Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Love / My Polish boyfriend fancies are Pakistani neighbor. What do I do ? [291]
what is wrong with peoples perceptions nowadays, we are all people
ew a paki"
what is wrong with peoples perceptions nowadays, we are all people
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Love / My Polish boyfriend fancies are Pakistani neighbor. What do I do ? [291]
why is that an insult, and why are you using that term 'paki' its disrespectful? the fact he likes someone else while in a relationship and doesnt feel bad is wrong, but liking someone who is of different race and nationality is not wrong, would you find it an insult if he fancied a man instead? probably not to you, itd be ok right why? because its more socialbly acceptable to accept gays than to accept interracial relationships, WRONG. you think really bad. open your mind you silly little girl.
hottie, its true that some Polish men desire different nations, cultures and races because its rare for them and they want that, they want to try it to see. it shouldnt matter what race she is, thats not the real problem, hes not into you as you are into him thats the problem. have a break from him, if he comes back to you and misses you then he knows what he could have lost, but if he dont, then he didnt want you in the first place. whatever you do, dont run after him, he loves it.
What's being a Pakistani have to do with anything. Is this another racist comment from you dear
insult that he fancies a paki above you!
why is that an insult, and why are you using that term 'paki' its disrespectful? the fact he likes someone else while in a relationship and doesnt feel bad is wrong, but liking someone who is of different race and nationality is not wrong, would you find it an insult if he fancied a man instead? probably not to you, itd be ok right why? because its more socialbly acceptable to accept gays than to accept interracial relationships, WRONG. you think really bad. open your mind you silly little girl.
I dont understand why polish men like pakistani girls but my boyfriend tells me its because they dont have girls like her in poland.
what do i do please help!!!!
what do i do please help!!!!
hottie, its true that some Polish men desire different nations, cultures and races because its rare for them and they want that, they want to try it to see. it shouldnt matter what race she is, thats not the real problem, hes not into you as you are into him thats the problem. have a break from him, if he comes back to you and misses you then he knows what he could have lost, but if he dont, then he didnt want you in the first place. whatever you do, dont run after him, he loves it.
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Work / british working in Poland with no language [43]
you're sick, who thinks like that? maybe you are but im not, and who was talking about race?
urm, correct me if im wrong but nationality doesnt mean religon/faith lol
well at the time of my personal problem, i did put it on the relationship thread, so i think it was relevent. plus, you need to stop getting heated up on the past, i posted that thread months and months ago, its MY past not yours, stop crying lol
You inbred,
you're sick, who thinks like that? maybe you are but im not, and who was talking about race?
what is your nationality then?
atheist, free thinkers
atheist, free thinkers
urm, correct me if im wrong but nationality doesnt mean religon/faith lol
I am not a big fan of people posting their personal problems on the internet
well at the time of my personal problem, i did put it on the relationship thread, so i think it was relevent. plus, you need to stop getting heated up on the past, i posted that thread months and months ago, its MY past not yours, stop crying lol
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Work / british working in Poland with no language [43]
the past is in the past, the present is now, i live in the present and im happy, you live in the past and the dark ages and to be honest, a little too sad and desperate for thread replies, if you are so intelligent, why are you on my thread? oh yeah, i will have a good time in poland :)
i have grown some backbone and have grown mature, as you can see, i havent posted a thread in ages, why, because i sorted myself out, but people like you like to TRY and put people down because unfortunatley, you have no faith and you, still have a backward mind, which is no problem for me as i am not you.
Have fun in Poland, you called me small minded on a thread of mine...at least my thread got the forum debating in an inteligent way...your theads however dont!
the past is in the past, the present is now, i live in the present and im happy, you live in the past and the dark ages and to be honest, a little too sad and desperate for thread replies, if you are so intelligent, why are you on my thread? oh yeah, i will have a good time in poland :)
besides growing some backbone I cannot see that she would be different than she was in the past.
i have grown some backbone and have grown mature, as you can see, i havent posted a thread in ages, why, because i sorted myself out, but people like you like to TRY and put people down because unfortunatley, you have no faith and you, still have a backward mind, which is no problem for me as i am not you.
