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Ok GUYS....THIS is what women want...stop acting lame [238]
First let me introduce myself.. Just call me The Rich Boy (Nate), and for good reason. (my website is in my profile)
Ive spent a LOT of time actively studying women and dating, and how the whole process of attraction works between them.
This topic should be a STICKIED for sure, because it answers just about every question that ever gets posted in this forum.I've learned a lot of very interesting things, things that almost seem the EXACT OPPOSITE of what would work "logically".
In this forum which i found yesterday, i see a common recurring problem with men.
You meet this great, sexy polish woman...you act all cool at first, and she actually starts to like you.
So you see each other on and off for a few months and you are REALLY into her...but suddenly shes avoiding you, acting distance, not returning your calls...saying stupid things like 'i need time for me' or 'its me, not you'. Crap right.
And then you're left there, heartbroken, wondering what the HELL happened??
Well, wake up call men! You probably started acting LAME!
Maybe i sound a little harsh here, but its the truth.
You probably started doing wussy things like1. Talking about your emotions.
2. Telling her how much you like her.
3. Asking her if she likes you.
4. Asking her about "the relationship"
5. Just generally being boring and predictable.
6. Being too available, like you dont have anything else going on in your life BUT her.
7. Being clingy (women cant handle this kind of responsibility! they want a MAN, not a CHILD!)
The list could literally go on for pages and pages of wussy actions. Yes, wussy is what you think it is , a wimp + pus*y.
Anyway, back to the question. What do girls want?
Besides ME of course, they want the following:1. A man in control
2. A man who is funny
3. A man who is spontaneous and NOT predictable, EVER
4. A man who is fun
5. A man who isnt affraid to put a girl in check when neccessary (This doesn't mean BE ABUSIVE!)
6. A man who is hard to get...always too unavailable.
7. A man who understands sexual communication
8. A man who is a sex GOD
9. A man who doesn't accept any BlTCHING or second class behavior from a woman.
10. Most important....A REAL man.
Okay...so I really am only touching the tip of the iceberg here...I could talk for hours about this topic...but hopefully I shed some extra light on a topic that is rarely ever directly addressed.
Anyway, let me hear everyone's responses!
