When sending sms to mobiles abroad from uk, they could be an extra charge to the recipient. As far as I know there is a joining fee to send sms from yahoo or messenger.
If he has been lying to you, and setting up a date, with, who he thinks is another woman, then its time to face up to the truth, that he's not for you. Confront him about it , then tell him to sling his hook.
The following questions are to help a Polish friend of mine, who would like to come and work in the UK...hopefully someone who has come from Poland, and working here will answer. Will he need to get a work permit or visa?, and will he have to apply for a National Insurance number , before he can start working here?
Any help from your experiences would be much appreciated as I can't seem to find these answers anywhere online.