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Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls..


luhif 1 | 14  
4 Mar 2008 /  #1
Hi..I m in a relationship from loooong time.and i really need help.I said 'any polish girls' coz girls understand girls better that boys....

Ok here is my story..I really appreciate in advance.

I met this girl at my workplace.it was last april.she was(and ofcource is) really cute,sweet,of course beautiful,polite..well everything...lol..

we were working together so we became friends and now we are best friends.

I know she likes me but i cant get a clue if she likes me the way i like her..well i feel i love her..

she is not in london now..she had to go back to poland coz of an accident...

we still had touch after she went in last october..we were texting eachother..i was calling her and u know it was like 2-3 hours long conversation..

BUT..

I still couldnt get any clue coz lets say i dont have much experiance about girls..

now there is one of our colligue who is getting married in this april and she has invited both of us and ofcource the girl I love has invited me at her as well coz she thought to show me some beautiful places in poland..

I m going to visit poland in april hopefully..

how to know if she likes me or not??

ohh I m little bit shy in asking her..

could anyone help me please??

Thank you.
LondonChick 31 | 1,133  
4 Mar 2008 /  #2
I'm a British, but hey.... girls are girls....

I'm guessing that you are fairly young, right? Go with the flow - go out to Poland and enjoy it, don't rush her into things - have a laugh and discover one of the most facinating countries in Europe.

Talk to her, hang out with her and generally pick up the signals - if ethe signals aren't there, don't force anything... just enjoy the friendship.

Does that make sense?
Wroclaw 44 | 5,385  
4 Mar 2008 /  #3
Pretend I'm female.

Send her some flowers for Woman's Day and see what happens.
OP luhif 1 | 14  
4 Mar 2008 /  #4
thanks for your answer LondonChic..

fairly young?? umm i m 24..

LOL

Thnks a LOT for the idea Wroclaw..thank u guys..
lowfunk99 10 | 397  
4 Mar 2008 /  #5
Hello

When is womans day?
plk123 8 | 4,149  
4 Mar 2008 /  #6
SHE LIKES YOU MAN OTHERWISE SHE WOULDN'T BE TALKING TO YOU FOR HOURS.
krysia 23 | 3,057  
4 Mar 2008 /  #7
March 8
OP luhif 1 | 14  
4 Mar 2008 /  #8
Do u really think so plk123??

well I am going to send flowers and see what happens..??

thanks anyway..
plk123 8 | 4,149  
4 Mar 2008 /  #9
yeah man. just don't rush in.
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
4 Mar 2008 /  #10
SHE LIKES YOU MAN OTHERWISE SHE WOULDN'T BE TALKING TO YOU FOR HOURS.

yes its possible she is feeling the same shyness.. but someone has to break the ice :)

PLK has a point... but when you are with her and going out does she meet up
with other men? or stick with you and hang out?
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
4 Mar 2008 /  #11
Has she ever said anything to you that seemed romantic, even jokingly, like about how good looking you are or about something you've done that is attractive? It just seems weird that she talks to you for hours but has never sent you any romantic signals. Some women do think of certain men as just friends and they can continue that way forever without ever developing romantic feelings. It could be that she does like you but it could also be that she only thinks of you as a friend. It's hard to tell without more information about her behavior.

But whatever the case may be, there's always the chance that she'll realize that she loves you because you've been such a good friend. Just hang in there.
OP luhif 1 | 14  
5 Mar 2008 /  #12
She sent txt..twice... that she has never supposed she ll meet person like me..and she

is glad about it..she also txt me once when she got my picture from her uncle who took

my picture when I went to drop her mom when she(her mom) was in london and

ofcource she

cant speak english..so I went wiv her and we were waiting for my friend's uncle to pick

her mother up from station..when he came,he took my picture wiv my friend's mom and

when he went to poland he showed that picture to her n she sent me txt that she got

my picture from her uncle and she said i m looking so good.just cute..she always tells

me that I m very clever..very intelligent...LOL

She trusts me so much...ummm let me give u an example..I even knew her card's pin no..

Once i asked her when she came to know that i m clever?? and she said when she saw

me first time...she said she can tell just by looking in someone's eyes if they r clever..LOL

Anyway I took Wroclaw's advice and sent her flower's already...

Lets see what happens...

Thanks guys..really appreciate...
Wersal 5 | 19  
5 Mar 2008 /  #13
well... it sounds like she really likes you from what you say, but maybe she is waiting for you to make a move first... you know what woman are like they rarely make the first move themselves... so ask her out for a drink or something and see what happens. But like plk123 said DONT rush anything, i myself rushed into my current relashionship and iam still trying to recover from the slight damage that i did. Good Luck
King Sobieski 2 | 716  
5 Mar 2008 /  #14
i know your kind of young and maybe shy but how have you (either of you) never asked the other out for a casual drink or dinner. i am shy myself, but probably would have acted upon some stupid impulse by now.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
5 Mar 2008 /  #15
Wow. Yes, it does sound like she likes you as more than just a friend. I can't imagine why you're not sure. It's so clear.
porta 18 | 297  
5 Mar 2008 /  #16
Signs i look for is eye contact ,she looks you in the eyes ,also if her pupils are dialated even if the light is bright she is interested in you. Also how fast she answers the phone when you call :) If she leans towards you or her body faces towards you.

