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Sparky   
5 Jan 2007
Love / Is it typical for Polish guys to fall in love quickly? [86]

Oh, Sparky you need some sparks in your life. 29 is no age to give up on fun.

I haven't given up on fun. But I have turned my life over to God. I am trying to open a Rehab center for poor people in Memphis Tennesse. I like the feeling I get from helping people who can't help themselves. Besides most middle class white christians are afraid to help poor crackheads and hoorkers turn their life around. But I am not afraid of anything as long as I am doing Gods will. He will protect me even in death. So I fear nothing, and have been called by God to turn my old church in to a rehab shelter. The bad part is that it is in the worst neiborhood in Memphis. My plan is to help Addicts of any kind. I came up with a name I am going to call it Safehaven of Whitehaven. The part of the city is called Whitehaven. It used to be white when I was a kid. But now it is all black and really scary. I don't care about my selfish needs. I believe that If I do what god has asked me to do then he will give me the things that my heart desires. But I have to wait until Gods time. Believe me there is nothing more that I want than to be in love. But I can't take the heartbreak anymore. So I have stop looking for a women to make me happy. I have decided to do what God wants instead of what I want. Sorry about talking about god so much guys.

Just because he has given up going out to party all the time doesn't mean he's giving up on fun. I stopped "partying" when I was 30 and I can tell you with all honesty, the last decade has been the best so far in my life!

Thanks Ranj.
Besides all the barstool dreams I used to have. I have been doing now that I have all this time. You would be surprised how much time you waste partying. One night of fun and two days to recover. No thanks.:)

I think most of men fells in love whit all nice ladys.

But for for me its like i fel in love first time i c the girl, and after a week i dont care anymore. is that wierd?

Not if your polish.
We fall easy.:)

Haha i think so we will live longer

Depends how you live:)
Sparky   
4 Jan 2007
Language / need help to spell a name of a famous Polish singer.... [120]

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oops, crap. didnt mean watching you two, how bout I just go away
cause that sounded bad, lol now I have actually inserted my foot into my
mouth, goodnight !!! lol I am out.

I am sure there will be some razzin on this one.

Don't feel bad they do this all the time. They are like to love birds that chace each other but never stop flying.

No if you get a chance read what sven goolie can write. He is very good.
If he wrote a book of poetry he would be rich.
Sparky   
4 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

Who, me?

Yeah you... Crazy:)
I stubbled into a topic with just you and sev goolie(which I might say is a great poet)
You guys are great together. It's like you have your own language.

I have a fireplace at home and I look into it a lot and think how it resembles love. If you put a smelly piece of wood into it, you get smelly air. If you put nice smelling wood, you get nice smelling smoke.
If you put a hard, cold, wet piece of wood, it will not burn unless it is really hot.
And the least important factor in all this is how the wood looks. It's the least important thing because what really counts is the heat and warmth it gives out

I wish I could find a women who still thought like that.
Sparky   
4 Jan 2007
Love / Is it typical for Polish guys to fall in love quickly? [86]

People grow up physically, but they don't necessarily mature. Again, I think it boils down to character and values a person holds, not their age.

I agree. I guess age really doesn't matter. Some people never want to grow up. I remember how fun it used to be going out all the time and never having to worry about anything. But I got burn out on it. I don't care to party at all now, and I am only 29.
Sparky   
3 Jan 2007
Life / Poles' tolerance towards other Races [190]

Love and tolerance is are code

You should be a Labor Union leader. What country are you from.

That's why many of us are racist and nationalist too. You know, the only one thing they have is to think they are better than those "blacks, hispanics, asian ppl"etc

I think racism is actually an instinct.
I think it triggers fear
The reason I say this is because German Shepards dogs don't have to be trained to attack. If you raise them around white people their whole life. They learn to recoginze patterns and people. So if you bring a black person around them when they have never been around any black people. Than they will start growling, and their hair will stand up like they are ready to attack. The dog is not racist he is scared of something he knows nothing about and his only defence is to attack are to run.

People are the same way. Only we can rationalize are thought and decide not to treat people differently because we don't understand them. Or fear they my hurt us. People are always in compitition with each other. So I don't think that the polish are doing anything different than any other human being. We are all the same no matter how different we look are talk.
Sparky   
3 Jan 2007
Love / Is it typical for Polish guys to fall in love quickly? [86]

I completely agree---I think that goes for about everything in life, not just love! People tend to appreciate things more when they have to work for it.

I have always respected women who have made work for their attention.
Besides it is just logical if she makes it hard for me to get her than I assume she makes it this hard for everyone. Which really builds trust in the relationship. I don't worry about her talking with other men.
Sparky   
3 Jan 2007
Polonia / I'd like to go to Mexico... [47]

Yes because in outer space you can get almost 100,000 for a kidney. The republicans probably did it and sold the organs to the aliens. :)
Sparky   
3 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

wow again:P that's cool ! after an action like that she ll surely run after simon.... with a baseball bat:P

Well if she doesn't like that he can just tell her that he was only using her to get to her sister anyway.:) I'm kidding simon don't say that unless you have too.

Sparky! gross.

I was just trying to humor him.
I was just kidding.

