Love / Please I need advice. Are Polish Girls and Poland Westernizing for the worse? [16]

Hi Ladies and Gentlemen,

I need some advice.

Quick about me.
I am a teacher.
I am also a musician.
I do some charity work with homeless people and orphans here in Prague. This is very important to me.
I try to live my Christian (Catholic Faith) but of course I am not perfect. But I care and I try.
For me without my faith, I would be lost.

I am originally from the USA and hated the culture there and am very glad to be gone.
I have lived in Prague, Czech Republic for almost four years and I am very incompatible with Czech Women.
And I am happy about this.
I would not want to be compatible with Czech Women.
And I am also imcompatible with American Women.
And I am happy about this also.
I would not want to be compatible with American Women either.

But when I was younger I found I was very compatible with Latin Ladies.
I think maybe because of the Catholic Thing.
But I was too young and stupid to take advantage of my opportunity for something permanent with a Latin Lady when I had it.

In four years living in Prague the closest I came to love was with a Polish Girl two months ago.
She was one of my students learning English.
And she lived in London for four years before she came to Prague.
But I think her years living in London really ruined her.
In fact she was ashamed of being Polish, was an atheist, and hated anything I had to say about faith or the Catholic Church.
And our friendship ended in a very bad way which I regret very much.

But still there was something very special about her.
The communication was much better and more honest than Czech and American Girls I have experienced and she was passionate.
And for sure she was intelligent and hard-working.
So now I am curious about Polish Women.
Friends tell me the Poles are much friendlier and that Polish Women in general have better character because of the Catholic Culture. But that things are changing quickly for the worse.

I have lived in the USA and Czech Republic so I have seen the effects of atheism, divorce, materialism, cheating, feminism etc, etc, and I don't want any part of it.

It makes me sick.

I lived in Central America and saw how happy the people were with the simple things of life.
I saw how the Latin Ladies cherished their husbands, even though their husbands were far from perfect.
I saw how men and women can live very happily together.
And much of the reason for the harmony was that the people believed many of the teachings of the Catholic Church and took their roles seriously.

It was so different than the miserable marriages, relationships, and divorce that I saw in the USA.
And so much different than the absolutely miserable marriages, 70 percent divorce, and empty relationships here in Czech Republic.

I think at one time Poland had many of the qualities of Latin American because of the Catholic Culture.
And so I was considering moving to Poland.

But I am afraid Poland is going or has gone the way of the rest of Europe and the USA.
Moving toward an empty, hollow, meaningless, life with shallow, short-term, unhappy and destructive relationships.

The same old story that one sees in the Western Countries...
Hatred between the sexes, high divorce, and in general a materially prosperous but spiritually unhappy life, caused by the people abandoning traditional values for media-hyped fantasy and moral relativism, materialism, consumerism etc.

Such a pathetic cliche that repeats again and again across the globe and is so obviously a failure but people are too stupid to realize it.

I am so tired of seeing this sad phenomenon repeat itself that I am getting nauseous writing about it.

If the Poles follow this path then eventually they will lose their Polish National Identity, family structure, and eventually their happiness.

It will take a couple of generations before the people realize they made a mistake.
But so much misery will have taken place by then.

So I don't really want to move to Poland and see this happen because the people don't know any better.

It will be to depressing to watch such this country make such a huge mistake.

And I don't have the time or patience to become involved with a woman who is too stupid, naive and spiritually immature to realize that the material things of life and pop psychology or a new man every year don't bring lasting happiness and who gets her morals and life expectations from movies and television.

I think in a few years Poland will be a sewer of miserable, man-hating, masculine, materialistic women with all the social ills and hatred that come along with this sickness.

Just like the USA or Czech Republic or the rest of Europe.

I don't want to be correct, but I think I am.

But before I pack everything and move to South America and abandon the idea of Poland and Polish Women, I would like some other opinions to make sure I am correct or mostly correct so I can abandon Poland and Europe and the USA with no regrets.

Here are my questions.
1) How fast are the Polish People abandoning the teachings of the church?
2) How fast are the Polish Ladies entering the European and USA man-hating phase fuled by feminism?
3) How fast is the divorce rate moving up?
4) How much hatred is there between the sexes.
5) Czech People claim that cheating and unhappiness between the sexes is the same in Poland as it is in Czech Republic. But they say that Polish People just do it within the marriage. Hence the low divorce rate. Is it true?

6) I am looking for a serious relationsip. A woman who is educated but who still has the Catholic Morals intact. I am looking for someone who wants to live their faith along with me. But I think the time for this type of woman in Poland is past or is passing quickly. I think this type of woman would be very difficult to find in Poland now, yes?

Thank you so much in advance for your opinions.

Sincerely,

Mr. Abandon All Hope

Love / What is your opinion on the Polish Ladies in Krakow? [82]

Hi Everyone,

Please advise.
I am thinking about taking a vacation to Krakow from my home in Prague.
I hear that the Krakow Ladies are so beautiful.
I was even considering moving to Krakow and trying to teach and play music.

But after reading these forums, and after having some bad experiences with Polish Ladies outside Poland, I am a little nervous to strike up any conversation.

And I am considering canceling my trip.

The last thing I need at my age is any kind of bad Western Attitude like the girls in the USA big cities give out or the girls in Prague give out.

I am not arrogant.
I am not looking for sex.
Just curious about the Polish Culture and the way some of the ladies think.

I studied Polish History a little and always had a deep respect for the way the Poles have fought bravely in history. I respected the Poles for their role in bringing down communism with the solidarity movement. I am sympathetic about the concentration camps and the katyn forest massacre.

And I respected the Poles for their Catholicism and one of the greatest Popes ever.

But things change.
And with Westernization attitudes change.
People get spoiled, selfish, and full of themselves and forget how to behave.

I try to be polite all the time.

But I have experienced this inferiority complex with Polish Ladies outside Poland several times. Manifested by sarcasm, criticism, smart-assed comments, and general disrespect, and poor low-level communication.

My question is this...
If I strike up conversation in some Jazz Club or on the street in Krakow with Polish Ladies age 25 to 35, how often am I going to get this bad attitude that I experienced with Polish Girls outside of Poland and I read about on these forums?

1 out of 5 times?
1 out of 10 times?
Or most of the time?

There is no exact number of course.
Just a thought experiment.
Maybe some other guys can give me their experiences.

I hate sarcasm and snide comments.
I had enough of it in the USA and Prague.
And if I want to meet an unfriendly, hostile girl, I can just approach some American Girl or some Czech Girl in Prague.

Should I even bother going to Krakow?
I don't need this crap.

Please be honest.

I thank you in advance.