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I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish)


sad guy  
6 May 2007 /  #1
i need some advise please someone, i am british and my girlfriend is polish and she is goimg to leave me and i love her so much, she found out i sleep with another girl, i did it just once i know its no excuse, she is my my everything and i cant cope without her. i love her with all my heart. i feel so bad and i know she must feel a thousand times worse. we have been together for nearly a year and we are so happy together. im just wondering if its possible for her to forgive me
Pawel  3 | 125  
6 May 2007 /  #2
advise please

Find the nearest cliff and jump...
Lodzy  - | 16  
6 May 2007 /  #3
if you loved her why did you cheat on her
Frank  23 | 1183  
6 May 2007 /  #4
Trust to a woman is everything...tough lesson to learn.
OP sad guy  
6 May 2007 /  #5
so its definitly over, so i can never regain her trust
Pawel  3 | 125  
6 May 2007 /  #6
Trust to a woman is everything...tough lesson to learn.

Well put Frank
BubbaWoo  33 | 3502  
6 May 2007 /  #7
how would you feel if the tables were turned, SG?
Pawel  3 | 125  
6 May 2007 /  #8
so its definitly over, so i can never regain her trust

ITs not up to us were to give you advise you have to talk to her ask if she will trust you again..

For that matter forgive you...
Lodzy  - | 16  
6 May 2007 /  #9
learn the hard way
you will remember this for the rest of your life
OP sad guy  
6 May 2007 /  #10
yes i know, i think if i was her i could forgive her her if it was just a purely phyical thing. i was weak i wasnt looking to cheat, i hadnt seen her for 2 months, it was the biggest mistake of my life, i have never been in so much pain in my life
Pawel  3 | 125  
6 May 2007 /  #11
You need to tell her that^^^^
OP sad guy  
6 May 2007 /  #12
i will tell her when i get the chance but it dosent look like i will ever get her bk, its so hard trying to imagine my life without her being apart of it
Lodzy  - | 16  
6 May 2007 /  #13
You need to tell her that^^^^

i agree
RazZ  1 | 180  
6 May 2007 /  #14
yes i know, i think if i was her i could forgive her

easy said then done mate. if it was her you would have left her too, so she has every right to leave you. what goes around comes around, better pray that it doesnt happens to you in the future
OP sad guy  
6 May 2007 /  #15
but we are so good together, she said that she still loves me
BubbaWoo  33 | 3502  
6 May 2007 /  #16
as a wise man once said... if you take a dump in your bed, dont be suprised when you wake up smelling of poo
OP sad guy  
6 May 2007 /  #17
i feel sick and disgusting inside, i know i would never do it again
Pawel  3 | 125  
6 May 2007 /  #18
but we are so good together, she said that she still loves me

Are you for real bro.....
RazZ  1 | 180  
6 May 2007 /  #19
you learned from your mistakes mate, but you can never undo your past, and you have to face the fact that she is leaving, yeah sure she still loves you, but you cheated on her and that broke her heart, you have to pay for what you did
Lodzy  - | 16  
6 May 2007 /  #20
i say surprise her

you learned from your mistakes mate, but you can never undo your past, and you have to face the fact that she is leaving, yeah sure she still loves you, but you cheated on her and that broke her heart, you have to pay for what you did

listen to this guy he knows everything
Pawel  3 | 125  
6 May 2007 /  #21
you have to pay for what you did

But there so good together.....

WERE ARE THE SMILIES
RazZ  1 | 180  
6 May 2007 /  #22
But there so good together

you mean they were

WERE ARE THE SMILIES

stop hiding the smilies in you pocket

i say surprise her

you are just pulling his leg, we all know that surprising her wont work
Lodzy  - | 16  
6 May 2007 /  #23
okay if you say so
OP sad guy  
6 May 2007 /  #24
ok i understand how serious this all is, i will just phone her and telll her im sorry and that i know its over, and just try and deal with it
RazZ  1 | 180  
6 May 2007 /  #25
she might forgive but she sure wont forget
Pawel  3 | 125  
6 May 2007 /  #26
ok i understand how serious this all is, i will just phone her and telll her im sorry and that i know its over, and just try and deal with it

Glad you used your brain for this partanyway.But might be to late..
But please let us knw how it all goes....
OP sad guy  
6 May 2007 /  #27
she had only found out yesturaday that i cheated, maybe i should leave her alone for a while or do you think it would be a good idea to phone her now?
RazZ  1 | 180  
6 May 2007 /  #28
she needs time alone, its best you send an sms today and call her after a day or two
Lodzy  - | 16  
6 May 2007 /  #29
believe me this guy knows everything when it comes to girls
angel eyes  1 | 131  
6 May 2007 /  #30
Since its all males giving their input here i said id give my happeny,s worth here.
you guys got it right she will never forgive you and never forget.
If her love is strong and you can convince her to stay NOTHING WILL EVER BE THE SAME AGAIN. Its just one of those things your gonna regret for the rest of your life.

Once a cheater always a cheater.! you have a weak flaw and if you loved her as much as you say you would never have disrespected her in this way. I just hope you learn from this and my sympathy,s lie with your girlfriend.Her whole world has come crashing down around her,

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