Love / Polish girls and this age thing? [173]

i wasn't even talking about inside/outside, in fact materialistic could be considered and inside trait as you cannot see, if somebody is materialistic, if a girl is looking for a guy with a big wallet and a ferrari then you aren't going to see it until it actually happens. I think being materialistic makes you sad, if your more worried about the things that come 'with' a person, rather than the person themselves, then you seriously need to have a word with yourself!!!!.

I've been used before in the past, by girls, yes, only because i'm not gay, lol. I can't say i'm super rich or anything but girl's have been with/dated/had relationships with me either because of money/reputation or achivements, so its more like a trophy rather than for the person i was/am. Unfortunately i was young then and didn't see iit coming!!!!.

Love / Polish girls and this age thing? [173]

lol, its called being materialistic :) there are plenty of girls and probably blokes like that, steer well clear of them!!!!!! they are very superficial and usually aren't worth the ride.

Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]


hi mate,

I'm not the one who advised you last time but i'll give it a crack this time, it seems to me that she is more than happy to be friends, infact she has even stated as such. If i were you i wouldn't press the issue anymore, just let the friendship flow. Often one of the two sides of a potential partnership/relationship gets to the point where they want to develop it further later on than the first. Your in the position of the first person.

It might be best to wait and see what happens, you don't want to scare her off or lean on her to hard as that may have counerproductive effects on your friendship, therefore ending any chance of a relationship later on.


to me they are the key words, from the horses mouth, not hearsay or something somebody else has said to you but from her mouth, i would listen if i were you.


yeah friends do it, i mean jesus i talk to some female friends for hours and hours on skype, infact last night i didn't go to bed until 4am because of it.


well thats a decent answer, at least that allows you to buy her flowers some time to show your affections and feelings. Then the ball is in her court.


i don't really understand why she thought she couldn't say it to you, unless she meant it because she didn't want to act as if she was leading you into someting and giving you false hope. You'll have to clear that one up for me.


well what's next is your decision, do you want to be her friend even if you can't be anything more?? Will it work, what i mean is are you able to just be her friend without making advances or getting frustrated about your feelings and not been able to air them??


the best person who can help you is yourself, by making good, sound, quality decisons based on what you have been told by her and what you know yourself. The only person who knows your true feelings is you, so you are the one who has to play ball, it just depends what you want from this.

Thanks

T

Language / misleading differences between Polish and English languages [92]


i know sometimes you can misread or even mistype something and even if you do neither of what i have just said people can still mistake it as being meant in another way


like what??? lol

Language / misleading differences between Polish and English languages [92]


lol, of course i did :) i was just kidding around thats all, you know the talking english properly and all that :)


no thats something i don't quite understand, isn't the yeti hides out???

Life / Why are Polish people cheap? [126]

no actually he's the kinda guy who would F*ck a person in the ass and not even have the god dam curtousy to give him a reach around

News / Should we change the rules to let Poles join the British Army? [119]

of course it is and maybe my statistics include the 'whole' of bombe command fighters and bombers and mosquitos a like, where as the programme you watched may have focused on 'the battle of britain' and 'fighter pilots' in particular.

eveything constructive is taken well :)

Language / misleading differences between Polish and English languages [92]


lol, but she's living in canada, i didn't know they spoke english there :):):):):)

News / Should we change the rules to let Poles join the British Army? [119]


while i thank the Polish for their bravery over the skies of Britain in that hard time, i would like to bring into question your remark about hte most men who died in the skies were polish, 3 out 4 men who served in bomber command and the RAF were killed druing the second world war, i'm not sure but i think the majority downed would have been a lot more brits than poles, 1 pole in a spitfire leveled against six Brits in a Lancaster.


as far as i know its fine for a British citizen to sign up for the army but i think they would have had to of been born here and not just resident for a few years


the reason that we let them join then is because the resources were stretched (on our part) and the Polish wanted to fight the Nazi's any way they could (There part) so the deal worked out good for both sides, we got

News / Should we change the rules to let Poles join the British Army? [119]


well i can't say i stick to just the UK ladies, so i guess i'm caught by the short and curly's there :)


lol, its true probably, although i don't know about your bloke but i'm seriously against women in the army or in fact any armed force, not because they can't do the job i can assure you of that, its for other reasons.


yeah i think having respect is the best way to go about it, we'll scratch your back if you scratch ours, we'll train some of your soldiers with our special forces lads if we can keep a couple of weapons on your land. That sort of thing :)

News / Should we change the rules to let Poles join the British Army? [119]


i was waiting for that, yes the gurkhas were truly great soldiers and they served us very well and i'm proud whenever i see. hear about or meet a Gurkha, i can't believe we are not letting some of them live here, its outragous, thats another post though :)

If i'm right in thinking the Gurkhas were more of an extension rather than part of the British army and they were recruited in war time when we were loosing thousands and thousands of troops. Two points to make at this time are, we are at war yes, but we aren't taking anywehere near the casulties we were throughout the 1st and 2nd world wars.


exactly totally agree there, also what is the point of it being called 'British' we might as well call it EU army.


i do see your point, while you probably know i'm not the biggest fan of hoping straight into bed with the rest of europe, it is also about our sense of living and being British, surely if we all merge into one massive state everything is just going to overlap until one culture becomes dominant or we start fighting between ourselves over something stupid like religion!!