Try touching her shoulders , hair or hands and see how she reacts.

There are millions of ways to test if she is interested in you. :)
I wish you good luck with your love :)
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
6 Mar 2008 /  #17
my picture from her uncle and she said i m looking so good.just cute..she always tells

me that I m very clever..very intelligent...LOL

showing your pic and calling you cute...

I think you just need to get a little shove from all of us..
good advice Wroclaw gave.. the flowers will give her the ok now ...

Have fun and good luck :)
OP luhif 1 | 14  
7 Mar 2008 /  #18
ask her out for a drink or something and see what happens

have you (either of you) never asked the other out for a casual drink or dinner

Humm...Actually she asked me first for drink...Yes we went 4-5 times for coffee..

Wen she had an accident...she was unable to go out coz she was walking on crutches..and..i used to go her home with dinner..sometime...

I can't imagine why you're not sure. It's so clear.

I m not sure coz she hasnt showed me OR better to say that I couldnt see any signals..

I wasnt touching her AT ALL..just when she wanted to move coz she had an accident

and she couldnt walk on her own...so i was lifting her to help her going upstairs or

coming downstairs...she was on crutches...

Anyway i sent her flowers and probably she has received it but i didnt get any txt or

mail from her..

I m getting nurvous..
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
7 Mar 2008 /  #19
I hope she really does like you because it would be cruel of her to do all of those things if she just thinks of you as a friend.
Wersal 5 | 19  
7 Mar 2008 /  #20
This may sound dumb but i know its happend before so i have to ask.... did you use interflora to send these flowers??? if so i hope you left your name on the card with whatever you wrote with these flowers otherwise she wont know who there from:-(

oh and dont get nervous just yet... she may be soo shocked that she is still thinking how to respond:-)

ohh and why did you say that she "probably" recieved them by now???... did you ask for them to be sent for today coz womans day is tomorrow.

good luck.
OP luhif 1 | 14  
8 Mar 2008 /  #21
Wersal ¦ Yesterday, 16:35 did you use interflora to send these flowers???

No i used giftideas.com and i think their service is good..coz i instructed them if they can

deliver it on saturday and they did...

Acctually on their site they say that their delivery days are monday to friday and they

might deliver on weekends but its up to them...

Now wht happen yesterday....

I was online looking for customer service email for that flower company to ask them

about my order..and she came online and we started chatting..she said she was

surprised to see me online..so i asked her did u get any other surprise today?? she said

no and asked me why i asked that?? I replied that nothing but she said dont lie and i

had to tell her she might get surprise tomorrow..so she knew something is coming but

didnt know what is it...

She received it today and sent me txt saying Thank you very much...

Now what??? She didnt say anything else...
LondonChick 31 | 1,133  
8 Mar 2008 /  #22
Now what??? She didnt say anything else...

Call her up and asked if she liked them....

Good luck, mate... and keep us posted :)
OP luhif 1 | 14  
8 Mar 2008 /  #23
LondonChick Call her up and asked if she liked them....

I called but she didnt pick up....

I tried her mobile and home...
Wersal 5 | 19  
8 Mar 2008 /  #24
dont worry luhif... its not as if she was going to tell you that she loved you or anything. I just sent flowers to a polish girl that i love (im in the EXACT same situation as you) and i only expect a thank you message and to be honest iam happy with that:-). Just keep talking to her and do what londonchick said;-).

1 question though... when is she coming back??? coz when you meet her at the airport dont forget to bring flowers for her;-)
or better yet maybe you should visit her for a weekend coz it sounds like she likes you and would appreciate this:-)

... dont keep trying to phone! try later in the evening... she could be in the shower;-)LOL

and like londonchick said.... keep us posted
OP luhif 1 | 14  
8 Mar 2008 /  #25
Wersal wrote Just keep talking to her and do what londonchick said

Hey i tried again and she picked up.actually her family was out n she wasnt there...

She said ofcource she liked it...

She said she wud know it even if i didnt write my name and didnt tell her anything..

I m happy... :-) thank u guys...

when is she coming back???

In june i think coz she is studying there...

But i m thinking to go in april to visit her..
bajka - | 71  
8 Mar 2008 /  #26
Hey i tried again and she picked up.actually her family was out n she wasnt there...

She said ofcource she liked it...

Duh, so did she pick up or wasn't she there......... if you're gonna spin a story get it to at least sound believeable !
OP luhif 1 | 14  
8 Mar 2008 /  #27
hey sorry i didnt write it properly..

she wasnt there means she was in another house..and she couldnt hear ring...

wen i called her again she was there and she picked up...
Wersal 5 | 19  
8 Mar 2008 /  #28
Good to hear it... just remember not to make any big leaps mate. When you go in april one of the first things you should do is go for a quiet drink (not coffee) in the evening somewhere to talk, and remember you will have to make the first move (maybe not on the first night though???)... women rarely do this themselves.

who knows 2 years from now maybe you will tell us you are both gonna get married... good luck and all the best;-)
bajka - | 71  
8 Mar 2008 /  #29
first things you should do is go for a quiet drink (not coffee)

Yep, unless you're Muslim, they don't have shisha in Poland !
Wersal 5 | 19  
8 Mar 2008 /  #30
Bajka... dont star this argument again LOL

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