My girlfriend thinks she's pregnant! Pomocy!!

pregnancy tests are about as accurate in telling you whether you are pregnant or not as the Pill preventing you from getting pregnant... If your gf thinks she might be having a baby, she should get one of those tests from your local pharmacy and use it first thing in the morning (the result is the most accurate for women in early stages of pregnancy if they do the test first thing in the morning) and then again few days later. all instructions will be on the label. been there done it, but turned out i was just being paranoid... if you DONT want the baby, waiting for her belly to grow is the stupidest thing you can possibly do, then it will definitely be too late to do anything about it.

A good lesson: you are responsible for your actions.
I'll take the baby if you don't want it. It'll have a pony, a puppy, I'll teach it to play music, paint, someday this child of your will be famous. Wait and see. it will all work out.

thats a very good point saphire.........does anyone believe in abortion....or believe it can be?


that is very very weird...you are a very strange person........whatever about wanting the baby from me.......but the bit about it having a pony....What the Fu** is that about...really weird!!!

Who said I was pro-life? Please don't prejudge me.

I am not scaremongering. I went with an open mind to a post-abortion chat group. On that group every woman is devastated. There is one woman who regrets her abortion so much that she cuts herself with a knife. Yes, it's true -- some of them get over it -- but it takes years.

Please visit. afterabortion.com if you don't believe me. Read the stories yourself. It is not a pro-life site.

I bet none of you have had an abortion. You would not be so casual about it if you had.

And I am not pro anything, except pro-women. Lack of information about post-abortion syndrome is one more way in which women are being exploited in this world.

Not a lover of ponies, huh? :)

Sorry, didn't mean to sound weird, just making a joke. I care for foster children and have my own and hate to think about people aborting innocent children. It's not their fault they were being conceived. People should be responsible for their actions. Even immature ones like you. Aborting and not wanting your own child... now that is weird.

what is this about pro women...are you yet another one of those feminists?? oh jaysu!!
if i went around saying (which i dont by the way) that i am pro men.....then i would be called gay or a male shovenist pig.......................


where do you live Africa??!! because in most european countries including poland...women are treated equal and are well respected!

by the way i am pro women also....ooooooooooooh yaaaaaa :P

Java,
first you screem that you need help and now you are getting angry for receiving the answers from people.
Why don't you just consult a doctor. That could not be to difficlult.

That's tertible PLK

*******BREAKING NEWS******: i bought the test and made her take it.....she was very reluctant and was screaming a lot but i had to be the man so i put my foot down and ordered her to do it.....and guess what she is NOT pregnant!!! yesssssssssss i am soooooooooo happy....now i am going to get drunk to celebrate!!! thanks you people for all your wise words.........

er congratulations? lol..

You'll be drunk, so saying 'Be careful!' might be a waste of breath.

thank you my friend


im never careful...i always live on the edge...im wild

so i recommend to buy more test....after all that drinking , you will really need them....
do ppl never learn?

told you it would all work out!!!

Pay attention to what just happened to you here. God has his way of sending wake up calls. :-P

just another answer to this thread. look at all the others.. this isn;t any worse then some of the others. personally, seems like my answer was up the original poster's alley anyway.


wrap it up dude.. we don't want to see another one of these threads from you EVER.


some never wake up.. love the snooze. hehe

Didn't you say you had unprotected sex a few days ago? If you did, you're probably not safe just yet.

shes not old enought to be a mum - wear a condom

personally i think shes fukin with your head

Do what my x-husband did. Get neutered then you'll never have to worry again.

Congratulations! I'm happy for you.

The guy who started this thread is a complete numptie. Grow up.

What another ridiculous thread is this for real?

with a name like jumbo you are hardly a great example are you...how can you call me a numptie with a name like jambo.......did your mama call u that after some cake?!!


you better believe its for real.....you dealing with peoples lives here,......

https://polishforums.com/archives/2005-2009/love/advice-required-man-woman-10424/

just look at this thread set up by jumbo!!! oh jaysu ...he comes on to this site to look for advice on a woman who is divorced and with 2 children!!!

just look at his profile and look at the other thread he started up...again oh jaysu....il say no more....

thats jumbo for ya!!!

Good job.
This thread will come handy to you next time when she is not pregnant.

I think there must have been more deep rooted problems, I have friends have had abortions and not been affected at all by it...I dont think its something to be taken lightly but the choice is there.

get over it dude your haveing a baby the best thing in life comes out that black hole you was so intrested in as for your traveling plans babys aint all that expensive all they need is 20 boxes of cow and gate milk a bed to sleep on a steraliser 3 milk bottels huggis newbourn nappis and a caring mother not to mention father first 3 monthes going to be the hardest and the best so enjoy every moment of the pregnancy as you wont have time since you goinging to be arguing whith his mother for getting a chance to hold him in your arms cuddle and kiss him take him to bed whith you wach formula 1 raceing and bae whach with him wach his teeth come out wait for his first word Daddy feed him his first feed at the hospital wash him after he dos a nasty popha the joys of life saying that im out i gota get milk for ma son its nerly 11 o clock at night l8ta

i think your expectations for these two are sky high. haven't you read the posts?

I hope you listen to these wise words.....use a condom next time.....even if she is on the pill, no form of birth control is 100% effective (except abstinence and sterilization) so anything extra would be a wise choice, so you don't have to worry again.

P.S. I am glad there is not a baby coming into this world by parents who don't want him. I have the feeling you and your gf would have kept the child, which would have been a huge mistake.....there are so many couples out there dying to have children that can't.....if she were pregnant, I would hope she would give it up for adoption......that is love....giving the child a chance at a decent life with parents who desperately want them.

At the risk of embarassing myself, this morning I had a small panic attack... I have a very irregular cycle so usually do a test each month 'just in case'. Looked down at the stick, and lo and behold, two bloody lines. I was immediately sick and burst into tears as being a mother isn't exactly my goal right now...

After half an hour I thought I'd do the second test in the box just to be sure - when I picked up the box I saw the front where it announced in bold letters 'New and Improved'; one line and a cross is now the symbol for pregnant, and two lines is confirmation that you did the test correctly but you're not pregnant. Just goes to show, you should always read the instructions!

Told my POH the story this afternoon and he thought my stupidity was hilarious...

Which is exactly how you got yourself into this situation to begin with...maybe a little more responsibility and a little less wildness? :) Just a thought...

couldn't agree more