Besides it's not like you haven't said some off the wall things.
Sparky   
2 Jan 2007
Love / Can anyone help with my brokenheart???? [67]

I know how you feel your hoping that she will change her mind and come back to you. Just move on and don't do the friend thing unless you have no feeelings for her, but if you still feel love for her than you can't be a friend. No body likes to be second especially after being number one. Of corse you can always sleep with her sister if she has one. Women like that because it shows that you really care about their family.
Sparky   
2 Jan 2007
Polonia / I'd like to go to Mexico... [47]

Yeah Juarez is real nasty I was there once its a slum!!!!!!!!!!!....

Juarez is the only place I have been were the rich peoples houses have bars on the windows like the projects

I think that was Juarez. The last report I saw claimed that these women were stolen for their internal organs which were sold on the market. Anything for money I guess.

You are talking about a major medical transaction. I could see it if your wife was dying and needed a liver. I could see the insanity of a person killing and stealing organs. But even then the person would have to know enough about the anatomy to remove it without infecting it are damaging it. Not only that he would have to be educated enough to perform the surgery or find someone to do it. I think there is easier ways to make money on the black market.

More than likely the women have been sold off into slavery. They do it in Russia Columbia, and a lot of island places all the time.
Sparky   
2 Jan 2007
Love / Polish girls can really have fun [13]

Sorry I didn't mean for it to come out so harsh. I just hate to hear marriage and fun in the same sentence.:)
Sparky   
2 Jan 2007
News / English vs. Polish hostility [323]

I don't have hostility towards the English. I do have a complaint about the Republican party. I think that they are Greedy Selfish and selfcentered people. Who want to make a buck off of anyone. They pretend to be moral people but when it comes to their money they seem to loose their morals or make you feel like you are taking advantage of them. I work hard and I don't like to be under appreciated.
Sparky   
2 Jan 2007
Love / So... How did you meet your Polish girlfriend/wife? [30]

He was only 19 years old when we started seeing each other and I was many years older than him.

Well women do mature a lot faster than men and usaully three years ahead. That is why you see more older men with younger women. Sounds like you wanted a boytoy for awhile. Nothing wrong with that at that age. Well I have to go fight the English on my hostile comments.

So, I think we are where we are because we - women wanted more. and you guys had to keep on inventing "stuff" to make us happy.

Yeah I think the saying goes men wear than pants but the women pick them out.
Sparky   
1 Jan 2007
Love / So... How did you meet your Polish girlfriend/wife? [30]

The dude was Catholic and his parents were still married.

Maybe I should ask you how old he was?

when women called explaining their preferences for a man with a wedding ring.

See this is exactly why Eve got Adam thrown out of the garden of eden.
Women can't be satisfied... They always want more, and if you tell them they can't have it than they want it even more.
Sparky   
1 Jan 2007
Love / So... How did you meet your Polish girlfriend/wife? [30]

Well I believe that the problem with American men is that when they are young they are taught to grow up and to make a lot of money because that will make you happy. And the young ladys are taught to find a rich man. Because he will be better able to take care care of them. So the men are always trying to impress the women with expensive gifts and when he feels that he is not impressing her. Then he gets insecure because in his heart he knows that he is not a rich man, and is scared that she has started looking for a better deal. So he gives up. And starts trying to find someone before she dumps him so it will not hurt as much. American men are very childish and I believe this happens to men who have been raised without a father figure. And who have been babied by mom for too long. My advise is to find a catholic man who has both parents still married, and you will find the man you are looking for. As for him wanting expensive gifts he is worst than I thought. I can't defend him on this. Maybe he wants to show it off to all the ladys to show that he is not gay, and that a women really likes him. I have heard of men wearing wedding rings to pick up chicks.:)
Sparky   
1 Jan 2007
Love / Polish girls can really have fun [13]

It doesn't sound like you want a wife. It sounds like you want an escort.
Marriage is a huge step. It sounds like you are not ready for commitment.
When you only concern is finding someone to party with. Then my advise is to wait and make sure that you can live with this person the rest of your life. There is alot more to a marriage than just having fun. It becomes alot of responsibility and work to keep the relationship magical.
Sparky   
1 Jan 2007
Love / Racism and Religion in Polish relationships [209]

he is good with my family. my family likes him as well.

I am glad that you have a good man. I was just speaking from a guys point of view. A lot of times if there is no fighting than something is going on. But he sounds like a keeper. Especially because he gets along with the family. You are very lucky to have a man that will let you stay Catholic. This is Great:)
Sparky   
31 Dec 2006
Life / The Christmas Tree in Poland [25]

We put up so much for Christmas. We have to start after Thanks Giving and do it in stages so it doesn't wear us out. It takes about five days to get everything put back up after the new year. I don't like it, but I do it for my family.We have a lot of small children running around, and it makes the place magical for them.
Sparky   
30 Dec 2006
Love / Women are divided into the same table [23]

No love is work. You do things for each other everyday that you might not want to do. but you do them because you love that person and this makes them happy. You always get out what you put in.:)

Single doesnt mean lonely and unhappy, its smugs in happy relationships that seem to think that...oh look at her she's single therefore must be unhappy, not the case..

Single is empty unless you fill it with unselfish acts of kindness.:)

And too many people eventually end up being alone because they have to high standards and deceive themselves that someday they will find their perfect partner.

No because we are human and we don't know how to find are better halfs. God is good in this department, But you have to let him do the driving.

Women(no matter where they're from) are attracted to who they believe will be able to provide(on all fronts) for them the most.

Think of it as survival of the fittest.

Build a nest
show it of
if she approves
she will lay her eggs.