plan works out :))))))

thanks for taking an interest....I'll keep you posted!!!

he wasn't there again :(

felt soooo disappointed.

Ah well, if it's meant to be it will happen, right?

lol, my mother is 13 years younger than father. Some kind of crazy, specially cuz i dont think so i am the child of love, u know what i mean

irishgirl my piece of advice is when he comes right to you, smile back and maybe introducing yourself would do break the ice, check his name tag if he got one and talk as if you know him... that could be a nice start

Yes, if it's meant to be, it will happen! I'm crossing my fingers for you....

Hi gal I know excatly how you feel. I am going through the same thing. There is this gorgeous guy who works in a shop and I am strongly attracted to him but whenever I see his lovley face I become nervous. We've said Hi a few times but I need to let him know how I feel so I've decided this Sunday I'm going to introduce myself. Christmas is a great excuse to chat and I'm going to give him a Christmas card next week. Polish guys are sexy. Good luck.

Hi i was really interested in your dilemma but u havent posted anything since Sept so what happened? Did u tell him how u feel? are u guys dating? I need to know. I was in same situation as u and I decided to speak 2 the guy and I wrote my number in a Christmas card and gave it to him. He is polish and beautiful. I am in love. He called me and now we are going to a resturant on Christmas Eve. He told me he has liked me from the first day he saw me in October. Any way there is hope. To all shy girls out there, if u like someone and u reckon they may like you too I suggest you go for it. U only live once ladies!

I suggest the secure method of BJ.

A BJ. Not on the first date but yeah eventually. I cant wait to do that to my honey. I will blow his mind when the time is right.

aww so cute! I loved the christmas card idea! Good luck on your dinner date - a christmas eve dinner, so romantic. And a bj on the first date? No that is sleazy! It leads to nothing more than a one night stand or a meaningless fing. A simple but sensual kiss will leave him wanting more of you!

Me too, alebeit a different one... :)

Thankyou pretty I will let u know how it goes. I cant wait.

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How do you get a guy's attention

There is a polish guy that I like very much. He works in my local corner shop and we have spoken on a few occasions. I am shy whenever I see him because he is so georgeous and I dont know if it is obvious and shows. Anyway I decided to let him know in a less directed way and put my number in a Christmas card last Saturday and asked him to call to wish me merry Christmas. He has not called yet and I wanted to know what should my next step be? He will be working on Saturday and I uaually go on Saturdays when I know he will be there. Should I be more direct and ask for his number or forget about him?

Next time when you see him,be dressed in something provocative,better showing off a lot of cleavage.(if you had hidden there the card,he would have called you for sure).Anyway show him something tasty and then ask him to exchange numbers while touching him,better on arm or if you are brave on chest and abdomen.This will create a sudden heat in him and he will be willing to relive the experience provided your apperance is average at least.

Start up a conversation ..like asking him how are his wife and kids back in Poland..?

Hehehe... so cruel mate..

To get a guys attention, doesn't take much. Just show an interest.

or asking how his chuj and jajas are doing.

I already did that. I wore a short mini skirt and a low cut top and a black shiny rain mac even though it was freezing. I looked hot and he said to me "you look nice, where are you going today". I have decided I will go tomorrow to see him.

HA HA I am not the only irish lass who has fallen for a polish guy and not sue what t do ?? any developments yet ?

the guy i like is back in poland and will be backn the 5th jan i just hope he is single
karen
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