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Work / british working in Poland with no language [43]
thankyou
However, in your defence, I think there are some pretty hostile responses here. if posters have posted other threads which have nothing to do with this one, why should people feel it neccessary to find the time to look through these and comment on them if they are irrelevant to the discussion.. regardless of what you might think about the individual, why bother doing this.. its so sad.
thankyou
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Work / british working in Poland with no language [43]
only i can know that, not you little boy.
ive read your posts, and you dont seem to like the fact that Poles are here in England, you think they should find work elsewhere in other countries.
this is POLISH FORUMS, if you dont like Polish people, then dont register here.
silly
your obviously a weak woman, with no self resect or dignity.
only i can know that, not you little boy.
ive read your posts, and you dont seem to like the fact that Poles are here in England, you think they should find work elsewhere in other countries.
this is POLISH FORUMS, if you dont like Polish people, then dont register here.
silly
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Work / british working in Poland with no language [43]
thankyou. teaching? do you need a degree or someting?
mind you, when i went Poland the first time i spoke to a class for about 15mins, just to let them no how people from England speak
Today, 07:56 Report #8
Welcome back Blingin
Welcome back Blingin
thankyou. teaching? do you need a degree or someting?
mind you, when i went Poland the first time i spoke to a class for about 15mins, just to let them no how people from England speak
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Work / british working in Poland with no language [43]
correct, get used to it or dont bother posting anything here
Ms B is a little drama queen;)
correct, get used to it or dont bother posting anything here
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Work / british working in Poland with no language [43]
the first thing i write is..............
people, please read carefully and answer appropiately
are you a British citizen?
i am a British citizen
the first thing i write is..............
people, please read carefully and answer appropiately
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Life / Polish Integration with other Nationalities [150]
you have a very small mind
the less I think it is a good idea to mix.
you have a very small mind
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Work / british working in Poland with no language [43]
number 1, thats irrelevent to the question. please answer the question or dont write at all.
number 2, he never beat me up or cheated, he was just aggresive
number 1, thats irrelevent to the question. please answer the question or dont write at all.
number 2, he never beat me up or cheated, he was just aggresive
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Work / british working in Poland with no language [43]
i am a British citizen and my boyfriend is Polish. i want to live and work in Poland for 6 months, basically just to learn the language more.
i will be staying with his parents and he will be studying here in England. im really looking forward to it but the only problem is that i dont know that much Polish, and im wondering what sort of job i would end up having in result of this.
i know i can get a job because i know loads of Polish people here that dont speak any English and still get jobs, i dont know how they do it, but they do.
i did find a language cd called ROSETTA STONE and its supposed to be really good and people learn very quickly so i was wondering if theres anyone thats used this and been successful.
i am a British citizen and my boyfriend is Polish. i want to live and work in Poland for 6 months, basically just to learn the language more.
i will be staying with his parents and he will be studying here in England. im really looking forward to it but the only problem is that i dont know that much Polish, and im wondering what sort of job i would end up having in result of this.
i know i can get a job because i know loads of Polish people here that dont speak any English and still get jobs, i dont know how they do it, but they do.
i did find a language cd called ROSETTA STONE and its supposed to be really good and people learn very quickly so i was wondering if theres anyone thats used this and been successful.
Blingin
6 Aug 2008
Life / I AM BLACK. SHOULD I MOVE TO POLAND? [107]
excuse me, why are you putting down black people like that? you are agreeing with people that see only what the media shows how black poeple are. number 1, you cannot say black people are this and black people are that because every nation has nice, horrible, racist, murderers, kidknappers, christians, muslims and all kinds of different people. some white people dont like their own, same as mixed raced, chinese, asian, indian and black. you sound as if you are ashamed of being black and you are in a way apologising for how black people supposedly are.