News / Should we change the rules to let Poles join the British Army? [119]

NO MOST CERTAINLY NOT, the British army is for British nationals, that is how it should stay. We have our army every other nation has theirs. Were happy to help out when need be and i'm sure its the same for you guys. However there wouldn't be much point in making the UN, NATO if we can just join which ever army we like.

I'm not saying its a bad suggestion and to be honest i've been waiting for it to come up but i just can't see it making sense, why would you want to do that anyway, whats wong with the Polish army??? Wouldn't their be barriers, i mean when half of the soliders go on leave, you'll be flying them back to Poland!!! what happens with the language barrier, the only polish i could ever see joining the army are those who can speak good good english as we dam sure aint going to be sh*t hot at polish.

I'm not trying to shoot your idea down in flames i just personaly would not like to see it, not only am i against Poles joining the British army i'm against any other foreign nations doing the same. After all, no offence, its called the British Army :)

Love / Questions for a Polish girl - translation [33]


you got it thats the silence i was on about :)


i think your right, people generally feel more rushed in their lives and sometimes maybe this can spill over into their, dates and love life.

as for questions i'm happy to answer anything, dosen't really bother me. she can fire away as far as i'm concerned.

Love / Questions for a Polish girl - translation [33]


who said anything about judging, i wouldn't judge you on the basis of one date, night out, question or anything, as i said to justysia i wasn't talking about the questions above, i meant just normal questions :)

Love / Questions for a Polish girl - translation [33]


wow wow wow i did specify that i wasn't talking about the questions above :)


yes your write, then again i wasn't specifiying the questions above, what you say makes a lot of sense but really i wasn't thinking those types of questions

Love / Questions for a Polish girl - translation [33]

yeah i know that Pani, however surely surely surely, at the start of a relationship or even before hand, there need to be questions asked, to find out about each other. The questions would be 50/50 you and me asking one question leading to another or making the person who isn't speaking think of something to ask.

A balanced relationship is correct, however does that mean silence, sometimes there is a place for no chit chat but you certainly aint talking about what i mean by silcence. I just could not imagine sitting there with long silences between me and my partner/date, ok so there is not a need to be talking all the time but just because there is a lot of talk dosen't mean its not balanced does it??

Love / Questions for a Polish girl - translation [33]


i understand what you mean about too many questions, a lot of dates i've been on and especially first ones, questions are the main course of the evening, thats including the film or meal or whatever it is you do on a first date.

So as a date Panienka am i supposed to sit there in silence, hoping you will come up with all the answers?? are you going to read my mind???? :):):):):)):) if i'm on a date with you i want to find out about you not sit there and just eat, whats the point of having you there otherwise, i'd be paying for a meal for two people and interacting with myself, lol :):):)

Love / Questions for a Polish girl - translation [33]


surely the way to to develop a relationship is by asking questions, maybe not all the ones above but communication is one of the key elements of relationship building, isn't it??

Love / 5 ways how to pick up (cute Polish) guys? [146]

i'm gutted a one word answer, i thought you were going to tell me something else. However it kind of keeps with you philospher outlook :)

Love / Questions for a Polish girl - translation [33]


lol i love it:)


and how would that be maddam?? :) are you trying to say that the male species acts on his natural instincts a little to soon into proceedings??

Love / 5 ways how to pick up (cute Polish) guys? [146]

wow please go on, what makes you so unique??? i'm interested :)??

Love / 5 ways how to pick up (cute Polish) guys? [146]

all this talk about attracting this and that and all i want is a bathroom i can play baseball in :)


a bloke/boyfriend/husband/man/a you know what buddy there are so many names. The lady is speaking sense Pani just listen to her and you will reep the rewards :)

Life / Cool Polish names [133]

omg, poor people, i mean its not even their fault, i hope the parents realise what they have done if the kids keep skipping school :)

Life / Cool Polish names [133]


Are they really names, i thought Justysia was kidding?????

Language / misleading differences between Polish and English languages [92]

my goodness so many ways to say no, theres nothing wrong with P*ss off if you ask me :) or even just good old no :)

Life / Cool Polish names [133]


uuuuuhhhhhmmmmm NO, maybe not a name for a future son or daughter :)


a sprouting philospher is amongst us???? wise words from one so young :) ow god i sound like some kind of priest

Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]


i thought that was he-mans line, lol, who hasn't got the pants power, well unless your a lady of course :) lol

Language / misleading differences between Polish and English languages [92]


lol, thought Bak, was a polish centre back, and yes the commentators do pronounce it bonk!!


i wondered the same thing too, i learnt French at school and there not that many misleading words that were both very similar but meant two totally different things in both English/|French. Although i guess i've never thought of it like you have. Maybe its just an english/polish thing, lol, a secret mesaage!!

Love / 5 ways how to pick up (cute Polish) guys? [146]

you don't need protecting, just be strong about it, its about your character :)

Love / 5 ways how to pick up (cute Polish) guys? [146]

see look there can't be much wrong with stuffed toys if he's still got one too :)