Difficult Polish girlfriend - how long would you put up with her? My story.

Yes, why stay if ona nie daje dupy. Congratulations. Good decision.

is that all there is to a relationship?

Obviously that's what both of you think.

i never said that but YOU did.

I wasn't talking to you plk in the first place and I would recommend you to stay away from me.

Why do men not lay down groundrules and then let themselves get trodden on? Geez, I'm beginning to believe in those Americans that say affirmative action leads to situations where help is not appreciated and they just want more and more. It's the same with some women. If the guy encourages that kind of behaviour, he's a lot to blame and isn't much of a man by giving more and more. For what? A piece of rump, pff...

well you know.. you can recommend whatever the hell you want.. surely doesn't mean i have to comply.. besides.. you're proving the original posters point with that attitude of yours.

Glad to hear it.
Sorry I didn't get it from your post.

Maybe she will kill herself someday and make the world a better place.
I hope she does not have any more children.


I understand perfectly.
I have seen this happen to may people, men and women.

Jihozapad, if you don't mind my asking, which city do you live in?
I want to avoid this city?
Were all your bad experiences Polish Women?
I hope not.

thank you

Jihozapad


Move forward with your life. You vented on PF. Try not to generalize all women. Obviously, you made a decision, reflect on the 'righteousness ' your conveying......Jihozapad


???

lol, yeah basically.

Men have really got to sniff out the princesses. There are so many good and decent women here, why chase the princesses? They are self-seeking turds but I don't see them often. Wanna know why? I avoid where they go and ignore them when they enter open areas.

you know the answer otherwise you wouldnt need confirmation on this thread. i feel for you though, i know what its like never feeling good enough. Its up to you what you do, you just gotta ask, whatever decision you make, are you going to regret it? can you live with yourself if you carried on this bully/victim relationship? she has problems deep within herself which no matter how nice or horrible or forgiving you'll be will make that change, she has to change for herself, and why would you wait for her to change? shes been like this most of her life i assume, why would she change now? you loving and respecting her OBVIOUSLY wasn't good enough reason for her to change. You sound sweet and like a gentleman, shes not for you and if you have your heart set on only Polish women (more in common i understand) then just keep being yourself because sooner or later real peronalities always show themselves whether that be good or bad. p.s keep an open mind with other nationalities, more opportuinities and chances, i hope i helped :)

How? What do you know about me apart from Nothing? :) I only pointed out the author of this thread makes himself look like a victim while in fact he was no angel himself.

I thought that too, funny old world isn't ;0)



Hmmmm, so the rest just cheated and controlled you...maybe try another nationality? Just an idea...


Oh dear :0(

I know that you are a teacher, howzat? :) What do you teach? Do you have a difficult Polish girlfriend too? ;)

that's more of the same bs.. you're judging and all of a sudden you know the OP.. sure, sure..

this thread is turning into a bit of a farse isn't it, lol, i mean are we even talking about the original post anymore :)

tornado2007


Time to move to random chat- agree...

yes we are.. it's all related

So are you. You have never met the described woman yet you are free to criticise her.

ONE other Polish woman cheated, the controller was of another race altogether. Two bad ones out of about 20 exes isn't too bad! No malice towards any of the others.

I love the way that all of a sudden I'm the bad one. You lot don't even know 10% of what happened. And yes, I'm not perfect, but I put in the proverbial Alan Sugar 110% into that relationship, and got little back out of it. Too many false promises.

I was right to leave. Call me a loser/cheat/liar if you like, I and my family know the truth, and that's all that matters.

of course... we'd criticize her as long as we hear her story.... soo....

You escaped, Jihad, and that was a good decision.

I didnt say that, I merely said that you might like to try another nationality...I couldn't really care less, it's your life.


We could add gay to that? ;0)

then why reply?

i figure that woman is you. :D :D :D

ok you left her, you're supposedly over it, so why come and cry about it online?? just a thought...

WOW

kudos!!

good thing you did that, it did sound like abusive relationship. I dont think /condone
women being abusive to men ( mentally or physically).

that could be my brother or cousin, and I certainly would not tolerate someone
treating my brother so mean. she would have to get kicked to the curb.

dont worry though, you did the right thing, people like her, they think they deserve
silver platters, but really deserve shyt on shingles.

my best advice is , look around you and I bet someone you know who is close to
you is prob the one who cares the most and maybe you didnt see her before because
you had your eyes on the one you thought was good for you.

take care :)

While i do have a lot of sympothy for the OP i do have to agree slightly, well maybe more than slightly with this sentiment. If you are over it now why would you want to go on discussing it??

I'm sure you'll find yourself another wonderful lady in the not to distant future

why post? PF allows for pity threads, so why not.