WAR? CRIME? POVERTY? HOW DARE YOU. all these three things is in every single country in the world. tell me a country that aint got a rich side and a poor side. tell me a country that dont have gun, knife and all sorts of killing. tell me right now who aint in war.
people are racists, did you know scotland has really bad gun crime and poeple get killed all the time, is it ever on the news? no. i think its mexico that has really bad frequent kidknappings, is this on the news? no, they show maddie, who by the way was left alone, and should blame the parents because they were to busy being drunk, while some parents have no power, its just taken from them .
im really upset by what you said, agreeing like black people are degrading or we are dirty or something.
you need to read about black history, malcolm x and all that, you will be quick to refrain what you just posted.
please reply, anyone.
Well all these things are true. We as black people are very retrogressive, ignorant and warlike. I study my people and if you look at the black countries of the world, they are either a third world poverty stricken nation or just simply war torn. Thats a given. As a black man I have come to terms with it so all the things said about black people are true.
excuse me, why are you putting down black people like that? you are agreeing with people that see only what the media shows how black poeple are. number 1, you cannot say black people are this and black people are that because every nation has nice, horrible, racist, murderers, kidknappers, christians, muslims and all kinds of different people. some white people dont like their own, same as mixed raced, chinese, asian, indian and black. you sound as if you are ashamed of being black and you are in a way apologising for how black people supposedly are.
WAR? CRIME? POVERTY? HOW DARE YOU. all these three things is in every single country in the world. tell me a country that aint got a rich side and a poor side. tell me a country that dont have gun, knife and all sorts of killing. tell me right now who aint in war.
people are racists, did you know scotland has really bad gun crime and poeple get killed all the time, is it ever on the news? no. i think its mexico that has really bad frequent kidknappings, is this on the news? no, they show maddie, who by the way was left alone, and should blame the parents because they were to busy being drunk, while some parents have no power, its just taken from them .
im really upset by what you said, agreeing like black people are degrading or we are dirty or something.
you need to read about black history, malcolm x and all that, you will be quick to refrain what you just posted.
please reply, anyone.
Blingin
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
I FEEL SICK. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.
I FEEL SICK. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.
Blingin
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
no. i dont take anything. i feel so low. so so low. you guys think im crazy. im just going to go. i should pray to God. he'll give me the answer. thanx for your advice everyone.
no. i dont take anything. i feel so low. so so low. you guys think im crazy. im just going to go. i should pray to God. he'll give me the answer. thanx for your advice everyone.
Blingin
27 Dec 2007
Blingin
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
im beggining to have doubts about giving him a second chance. i want better, its just i dont see better, and i know this sounds really weak and pathetic, but im scared of being single again. i just like having him around. maybe we can be friends that hang out together. i dont know, i know im pathetic and weak. such a big mess.
im beggining to have doubts about giving him a second chance. i want better, its just i dont see better, and i know this sounds really weak and pathetic, but im scared of being single again. i just like having him around. maybe we can be friends that hang out together. i dont know, i know im pathetic and weak. such a big mess.
Blingin
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
because i was weak. whats ur opinion bout this situation. your always harsh and frank, but youre honest.
you never took the advice given
because i was weak. whats ur opinion bout this situation. your always harsh and frank, but youre honest.
Blingin
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
i feel like crying. i mean, he did say she had beautiful eyes. gosh. i wish could just leave to the countryside or beach and just think.
i feel like crying. i mean, he did say she had beautiful eyes. gosh. i wish could just leave to the countryside or beach and just think.
Blingin
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
are you being sarcastic or honest
It sounds perfect
are you being sarcastic or honest
Blingin
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
i feel like saying......
"if you really love me, you wouldnt of did what you did. but because i want to fight for this relationship, i will give it another go BUT, you have to prove your true love to me. i cannot tell you how, but i will know if you have changed, untill then, its best if we are friends and see how things progress."
how does that sound
What do you feel like doing and saying?
i feel like saying......
"if you really love me, you wouldnt of did what you did. but because i want to fight for this relationship, i will give it another go BUT, you have to prove your true love to me. i cannot tell you how, but i will know if you have changed, untill then, its best if we are friends and see how things progress."
how does that sound
Blingin
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
so should i just say were fininshed and wait till he pusues me, or say change, then we can start again. i mean, what do i say?
