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Sc0tt   
15 May 2007
Love / Do Anglo-Polish relationships actually work long term ? [13]

This is good to hear :)

i have been seeing a beautiful polish woman myself & the more i see her the more i am falling for her .

like any relationship ,it's what you make of it ,i personally don't see different backgrounds being an obstacle .
Sc0tt   
15 May 2007
Love / Do Anglo-Polish relationships actually work long term ? [13]

Thats the spirit...go ahead...and good luck.

thankyou .... first time i have ever dated someone from another country .... i am really enjoying not only getting to know the person but learning different language too :)
Sc0tt   
29 May 2007
UK, Ireland / Polish Sperm donors needed in London [19]

lol .... that's what i was thinking ! ... i could probably give Bill Gates a run for his money .... ok maybe not haha
Sc0tt   
19 Jun 2007
Love / Sad :( I feel i have lost something very special [32]

I'm not a person to post personal things on a forum & have only been on here a short time but in a strange way i feel the need to get this out .

Last night i had a chat with my kochanie & the outcome was not what i expected .After seeing each other for a little over 3 months she told me that she feels she will never fall in love with me .When we started seeing each other my mind was totally open ,i didn't go into it on the expectation that i would fall for her but slowly over that time my feelings have grown .

I won't go into detail but we have decided to give each other space to give time to think .

As i sit here typing this i can honestly say i feel i have lost something very special,she brought a ray of sunshine to my life & i never seen that what happened last night coming .

I really don't know what is best to do ,i feel i want to do everything in my power not to lose her but feel helpless & don't want to ruin the small glimmer of chance i may have left :( :( :(
Sc0tt   
19 Jun 2007
Love / Sad :( I feel i have lost something very special [32]

Thankyou for your words .... sadly this isn't the first time i have been through this & yes i know time will heal .... she is genuineley one of the kindest & nicest natured persons i have met & had the good fortune of getting to know.

It just goes against everything i believe in from the point of view that sometimes in life if you really want something you have to fight for it but in relationships this doesn't apply & i hate to just give in .
Sc0tt   
22 Jun 2007
Love / Sad :( I feel i have lost something very special [32]

Jarmy what you said is very similar with me with regards to all the signals ,i guess i just read them wrong :( .We have said that we would try & be friends ,i honestly don't know if it will work but i am prepared to at least try .She has a lot going on in her life with having a very good job & wants to do best in career which i would have never wanted to get in the way of ,i would have supported her with whatever she wanted to do .

What has shocked me so much is the fact that i never seen this coming ,i thought all was well & then this,it would have been nice to have chatted about it & had the chance to maybe try something to resolve it ,maybe given it a little more time .

Now i'm usually quite a strong person but this has knocked me off my stride ,i have hardly eaten anything this week ,not had a good nights sleep & feel like i wanna be sick all the time .... feeling like this has made me realise just how much she meant to me .

What also makes it worse is i just don't know when i will see her again ,going to that from seeing her every couple of days to being in touch daily ,when i seen her before it always put a smile on my face ,now it feels i have nothing to look forward to .......
Sc0tt   
24 Jun 2007
Love / Do you think letters after you have broken up work ?? [29]

I'm not great at writing letters but after breaking up with my kochanie(her choice) nearly a week ago now i was thinking of maybe putting things into words .... from your experience do you think this is a good thing to do or just a waste of time ??
Sc0tt   
24 Jun 2007
Love / Do you think letters after you have broken up work ?? [29]

be a man and grow some. Don't be the animal in Daisys' pic minus the "-cat" part.

lol .... i guess i would just like to think well at least i tried & gave it my best shot but yea i'm probably just clutching at straws.
Sc0tt   
24 Jun 2007
Love / Do you think letters after you have broken up work ?? [29]

It depends on what you want to achieve from it?

ultimately to have another chance & give time ,i think she was scared because we were both going at different speeds,the first i find out is when she tells me this & that we should finish ,without having the opportunity of maybe slowing down & seeing where it goes from there .
Sc0tt   
25 Jun 2007
Love / Do you think letters after you have broken up work ?? [29]

never heard of that expression before ! ... i'm sure if i bought her perfume she would accept but still not have me back :(

I think i'll leave the letter thing for just now & just try & get on with my life for now as best i can .
Sc0tt   
25 Jun 2007
Love / Sad :( I feel i have lost something very special [32]

Just read your thread Jambo & from what you have said i feel she is just using yourself ,sorry to be so blunt ,especially when she has another man elsewhere etc ,when you have feelings for someone like you do for her,stopping those feelings can be very difficult indeed .You sound like someone that is way too good for her & you can do better .

My circumstances are somewhat different,my kochanie was only 23 & had no baggage(that i know of),i am 33,in a nutshell she told me that she didn't have feelings for me & that she couldn't see that changing & better to stop now than later .But i guess what makes it hard for me to understand is the signals that she gave me ,they were not signals i would give to someone you want to just be a friend with,maybe Polish women class this is a being friends,i wouldn't imagine so but you never know.

Through time i know i will respect her more for stopping it if she didn't have feelings but with her getting a good job,she is very career minded at the moment,something i feel is a priority in her life right now,which i think is great & wouldn't want to stand in the way of,i just think the relationship part of her life was "taking a backseat" which again i can understand & would have been happy to cool things ... but the sad thing was i was never given that opportunity & if there is 1 wish i could wish for right now ,it's that i had one chance :(
Sc0tt   
7 Jul 2007
Love / Can't Work her out! She's Polish! [40]

go with the flow Richy .... go & have a laugh with her & just enjoy her company without getting too heavy .... rivers run deep & all that ... you don't know what has happened in the past ... she probably just wants to have fun herself after maybe being hurt from her ex .

It's never easy lol
Sc0tt   
9 Jul 2007
Love / Which is better? Being single or being in a relationship? [92]

I'm 33 now & recently became single after seeing a Polish girl for 4 mths (hence the reason i started using this forum) .

I don't feel pressured by society to be in a relationship personally .

I do prefer to be in a relationship than being single because i miss the close company ... but for now i have to keep looking .....
Sc0tt   
24 Feb 2008
UK, Ireland / Sending a parcel to Poland from UK [30]

Thread attached on merging:
Sending a parcel from UK to Poland

I need to send a small parcel however it is quite heavy ,anyone know of any carriers that are not just reliable but also not so expensive ??

To be despatched from Edinburgh .

Thanks .
Sc0tt   
6 Nov 2009
USA, Canada / Going on holiday to USA - visa needed for a Pole? [11]

Merged: Holiday Visa for US

My Polish partner & i wish to go to Florida next year for a 2 week break .

At this moment we are unsure exactly when ,does anyone know when applying for a Visa ,does the US embassy require exact dates of travel or would it be possible to get say a 6mth visa so we can be flexible ?

The only thing that concerns me is ,if the dates are to be exact ,we really have to book to guarantee but then we may not be guaranteed a visa .

Many thanks in advance for help .

Scott
Sc0tt   
6 Nov 2009
USA, Canada / Going on holiday to USA - visa needed for a Pole? [11]

Excellent ,thanks for the replies .

I had heard through a friend of a friend that someone was granted a 10 year visa also but wasn't sure they had the facts right ,so seems quite common .

I think we will try this approach .

Fingers crossed !!

Update

After applying & attending an interview at the US embassy my partner is now the holder of a 10 year visa :)