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eddiewop   
10 Mar 2008
Love / Polish women are the best!!!!!! [77]

Regretfully, I am old an in love, but I take your point.
The girl makes me happy, happier than I have been for last 10 years, after break up of previous relationship ( with an Englishwoman - I am also English)
eddiewop   
10 Mar 2008
Love / I have met a wonderful Polish woman, but she has a 9 yrs old daughter [66]

She came to UK for work and for money to support her son, as her marriage had broken down after a year. She was not looking for a relationship here. Neither of us set out to form a relationship , we just liked each other , and well ...

Wyspianska.

She does't quite clean toliets, but not much better. But more money than she could earn in Poland. Husband has not found anyone, as he still wants her back, but , she does not love him , and would not go back, even for sake of boy, who loves his father as well.

I agree it is a mess, but you can't help who you fall for. 20 years ago , she would have been ideal, but I beleive we will end , as despite everything I am far too conscious of our age gap, especially if we went to Poland.

I appreciate your comments. There is no dupa like an old dupa.
eddiewop   
10 Mar 2008
Love / I have met a wonderful Polish woman, but she has a 9 yrs old daughter [66]

She lives in flat with her aunt, I am not supporting her financially as she works. She left husband after a year, and has been in UK for 4 years.

Bla.

Sorry, but I was not boasting, in fact I am somewhat ashamed of the situation myself,
but you can not help who you fall for.

She left husband after a year of marriage , he too was a little older than her, and she was young and immature, as indeed I was at 27. He does know she is in UK & working.

But thanks for the advice.
eddiewop   
9 Mar 2008
Love / Met a polish girl... [27]

A?? is pretty, Polish and married, but sex is good, at my age, 57. .
She is 27, BUT she is married and has an 8 year old son in Poland, so our marriage is totally out,as she will not seek a divorce. She fears loosing custody of her son, who lives with her parents, though husband lives in same vilage. She see boy 2/3 times a year, but sends money and has Child benefit for him as well.

In fact, although I love her, I fear that our relationship will end, as she and her aunt, B , are renting a flat, and she has refused to come to live with me.

Our age gap is 30 years, and I know that her parents, who she informed of our relationship when back in Poland last week are none to happy, though Mom did send me some gołąbki . My Mum was born in Romania , and always cooked stuffed cabbage for me.

I love the girl, but do not see that the relationship will go further.
eddiewop   
9 Mar 2008
Love / I have met a wonderful Polish woman, but she has a 9 yrs old daughter [66]

I too have met a wonderful 27 year old Polish girl. Sex is good, she is a good cook, and I believe I love her.She however is still married, though separated with an 8 year old son in Poland.

She will NOT consider seeking a divorce, as he husband has threatened to take custody of her son. She is worried that as she is in UK andonly sees son 2/3 times a year, a Court may uphold her husbands wishes.

She fell pregant, I was stupid, but the complications meant thay she would not contemplate having the child,, for fear that she would be branded as a ***** in her village , and fear of loosing her so,

I am 57 and she is only 27, so a child to me would have been a serious change in lifestyle, but deep inside I regret our joint decision to have an abortion.
eddiewop   
9 Mar 2008
Love / I'm pregnant of a polish guy [90]

My 27 year old Polish girlfriend fell pregant just after Xmas. It was not planned, but equally I was none too careful. Rather than be happy, she was devasted. I knew she had a child in Poland, but not that she was still married.

Simply she could not have child , as it would cause problems in her village, and she feared above all the husband would try to take custody of her son. She sees him only 2/3 times a year as she lives/works in England.

I would have loved to take on a child, even though I am 57 , and she is only 27.

Life is so unfair at times, and I sympathise with the Spanish girl.But at least she will have a child to bring up. I will end up with neither Polish girl, or child, as she had abortion .
eddiewop   
9 Mar 2008
Love / polish girl was by far the best [17]

My Polish girl is brunette cute, very pretty and I believe could make me a good wife. But she is married with a child in Poland , so I fear our romance will go no further, as she will not seek a divorce for fear of loosing her son.

To me, she is the best woman I have ever met,, and been with and like "squaddie " I find her warmer and less self orientated than my previous ( English) partners.

She would be my ideal wife, not overly sexy, and not too homely.
eddiewop   
9 Mar 2008
Love / 5 months with my polish girlfriend now she's pregnant ! [21]

My problem is that although my Polish girlfriend fell pregant, it must have been the cider on New Year's Eve, she is married ( separated) with a young son in Poland.

Having our child would have caused so many problems, here and in her village, as tongues would wag, and her husband would try to take son form her. Also I am 57 and she is only 27.

Reluctantly, she had an abortion, which I could see was correct solution ast time, BUT, I love her , and would wish to marry her, IF I could .
eddiewop   
9 Mar 2008
Love / Dating a Polish girl - need some advice [45]

I am dating , and sleeping with a pretty 27 year old Polish girl. I am never 100% sure of her feelings, because of her poor English, but she is very affectionate in bed, although somewhat restricted in what she wil do. She will give me a blow job, but does not like "French" as she calls cunnilingus.

My problem is that she is married ( separated) with a child in Poland, and will not seek a divorce, for fear of loosing the boy to her ex, who lives in same village as boy.

As such our marriage is out of question, as is living together and having children. I am 57 and do not really have so mich time left .

I see no way out of situation, as I love her deeply, and want to spend the rest of my life with her.
eddiewop   
9 Mar 2008
Love / Dating a Polish girl - need some advice [45]

I fell for a younger Polish girl (27 , I am 57) , who lives with my friend's mother ( she came from Poland after WW2). I has known her for some 2 yeras, and built up courage to ask her out.

We had sex, after 4 dates. and as she could not go home , spent Xmas and New Year with me . She is very pretty, and is very affectionate and tender in bed, and thinks far less of herself than she deserves . .

She is married ( separated) with a young son, and is terrified of loosing him, if she seeks divorce. She only sees boy 2/3 times a year.

I would dearly love to marry this woman , but fear that there are too many obstacles, including age difference.
eddiewop   
9 Mar 2008
Real Estate / Foreigners: Please don't buy Polish Land! [823]

Ola.

You Poles are coming over here & where possible taking OUR homes & jobs.
Sale of land is somewhat different here, but where is difference in who goes where? EU allows us to move.

I wish to move to -uławki/Gdansk area with my girlfriend. IF I can.