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Arien   
7 Nov 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

I've heard this phrase once, and although I didn't understand it back then, I do now..

''Don't desire what you can't have.''

:)

Hope it'll help you. (It's a bit cryptic, but it's true!) You should forget about the ones you want to have, and think about the ones who want to have you..

;)
Arien   
7 Nov 2009
Love / Personal issues with two women, they want to be my friend - a Polish thing? [49]

Permanence is key and there are too many players on this or that chemical these days.

..atleast they don't destroy your heart?

:|

Girls call you up and tell you that they miss you and you are still wondering what they want? Shall I draw you a map?

I'm going to have to agree with you for once, because I'm a simpleton.

:)
Arien   
7 Nov 2009
Love / Personal issues with two women, they want to be my friend - a Polish thing? [49]

Seanus

Well, I suppose you're the man with experience, so he should listen to you, but whatever you meant to say was too complicated for me at the moment. Angel - Devil situation here?

:)

A-J (Angel - Seanus: 1 Devil - Arien: 0)

..but you know you wanna have fun with those girls!
Arien   
7 Nov 2009
Love / Personal issues with two women, they want to be my friend - a Polish thing? [49]

I wouldn't dream of phoning up a young woman to tell her I'm lonely

Why not? Maybe she's dreaming about you phoning her up to tell her that you're lonely? I can't see anything wrong with that?

You go boy! (Geez, I wish I was that unlucky!)

;)

And if they still cross it you have to take appropriate actions to make it stop.

Yeah, then you have to pick one, and have lots of fun together! Such terrible dilemma's you guys have to deal with! Wow.. I wouldn't want to be in your shoes, really! Nevermind me though, I probably just don't get it?

;)
Arien   
7 Nov 2009
News / 14 year old rape victim from Warsaw denied abortion! [348]

Have you bought any prams/strollers for your embryo 'person?'.

If an embryo is a person, would a spermcell also be a person? If that's the case, then I'm afraid I'm a mass-murderer!

:O
Arien   
4 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

Okay, that's understandable. I will say something in defense of the guys aswell, because I'm sure you're aware of the fact that some children can be pretty nasty towards a new dad or a new mom aswell? (It's no excuse for cruel behaviour though!)

I agree that parents, including new boyfriends or girlfriends should always treat a child with love and care though. No doubts there. I wouldn't accept a partner who treated my children like garbage either! (But ofcourse there's a huge difference between a moment of frustration and frequent abuse!)

It depends on the situation.

Well, I meant guy as in father of her child in a healthy relationship. It just came across a bit like worthless guys in general, if you get my drift.. (No offense!)

;)
Arien   
4 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

She is right. Kids should be the center of every parent's world.

True. (But maybe you can agree with me that she made it sound like guys are worthless?) You've worded it better. I mean, imagine I would say something like: They are worth more than any girl, they are your life. I'm sure you know what I mean.

;)

If you have kids and divorce your spouse, you shouldn't neglect them just because you are busy looking for someone else.

Absolutely.

I saw at the store, a woman with a small child and a new boyfriend and the boyfriend was being mean to her child. I think women should dump men who are like this.

It wouldnt double if most couples only had one or two children, which is becoming more and more common.

I hope so, I know it'll save future generations a lot of mess.

I certainly wouldnt want to have any more than two. Its becoming a financial risk to have one let alone three or four.

Oh, I hear you!

;)
Arien   
4 Nov 2009
UK, Ireland / Why do Poles come to England? [514]

If you're going to be a kiss-off, can't you put it in a better way than this? Like I did, for example?

I know life has to be hard when you need to drag down others to feel a bit better about yourself, and I guess I will let you, out of pity..

:)

A-J (Pity!)
Arien   
4 Nov 2009
UK, Ireland / Why do Poles come to England? [514]

By the way I dont think we are the best, but we're certainly better than some, why else would people flock here?

I really don't think they're coming to your country because you're all so bloody wonderful? Financial reasons perhaps?

