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ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
12 Jun 2008 /  #1
I keep hearing on here about how racist Polish people are because inter-racial dating isn't their thing.

Why is it white people are called racists because they prefer not to date people of a different colour or a completely different cultural background, when in fact I know of no black girls who have ever dated or would even consider dating a white guy, I have never seen a black girl with a mixed race baby or indeed seen any asian girls with a white guy or a mixed raced baby. So it's okay for black guys and asian guys to expect European women to date outside their race but women of their race would never consider it because of their culture. Now that to me is a bit one sided to say the least.

We can bring the case of a young black man called Simon Mol who used racism as a tool to encourage young Polish girls to sleep with him without a condom, of course they obliged in order not to appear racist, now they live on borrowed time because he kindly, knowingly gave them HIV which he came to Poland with as a refugee, a country that took him in and even gave him a passport!

An Iranian girl pointed out on forum that Iranian guys have no interest in marrying Polish girls, their sole intention is to have a bit of fun before marrying a nice Iranian girl whose virginity is in tact, the more I hear about how little other cultures actually think of European women the less I think it is a good idea to mix.

I am not suggesting for one minute it's okay to abuse people in the street because of the colour of their skin, because it's not, in a civilised world we should know better than to act like savages.
VaFunkoolo 6 | 654  
12 Jun 2008 /  #2
I know of no black girls who have ever dated or would even consider dating a white guy, I have never seen a black girl with a mixed race baby

???????

Where on earth do you live, Shell?
OP ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
12 Jun 2008 /  #3
Manchester, and I have never seen a black girl with a mixed raced kid nor have I ever seen a black girl with a white guy...
VaFunkoolo 6 | 654  
12 Jun 2008 /  #4
Well I'm a white guy and have dated black and Asian girls over the years. No kids. But are you suggesting that all mixed race kids have black fathers and white mothers?
OP ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
12 Jun 2008 /  #5
Then I would say that your are in a minority because I dont actually know of any guys that have dated black or asian women and thats not a racist thing it's just not the norm.

Im not suggesting anything I am saying that the vast majority of mixed raced children are with white women, I'm sure that I could check out the stats.

But here is something for a start

intermix.org.uk/relationships/rel_bf_wm_relationships.asp
szkotja2007 27 | 1,499  
12 Jun 2008 /  #6
in order not to appear racist,

You seriously believe they slept with him not to appear racist !
Must try that next time I am out in the pub !

I know of no black girls who have ever dated or would even consider dating a white guy, I have never seen a black girl with a mixed race baby or indeed seen any asian girls with a white guy or a mixed raced baby.

And you live in Manchester ?
plk123 8 | 4,150  
12 Jun 2008 /  #7
Well I'm a white guy and have dated black and Asian girls over the years. No kids. But are you suggesting that all mixed race kids have black fathers and white mothers?

and a latina for me. and there are plenty mixed race peeps around here with all kinds of combinations but i do believe shelly is somewhat right with the comment that mostly white women have kids of other races. the are very few otherwise.

but i have a major issue with your statement that we should stay seperated. that's a racist statement. there have been plenty of white guys spreading deseases around to women ragardless of their color.
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
12 Jun 2008 /  #8
the more I hear about how little other cultures actually think of European women the less I think it is a good idea to mix.

I agree with you for the reasons of other countries thinking they are easy
or less of them, when they have values and morals and its noticeable
with men who come from other countries ( as observed from American gal)
that they think this way and have to be put in their place.

I dont like to generalize, but of course I cant say which countries because
there is abundance and I dont stop to ask which country they were taught to
be so horny in.. :) lol
masks98 27 | 289  
12 Jun 2008 /  #9
OMG this is ridiculous. To say that black girls don't mix is just wrong, and therefore completely irrelevant. If you mean that they mix less, then perhaps, many black girls have given me crap for dating white girls, but while there are many black girls like that, there are tons that mix with anyone - where have you been man?Wake up!!!!

And what the hell is this Simon Mol thing supposed to prove? It just proves that some guy named Simon Mol is an ******* - who cares? People get HIV from blacks, whites, asians, latinos, eskimos, needles, (animals?) That one dude's case means nothing concerning mixed relationships - I mean nothing at all. What the smack was that supposed to prove?

Same thing with this Iranian business - I mean do you need a brain transplant??! One, hearsay from some girl means nothing. Two, even if it did, Iranians don't marry other Iranians because they think worse of European women. It's just a cultural thing. It's like jews, you're supposed to marry people with the same customs, religion, etc..

And if Poles don't want to mix racially that's not a crime, but it sure is unfortunate because it can lead to hate crimes, and definitely leads to nice people getting treated like crap, because they happen to look different. Is that something to encourage? And let me tell you that such attitudes aren't in the Pole's interest since it perpetuates the stereotype of Poland as some kind of uncivilized backwater full of drunks. Is that the kind of international reputation any Patriotic Pole should wish on his/her country? I think not
southern 75 | 7,096  
12 Jun 2008 /  #10
I have to say that many greek men wish the spoiled greek girls got english or polish or even better russian boyfriends to get some special treatment and see the other side of the hill.
osiol 55 | 3,922  
12 Jun 2008 /  #11
There is a strong tendency in women of Caribbean origin to be a lot more conservative in their lifestyles than the men. This is a tendency, not a rule.
plk123 8 | 4,150  
12 Jun 2008 /  #12
well said masks.

i don't think so mr. osiol
EbonyandBathory 5 | 249  
12 Jun 2008 /  #14
Why is it white people are called racists because they prefer not to date people of a different colour or a completely different cultural background, when in fact I know of no black girls who have ever dated or would even consider dating a white guy, I have never seen a black girl with a mixed race baby or indeed seen any asian girls with a white guy or a mixed raced baby.

