oh crap.. send the letter. if anything just to get your feelings down on paper. it
doesnt make you less a man when you share your feelings.
but I would move on too. just tell her how much love you had ( past tense) felt
but that you will move on.. dont write that you hate her, or anything bad, makes
you look like a stalker jerk who wont leave her alone.. silence is golden in alot of
things.. she made this choice, so just tell her, maybe later on we can be friends.
life is too short to sit and pout, so go out with your friends and have a good time.
but dont compare these ladies to your last one.. each person you will date is
unique in their own ways. sp make sure you match with them.. dont see more
outside then inside.. I know you can figure that one out..
she probably wont respond to your note, but that dont matter, you said what you
wanted to say. if anything, consider yourself lucky to feel that kind of love and that
its possible to feel this way again. and it will happen with time.. chin up :)
hang in there and lots of good wishes to find your soul mate :)
Dont do it! I made that mistake and she still has it, god knows why but what ever. She kept all the items I gave her while we where together. I've told her to get rid of them but she won't she says it reminds her of the good happy times we had! (f u c k that! get rid of it!)
Lt Navy.. as a man you might not see the signifiance to keeping such items but we
women do. even if things dont work out between two people, you still always have
a place in your heart for them, aside from the differences/troubles you had in the
relationship.. its better ( here I go again) to say I have loved then to not have loved
all the penned up anger you have to you might not be nothing and not causing harm
yet. but it will in the long run.. later on you will compare things your old love did with
the new one.. if you dont think it can happen it does. because you never let go of the
anger from the old one. so you will think things are going bad, when they arent, and
this new person will wonder what the heck is wrong with you..
you need to have fun, but with a female who is just a friend and nothing else so
you can gain back some trust and see things from the other side of the fence.
your only seeing your side, if someone keeps things I gave to them, I was the one
who gave this, it meant something obviously if they want to keep it.. so that is a
very heartfelt thing to do.. how can you tell someone to throw away memories they
cherish.. that is really selfish. sorry but i call it as I read it.. refrain from giving advice
that is penned up anger... not everyone will experience the same ..
the old saying different strokes for different folks.