;)
Arien   
4 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

As for population increase and problems afterwords. probably 100 years ago, people were saying similar things even when it was a billion people only.

..and those people were right, as you can count for yourself today.

;)

also, euthanasia in holland is legally free now, right? if it becomes legally free everywhere in the world, it will be a good progress for humanity and i am sure some millions will do this.

I think it's more sensible to admit that it's probably better not to give birth to a child, then to put this child on a overcrowded, and miserable earth which could make him or her commit suicide, or choose for Euthanasia in the future. I don't think Euthanasia is the solution. I think facing our social responsibilities is.

Be a part of the problem, be a part of the solution, or be a part of the landscape? Being a part of the landscape just isn't for me, it's what sheep do. (And we have enough of those people!) So if it's a problem for people to hear such things, then I'm happy to be a part of the problem. If it can be a solution for people to hear such things, then I'm happy to be a part of the solution.

It all depends on how you look at it. I refuse to be a yes-man though. Killing isn't a solution, birth control is. (Oh, and I'm sure I can make a woman feel extremely useful, and appreciated too!)

Even if you don't have children of your own, you can care for other children. You can be useful as a teacher, a nurse or a coach. It's rubbish to feel useless, and I know all about it, but it doesn't have to be that way really..

:)
Arien   
4 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

I mean we'll run out of everything. Fish, meat, food, work, energy, housing, space, clean air and nappies..

;)
Arien   
4 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

100% of females want child.

I wouldn't say that all the girls out there want children, because I happen to know a few ladies who didn't want to have children. I know most women do want children of their own though, and I get no pleasure out of saying this, but wanting a child doesn't make it the best thing to do for humanity as a whole.

I'm sure the girls can see what I mean when I say we also have a future to think about. Or do they all think we should proceed to breed like rabbits (No offense intended, I just don't have any other words for it!) and have our population doubled by the time of 2050?

Just imagine that for a second, 12 Billion people in 2050.. (Which is going to be a reality if we keep doing this!) That's almost twice as much people everywhere as we have today. I really don't think you have to be Einstein to figure out how many problems that would cause?

;)
Arien   
4 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

They are worth more than any guy, they are your life,

Uhm.. Your son will be someone else's guy in the future? (So I take it your daughter is worth more than any son?)

;)

nothing can compare to a child which is the biggest treasure and miracle in the world.

I keep hearing it, but I've seen a lot of misery aswell, and ofcourse a lot of people who can't live up to all these wonderful expectations.

They are part of you and life has no purpose without a child.

They are a part of your guy too? Oh, and life does have a purpose without a child, and sometimes life even has a purpose without love. It all depends on what the person wants, does, and believes in.

A lot of scientists don't have children, but I think their life has a purpose, and they all share the same passion for the things they study. I think it's pretty dumb to state you have no purpose if you don't have children.

Oh, and something else, we actually need less children on this earth, instead of more, more, more.. (It's not because I hate children though!) But you know, I can't see much of a future when you have issues like overpopulation and consuming our recources like we do today.

Responsibility? I'm responsible for my own actions, and I won't let anyone tell me I'm irresponsible or that my life has no purpose, simply because I happen to think I shouldn't put a child on this earth as it is today.

It doesn't have anything to do with money either Nomaderol, a child deserves two loving parents, who are both dedicated and caring, and not just one. I think there's more to life than raising children though, and some people just aren't exactly parenthood material. No shame in that..

:)

this is so cause those you call adults are still kids and hence they dont know to raise the kids. they work a lot. to raise kids or for what?

Adults who keep breeding like there's no tomorrow also are irresponsible. They are selfish. They only think I want children, and they don't really seem to care about the future and wellbeing of all people either. That's something for later, for their own children to fix, right?

As if that's something you should pass onto your children?

Now who's the childish adult Nomaderal? The ones who know something has to change, or the ones who pretend like everything will be as it always has been? (I mean, how naive can you be?) No offense to people who have children, because I'm not blaming those for anything. Just think about the future for a second, before you're telling everyone to have children like there are no consequences.