Perhaps you would if you step out of the cave every so often. Perhaps you should ask yourself "why" before you make your generalizations.
osiol 55 | 3,922  
12 Jun 2008 /  #15
i don't think so mr. osiol

I'm basing this on what I have seen with my own eyes. Have you met many black people in Britain of Caribbean origin? I have dated a black girl though, but colour, to me, is irrelevent. Culutrally we all have our differences, even though there may be a lot more in common.
southern 75 | 7,096  
12 Jun 2008 /  #16
And what the hell is this Simon Mol thing supposed to prove?

That he denied the girls to insist on using condoms because as he told them this meant racial preoccupation by them,that the girls thought that a black may have AIDS,which is an obviously racial thought.
EbonyandBathory 5 | 249  
12 Jun 2008 /  #17
But that's one person! He doesn't speak for blacks. If we judged races by their worst members than all whites would be Hitlers, wouldn't they?
southern 75 | 7,096  
12 Jun 2008 /  #18
But that's one person! He doesn't speak for blacks

If you remember he was head of some black anti-discriminatory organization.So he represented blacks.
osiol 55 | 3,922  
12 Jun 2008 /  #19
If someone like that was representing me, I'd disown him. He's still only one person. Anyone can get up on a platform and speak for others, but actions can speak louder than words.
Sophia - | 99  
12 Jun 2008 /  #20
Why is it white people are called racists because they prefer not to date people of a different colour

I don't know if I'd call that racist as I may have thought before. I'm thinking it depends on the reasons and thinking behind that. One man said to me he wouldn't date a woman who was not white because he wouldn't be attracted to her. He said skin colour is not something we choose, in the way we are born with this colour of hair or eyes or whatever. So if we can prefer a certain colour of eyes in a person for our attraction to occur - why not colour of skin without it being racist? I found it an interesting point of view and am uncertain of it. Yet it was logical. I could only say for myself, I hope a single aesthetic could not put me off if someone stands out to me with their personality or even other physical traits. I can like blue eyes in a man or so on, but it would not be the sway in feeling an attraction or not I think if his eyes were green.

Edit: I know this isn't really the point of the thread but I felt like sharing that musing...
osiol 55 | 3,922  
12 Jun 2008 /  #21
I refuse to go out with a girl who's got that really orangey-looking fake tan. It's just not the colour for me.
Sophia - | 99  
12 Jun 2008 /  #22
Hmm fake tan on female donkeys?
tomek - | 134  
12 Jun 2008 /  #23
Simon Mol, just check the ******* google

beatroot.blogspot.com/2007/12/simon-mol-charged-with-infecting-12.html

wiadomosci.onet.pl/1422532,2677,1,1,kioskart.html

THIS MAKES ME SICK! Good to know he won't have it easy in polish jail and I hope he won't make it out alive! I bet most of the girls were in their early twenties, young national unaware persons - not thinking of building a family yet.

Interrace mixing is wrong and disgusting. Preserving our race is of mutual interest, as we developed into a race which is most suited to inhabitate the latitudes it has inhabitated for centuries. Blacks can stand more sun but can't build enough Vitamin D in the winters here. They are better suited to live in the savanahe and fly a lion than in Poland and making the run from angry white nationalists on a slithery frozen ground. They also have thicker headbones, so they lack brainmass and are uglier, but one must h.... I mean but they don't die when they fall of the trees they look for cover in.

Multi-culti leads to interracial hate, we see it everywhere.
SEPERATION IS THE ONLY SOLUTION - GET IT!
osiol 55 | 3,922  
12 Jun 2008 /  #24
tomek

Would it have been any different to you had a white man done exactly thew same thing?
plk123 8 | 4,150  
12 Jun 2008 /  #25
I'm basing this on what I have seen with my own eyes. Have you met many black people in Britain of Caribbean origin? I have dated a black girl though, but colour, to me, is irrelevent. Culutrally we all have our differences, even though there may be a lot more in common.

you surely didn't say in britain originally but of carribe origins. there are many people from there here in the US.

tomek

go fly a kite you bigoted arsehole
osiol 55 | 3,922  
12 Jun 2008 /  #26
you surely didn't say in britain originally

I could have mentioned that I've never been to America to see any there with my own eyes. I did some footage of Bob Marley playing somewhere in the states though. What I mentioned just seems to be a trend. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it. There is something wrong with:

ME SICK

plk123 8 | 4,150  
12 Jun 2008 /  #27
yes. we can definitely agree on the latter.
masks98 27 | 289  
13 Jun 2008 /  #28
That he denied the girls to insist on using condoms because as he told them this meant racial preoccupation by them,that the girls thought that a black may have AIDS,which is an obviously racial thought.

And?? That's just HIS story! Like I said it means nothing as concerns the broader topic of interracial relationships.
tomek - | 134  
13 Jun 2008 /  #29
It wouldn't be that bad if this ****** took some ripe women who knew what they did, but it seems he seduced some young students, who, like intelectuals everywhere in the world, are rather openminded and did not develop an awareness of their own. People who argument that it is the girls fault make ME SICK, even more - you put yourself in a very dark corner for me.

go fly a kite you bigoted arsehole

I didn't ofend you personally you damned crack bum.

Would it have been any different to you had a white man done exactly thew same thing?

It would - because a white man would not have done it due to racial issues. This bum is more a racists than me. Don't try to defend this cold piece of meat.

means nothing as concerns the broader topic of interracial relationships.

In a racialy homogeneous region like eastern europe blacks and mulattos allways will pull suspection upon them, there will be allways prejudice towards them - this in return makes them angry which leads to anti-social behaviour like that. Seperation is the only sollution.
Lukasz 49 | 1,746  
13 Jun 2008 /  #30
tomek

troll :)

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