If he is really sorry he will do what it takes all on his own.
so should i just say were fininshed and wait till he pusues me, or say change, then we can start again. i mean, what do i say?
Blingin
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
when he comes back, im going to break up with him, and if he can clean up his act, ditch his bad influences, move out and get his own place, work hard, then ill consider taking him back. i know if he really loves me and wants me, then he will do it. how long, say 3 months?
when he comes back, im going to break up with him, and if he can clean up his act, ditch his bad influences, move out and get his own place, work hard, then ill consider taking him back. i know if he really loves me and wants me, then he will do it. how long, say 3 months?
Blingin
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
i wont, im just keeping it temporarly sealed until he proves he is trust worthy. im taking it slow this time. i just wanna concentrate on my career and stuff.
don't let him close your heart
i wont, im just keeping it temporarly sealed until he proves he is trust worthy. im taking it slow this time. i just wanna concentrate on my career and stuff.
Blingin
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
that right.
just because i chose to take him back, i am not the crying vunerable doormat girl i used to be. im now the strong confident independent woman, who still loves and wants to give it another go. he thinks its all roses, its thorns from now on, i have been pricked for a long time, now his turn to bleed (not physically)
hell hath no fury like a woman scorned
yikes
scarper lads
yikes
scarper lads
that right.
just because i chose to take him back, i am not the crying vunerable doormat girl i used to be. im now the strong confident independent woman, who still loves and wants to give it another go. he thinks its all roses, its thorns from now on, i have been pricked for a long time, now his turn to bleed (not physically)
Blingin
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
he will not get away with what hes done, he deserves to be punished. im no judge, but he needs to be sentenced, im still seeking revenge. it aint over, im thinking straight and im strong.
doesn't sound "strong"
he will not get away with what hes done, he deserves to be punished. im no judge, but he needs to be sentenced, im still seeking revenge. it aint over, im thinking straight and im strong.
Blingin
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
yes we do, taking him back does not mean im weak. before he was in control, but now i have become stronger, i thought id be weak. its someone wrote something good can come out of this, she was right. im strong for 2008
we all make mistakes...
yes we do, taking him back does not mean im weak. before he was in control, but now i have become stronger, i thought id be weak. its someone wrote something good can come out of this, she was right. im strong for 2008
Blingin
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
true, but still no excuse. i am so not in the position to get hurt. i have totally turned off my feelings. or shall i say they have automatically switched off. his antics have made me feel so strong. i feel like nothing will hurt me.
he cant control me now. i know it sounds weird, but i feel like a different women. or is this just a phase, it feels good, i hope its permanent. this way i can have relationships and not get hurt.
If it was innocent, why would he have to tell her about it ?
true, but still no excuse. i am so not in the position to get hurt. i have totally turned off my feelings. or shall i say they have automatically switched off. his antics have made me feel so strong. i feel like nothing will hurt me.
he cant control me now. i know it sounds weird, but i feel like a different women. or is this just a phase, it feels good, i hope its permanent. this way i can have relationships and not get hurt.
Blingin
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
i am definetly. i am much more stronger and i feel like no one can f*** with me. i mean, i love him, and even if i take him back, theres going to be no more mrs nice/sweet/sensitive/doormat guy
what advice would you give even if i was to take him back?
learn from it
i am definetly. i am much more stronger and i feel like no one can f*** with me. i mean, i love him, and even if i take him back, theres going to be no more mrs nice/sweet/sensitive/doormat guy
what advice would you give even if i was to take him back?
Blingin
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]
hes begging me not to leave him. he told me he was leading her on as a joke, but bit him in the face didnt it. yes hes in poland im in .uk. hell come back. i am now going to play cool and not take things seriously. he will have to do alot more things to get me to even wanna be with him.
I doubt he'll be running into your outstretched arms.
hes begging me not to leave him. he told me he was leading her on as a joke, but bit him in the face didnt it. yes hes in poland im in .uk. hell come back. i am now going to play cool and not take things seriously. he will have to do alot more things to get me to even wanna be with him.