johncardwell
18 Jul 2009
Love / My Perfect Love Story so I thought [73]
Good and educational story.
This woman sounds like a witch.
While you were thinking of your future together with her, she was thinking of herself.
And she deceived two men at once?
She had another man for five months and you found out from the other man?
And she calls herself a Christian?
I don't think so.
Many Polish Girls claim they are Christian just to fit into their culture.
But once they get outside the culture the actions and words speak for themselves.
It is better that this happened now before any children were born.
Or before you based any type of citizenship on your marriage with her.
Interestingly and truthfully, I know a Muslim Man from Pakistan.
He had a Polish Love Interest and was proceeding much like you.
But they both lived in England so he could visit her and see her in person.
And then one day unexpected to him, she told him she loved another man and she moved in with the other man.
My friend tried to reason with her but to no avail.
So he left the situation and dealt with the despair.
Then around a year later, she called him.
She got pregnant by the other guy and the other guy left her.
Suddenly her "Catholic" Principles kicked in.
She decided she did not want an abortion.
She moved back to Poland to be with her family.
She called my Pakistan Friend and told him about her situation and tried to get him to help her.
She actually expected him to ride in like a hero and take care of her and her baby that she had by another man.
But by now, even the sound of her voice made my friend want to vomit, so he hung up the phone on her.
Then she called him again and threatened to kill herself.
He decided not to take her calls any more so he never knew what happened to her.
For you, you sound like a decent guy but a little naive.
A Muslim Man from Pakistan with a European Woman?
Sounds like a miserable existence.
Interfaith marriages have a much higher probability to fail.
Would she convert to your faith?
And where would you live?
Europe?
Europe is secular.
Especially Belgium.
And Poland is becoming secular.
Many Europeans hate Muslims and are afraid of them.
Look at the some of the comments you received on this forum.
It should tell you something.
If you had children, which religion would they be?
Did you speak with your family about this girl?
And one last thing.
If this woman tries to contact you, maybe better not to answer her.
Polish Girls outside Poland can be very naive.
It is quite possible this man will use her a while then cast her aside.
It is quite possible if she contacts you she will be in despair but will try not to show it.
She will try to make you feel sorry for her.
Or try to use you to make the other guy jealous to get a marriage out of him or money out of him.
Be happy it happened sooner than later and use it to build better character for yourself.
Good and educational story.
This woman sounds like a witch.
While you were thinking of your future together with her, she was thinking of herself.
And she deceived two men at once?
She had another man for five months and you found out from the other man?
And she calls herself a Christian?
I don't think so.
Many Polish Girls claim they are Christian just to fit into their culture.
But once they get outside the culture the actions and words speak for themselves.
It is better that this happened now before any children were born.
Or before you based any type of citizenship on your marriage with her.
Interestingly and truthfully, I know a Muslim Man from Pakistan.
He had a Polish Love Interest and was proceeding much like you.
But they both lived in England so he could visit her and see her in person.
And then one day unexpected to him, she told him she loved another man and she moved in with the other man.
My friend tried to reason with her but to no avail.
So he left the situation and dealt with the despair.
Then around a year later, she called him.
She got pregnant by the other guy and the other guy left her.
Suddenly her "Catholic" Principles kicked in.
She decided she did not want an abortion.
She moved back to Poland to be with her family.
She called my Pakistan Friend and told him about her situation and tried to get him to help her.
She actually expected him to ride in like a hero and take care of her and her baby that she had by another man.
But by now, even the sound of her voice made my friend want to vomit, so he hung up the phone on her.
Then she called him again and threatened to kill herself.
He decided not to take her calls any more so he never knew what happened to her.
For you, you sound like a decent guy but a little naive.
A Muslim Man from Pakistan with a European Woman?
Sounds like a miserable existence.
Interfaith marriages have a much higher probability to fail.
Would she convert to your faith?
And where would you live?
Europe?
Europe is secular.
Especially Belgium.
And Poland is becoming secular.
Many Europeans hate Muslims and are afraid of them.
Look at the some of the comments you received on this forum.
It should tell you something.
If you had children, which religion would they be?
Did you speak with your family about this girl?
And one last thing.
If this woman tries to contact you, maybe better not to answer her.
Polish Girls outside Poland can be very naive.
It is quite possible this man will use her a while then cast her aside.
It is quite possible if she contacts you she will be in despair but will try not to show it.
She will try to make you feel sorry for her.
Or try to use you to make the other guy jealous to get a marriage out of him or money out of him.
Be happy it happened sooner than later and use it to build better character for yourself.