I ask this question rather tentatively, as the Pole in question is my BF of 1 year. He lives here in the UK, and is the most loving, kind and gentle man.
However, we have never gone out on a date - ie. dinner, cinema. I'm working and earning a good salary, so would be happy to pay my way, but it just seems that all socializing goes on in the home.
He thinks it strange when I ask if he has ever dined out, or would he go out on a date, almost as if it simply isn't something he has ever done!!!
Your comments will be much appreciated!!
The reason for your friend's reticence is because Poles are sorely lacking in manners and etiquette, just as rumored...Your suspicions are confirmed...You friend probably has not understood the difference between a sink and the toilet, or still gets them confused...He is reluctant to go to, say, a restaurant with you because he is afraid that if he needs to go, he might walk into the kitchen mistakenly and pee in the sink...Perhaps you, as a civilized and sophisticated person, can help him distinguish these things, and in this way you two can have normal social activities in a public place.
Do you ever notice an 'unusual' smell from your own kitchen sink after your BF goes into the kitchen to get something from the refrigerator?Just Ask Joe..........StoLat!