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Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]
ah well, I do my best. I just can't stand seeing guys being played around by cunning females who in the end get everything and the guys end up with nothing and in worst cases even the rep of being a pervert or *sshole. If a girl is not interested in a guy, ok, that can happen, but she should just SAY so. At least I say it straight to a girl when I'm not interested. It might be tough to say, but at least it's fair and honest. Unfortunately women come up with excuses and stories, leaving the guy guessing what it is all about. .
Some men are just as bad. One guy completely stopped contacting me out of the blue for a few weeks because he thought I wanted to ruin his freedom. I was 20 years old at the time and he actually thought I was trying to 'trap' him into marriage. What a doorknob! If he actually told me what he was worried about, I would have put him to ease by telling him that I'm not getting married any time soon :S. He was pretty dense, I have to admit.
back go the topic: She's being a c*nt, from what it sounds like. She likes the idea of having you fawn at her, but she probably doesn't want to be with you. She likes having you there because you flatter her. Let her find someone else that will put up with her BS.
If a woman I'm interested in says to me "let's just be friends" I basically tell her that, yeah. And I actually mean it as well. Thing is, it's just not possible (at least not for me) to be friends with a woman I adore. Hear all the freakin' and excruciating details on how she went on a date with some other dude? No way. Bottom line is: she rejected your feelings
Great post MG! After being rejected, I would have a hard time pretending to be okay with being "friends". Why put yourself through that?
