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Joined: 11 Jun 2007 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 21 Jan 2008
Threads: Total: 2 / In This Archive: 2
Posts: Total: 106 / In This Archive: 106 		From: London
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Jambo   
18 Jul 2007
Love / Sending this poem to a girl - cheezy or not? [53]

If you have not gone out with her at all or only for a short time I think it is way over the top and she will run a mile. Lady in red's advice seems most sensible.
Jambo   
18 Jul 2007
Love / Sending this poem to a girl - cheezy or not? [53]

[quote=Wyspianska] So u think that poem is just good for make girl more interested in u and take her to ur bed? ^^ Haha, good one

No I do not think that! I think I would be stupid if I thought that. It seemed to me that the relationship established does not require a poem or at least that sort of poem. Much better to talk to her and tell her his feelings. However I do know my Polish female friend does not like discussing her feelings for me nor me discussing my feelings for her.
Jambo   
25 Jul 2007
Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]

Justyna is right ( as always) it is tough but you must move on as she has apparently decided your relationship is over.

I also found the man of my dreams and I have to face the fact that he'll never be with me. Such is life. I know how you feel but I'm afraid, there's nothing you can do about it.

Have you moved on Justyna?
Jambo   
25 Jul 2007
Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]

It is right to say that because a Polish women treats you badly during a relationship then all Polish women are to be avoided that is plain nonsense. Having said that there have been a number of threads ( mine included) of non Polish men meeting a Polish women in say the UK and everything going great then all of a sudden they become cold and distant. I do not draw any conclusions from this particularly. The reason I joined this forum was to try and learn more about Polish women to try and understand her change of attitude. Although each situation was different to mine it did help to read them. As It happens we now live together and are very close although we are not back to where we were and I doubt we will. She relocates soon anyway. It has been an experience!
Jambo   
25 Jul 2007
Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]

but my friend's boyfriend has told her that he has bought her an engagement ring. she is waiting for him to ask the big question..

Seems strange he tells her he has bought her an engagement ring and then not ask her to marry him. Why tell her if he is not going to ask her unless it is to keep her hanging on which if it is is cruel.
Jambo   
26 Jul 2007
Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]

There is something nice and captivating about young Polish girls. They have a childish laugh and smile, a magnetism

In my case she is 38.

You make them sound like hookers

There are a lot of Polish women now working as escorts in the UK. In fact there are UK web sites which specialise in providing Polish women as escorts. The British escorts are annoyed because the Polish escorts charge substantially less.
Jambo   
26 Jul 2007
Love / Getting my Polish girlfriend back?? [32]

Sound advice above. I am afraid yours is yet another story of a Polish women befriending a non Polish guy in the Western European country she moves to. Everything goes great for a while then she becomes cold and distant. I doubt her attitude will change. In my case whilst her attitude has softened towards me it has not fundamentally changed. I now accept where we are ( we are very good friends) and am moving on. She relocates in the UK soon anyway which resolves matters.
Jambo   
26 Jul 2007
Love / Getting my Polish girlfriend back?? [32]

If you read my post I think you will find that I did not say all Polish women are the same. Of course they are not. I was merely pointing out that a number of similar stories have been posted on this forum. I do not conclude from that all Polish women act like that.
Jambo   
26 Jul 2007
Love / Getting my Polish girlfriend back?? [32]

But you keep on bringing it up

I did'nt start this thread!. To be honest I am not sure why you are having a go at me. Finding people in a similar situation that you can empathise with can be cathartic. It was for me. It helped me a lot and gave me a perspective. I feel for the guy who started the thread and it may help him to know he is not alone.
Jambo   
27 Jul 2007
Love / I've met a Polish girl, and have feelings for her... [44]

Well if it is the natural reaction is go for it. But I have been in a situation where the only time this particular woman wanted to see me was for sex. It is great to start with then you very quickly feel used especially when she once said to me you can go now after we had had sex. The last time she sent me text asking me to go to her house I did not reply. I do not think Reece is okay with being used.
Jambo   
31 Jul 2007
Love / I've met a Polish girl, and have feelings for her... [44]

Then he finds out what a cheat she really is ???

Yes that is what I meant by my post. Although the pic should not have been posted if the Polish boyfriend does find out I suspect their relationship is over.
Jambo   
31 Jul 2007
Love / I've met a Polish girl, and have feelings for her... [44]

at which point he should go & shag her best friend right ? ;-)

He is probably doing that anyway!

I know a woman whose ex boyfriend ( whom she never wanted to see again) found her pic on the internet purely by chance surfing one day and he managed to find out where she now lived etc. Quite scary.
Jambo   
14 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

I had exactly the same experience with my ex Polish Girlfriend as you so I share your feelings and pain. Other people said the same to me and I did not want to listen to them although I knew they were right. There is no doubt she liked me a lot but she also used me to help her and provide her with a home and stability having recently come to the UK. Nobody likes to feel used.

She left me house on Sunday ( her new job is taking her to Germany if she passes her training in the UK). She thanked me for everything and wants us to stay in touch and remain very good friends. I was pleased to see her go to be honest and will not have her back.

The worst thing for you will be feeling she has used you.You will get over her put it down to one of life's experiences and remember the good times.
Jambo   
14 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

Yeah really positive thoughts which is great. In the end Kiwi Boy the loss is hers not yours. One day ( as also in the case of my Polish girlfriend as well) she will realise how much you did for her and how much you cared. It is better to have followed your heart and cared for her than not. This is how I feel and why I am positive like you.
Jambo   
19 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

I think the above post is a bit harsh on Kiwi Boy he said he gave her his heart. Yes he mentioned expensive presents but I suspect he did that out of love. In my case I gave her my heart and helped her in every way I could as she settled in the UK. I gave her some presents the most expensive present being a £70 watch. I did not do that to win her affection but simply to say I cared. The night before she left ( Poland for one week then back to the UK for five weeks then to Germany if she passes her training) she said more in ten minutes to me about her feelings than in the previous four and a half months. She thanked me for everthing I had done for her, how much she liked me and how much she cared. But you know I felt it was a speech she had made before to many other men. She came back to the UK today I called her twice ( first attempted contact since she left) to wish her good luck for her training. She did not answer. I doubt I will hear anything from her ( despite her saying she wants us to remain close friends) again my usefulness is over. She will migrate to another man in Germany who can help her and the whole cycle will start again. She is one of these intinerant women who work around Western Europe collecting men that are useful to her and then dispose of them. She said herself she is cold and hard. One day though she will get her just deserts.
Jambo   
20 Aug 2007
Love / Mexican in love with Polish girl. Need advice on what to do. [49]

You cannot come to the UK and get married to her as she is not a UK citizen so whoever told you that is wrong. She can only be in the UK living and working as she is a Polish citizen and Poland is part of the EU. In the EU there is freedom of movement and labour between EU countries which is why there is so many Polish people in the UK.
Jambo   
21 Aug 2007
Love / Mexican in love with Polish girl. Need advice on what to do. [49]

It is possible to marry a Polish person in the UK. It might not be possible for Jonny to gain entry into the UK.

It is certainly not possible for a non UK resident to marry another non UK resident in the UK. In any event the question is academic as he would not be allowed in the UK. I would have thought his best bet is to go to Poland and marry her in Poland if that makes him a Polish resident/Polish passport holder and I do not know the answer to that. However that almost certainly means he cannot go back to the US.