;)
Arien   
3 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

i've been looking and thinking problems everywhere. seeing two kinds; those busy with economical problems and those busy with sexual problems.

You really don't see many problems then do you? I see people who are dying from famine, medieval diseases, war, epidemics. I see people kill eachother because of their religion. I see people who are busy with political shifts, people who are busy with our climate problem, the destruction of our natural habitat, our environment, people who are busy with both animal, and human rights. I see people who are busy with social problems, economical problems, scientific solutions..

And ofcourse I see people like you.. Busy inventing new problems, because they're boring themselves to death, not having sex.

;)
Arien   
3 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]

how do u make yr partner feel special??

I'd take her to Greece, and visit the ruins of the temple of Aphrodite, and ask her to marry me. (That should make her feel pretty special don't you think?)

:)

and what can I do for this special guy so he feels special ??(if he already doesn't, but still! I want the attraction back

Well, from the sound of things, you're already trying to do a lot of things to make him feel special. Are you the sporty type? Adventurous? You know, activities can help growing even more towards eachother..

Try a survival, he'll be able to save his girl from drowning, and help her out whenever she gets stuck in the mud, he can warm you up in your tent when the both of you are cold and soaking wet from all the rain..

He'll see what a woman you are, his male instincts will thrive, and you'll see he'll do anything for you under different circumstances. I don't think you should change your behaviour, or his, but maybe you should think about changing the scenery? Experience something completely different?

It may sound weird Kasia, but it's not always about what you can do for your guy, but what your guy wants to do for you to show his affection. We all have different ways of showing our affection, and this is just a suggestion. It doesn't have to be a survival, but do something fun together, do something wild, and let him feel like he's needed.. Just a bit of thrill and adventure always works for us guys, you'll see.

:)
Arien   
3 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

if you look at sexual problems of people everywhere, it seems sex lifes need help.

That's hardly an argument. If you look at all the problems of people everywhere, then sex has to be the least of their concerns. You should consider helping people who are asking for your help. No offense, but I really don't need your help.

:)
Arien   
3 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

Control and discipline yourself and have sex only with one person whom you marry, then you won't get all those diseases.

Oh no! She used the M-word!

:O

Ever heard of cheating?

Maybe that's what happens when you screw everybody around???.

Dilemma: Having a disease, or having a marriage? Or having both?

:P

I'll take my chances!
Arien   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

If a girl was to knowingly have sex with a guy when she has AIDS and doesn't tell him. Is there precident for criminal charges being brought against her?

If proven guilty, yes.

(or in the case of a guy, swap genders) on the counts of knowing passing on what is, for all fairness, a death sentence. Or would it get thrown out on the grounds of "you should have used protection".

No, if you know you have it, and you're withholding such information to sexpartners, then it's a serious crime.
Arien   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

I remember a US girl who told me:Why did you try to kiss me?How do you know I have no STD?Feked up logic.

Well, technically, you could catch certain Herpes variants just by kissing, but this rarely ever happens in reality.

:)

who to believe then? women?

Yeah, why not? As if every girl is so messed up she would sleep with you while knowing she has a serious STD? No, I know that most women will be honest enough with you. Just not in public when it comes to STD's. (I can't say I blame them!)

;)
Arien   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

Reading numbers there on the web site above about women diseases.

..and you believe everything you read on the web? Every second someone dies. Every second someone is born. How to keep those statistics updated I wonder? Oh, I think I know already, they have a magical database! Right?

;)
Arien   
2 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]

prove me i'm wrong...?

Alright!

90% of men who don't wash their privates...

So there are about 3.439.195.000 males on our planet. So if 90% of the males don't wash their privates, it means there are 3.095.275.500 males who don't wash their privates, and 343.919.500 who do wash their privates.

I have no STD's, and I've been checked on every possible disease recently. I haven't had sex since my last medical check. I wash my private too, so this means that 3.095.275.499 males are still accused of not washing their privates, and that 343.919.501 males are now officially clean!

;)