Love / Dating a Polish guy for the first time ever in my life [22]


you can call him thru skype it's very cheap, or buy phonecards


no wonder it makes him feel crap if he can't even afford to call you or pay a bill for your dinner

all i have to say is that i'm having similar thoughts to the majority of people here. but then maybe he is being so forward with his love confession and marriage proposal cos he doesn't want to lose you, or more like he's afraid for you to lose interest in a poor Polish guy that he is. i definitely wouldn't say yes to him don't get me wrong lol, but next time you're in Poland, or whenever you meet, try to find cheaper alternatives of spending time together, such as spending an evening indoors with a home cooked meal and a rented dvd. see how he behaves, if he's going to complain about spending time at home, or if he's gonna do his best to make it a great night anyway. cos if he insists, giving any reasons, that you should go out, then he is after your money dear.

i know you're used to men wining and dining you and i have absolutely no problem with that, but see how you feel about this working out in the long term. this guy is still very young. i know money can't buy you love, but it definitely helps feeling more secure and as a result happy. so finding cheaper alterntaives for contact such as skype (you can make unlimited calls to landlines in Poland or in fact any European country through skype for just £3.50 a month) or e-mails, and cheaper alternatives of spending time together will definitely make things easier, especially for you. good luck.

News / how to use SMS to send message to cell phone in poland [30]


it depends where in the world you are, if you're in Europe any Polish number starts with +48 or 0048 (doesn't matter which one you use), 011 is what you use if you're in the US i think. so for example, if you're in Europe, the number would look something like this 0048695738591. also you don't put any spaces or dashes when you type a number on your mobile, but im sure you know that lol.


skype? i'm not sure if there are websites that allow you send txts to foreign mobile numbers...

Language / COMAPRISONS WITH 'JAK' (eg pijany jak szewc) [3]

usta namiętne jak brzegi od nocnika? lol

Life / "Londyńczycy" - TVP's production about Polish immigrants in UK. [11]


that's brilliant ha ha

Love / What is the sexiest part in a polish woman body? [78]

now that is a very good answer, but...


... you blew it right there

LOL

Love / Why english men like polish women ? [126]


i couldn't agree more, good post patrycja

Language / Verb: to include - 'zawierać' or 'włączać' [2]

yes zawiera is correct in this context

UK, Ireland / All That Manners Business [I'm Polish, moved to UK as an au pair.] [87]


my mate is going out with a guy whos mother is just like that (she's Polish tho), she bad mouths her behind her back, makes up lies about her and always treats her like an unwanted guest and a threat. my friend gave up on trying to make friends with her now cos it's impossible. in situations like this, i really wonder why the womans son doesn't do anything to stop this awful behaviour. he obviously doesn't want to fall out with his mother but the truth is, the mother needs to realise her son is not a baby anymore and whatever choices he makes, she should accept them. it's not like he's taking drugs or robbing banks, he's going out with a girl who in fact hasn't done anything wrong but try to be nice and make friends. then when the girl gives up on trying to be nice for obvious reasons, the mother-in-law is even more cheesed off. it's a mad circle.

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]


your 'great' benefits system is so fecked up it gives money to people who absolutely don't deserve it, if you have a problem with that, go and whine to your goverment about it and leave the mixed relationships alone. are you stupid, just becaue people are dating doesn't mean they're gonna have a kid straight away.


and obviously nobody shares your passion so feck off

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]


that's you and other jerks who are happy to sleep around but their girlfriend has to be a pure virgin with no dirty black or indian men touching her. are you sure you're not indian with those idiotic demands of yours? you are a very insecure little man if you can't accept that a woman slept with someone from a different race. so it's ok if she slept with a 100 white blokes before you, but not ok if she had 2 boyfriends and one of them was Indian or black? you're such a sad excuse of a man, and yes it is racist. were you not worried when you were going out with Polish girls, what if they've been violated by a foreign man already?? do you make it clear on the first date that if the girl went out with a middle eastern guy then she is a sl*t and you are not interested?


then the title of your thread should've clearly stated that your observations are based ONLY on what you've seen in west london, because it's obviously not happening on this scale anywhere else and not all Polish girls are 'disrespecting' their Polish 'brothers'. to be honest, even if they are sleeping with foreign guys all the time, that is nobody elses business but theirs and you should learn to accept it. you are only worried and outraged because you think you are BETTER than indian guys and they don't DESERVE to get Polish women - in your little insecure mind you think you deserve them more. Don't try to kid anyone here, you are not concerned about their wellbeing or what their countrymen think. It's a free country and nobody's making them do things they do, and for whatever reasons they do it - you have absolutely no influence on it and absolutely no right to say it's wrong, disgusting or disrespectful. it just shows how wrong, disgusting and disrespectful you are yourself.

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]


how do you know, did you make a research?

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]


believe it or not, not all of the Polish female immigrant population lives in west london and dates middle eastern men

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]


what parts are you talking about? i have not personally met a Polish girl in UK, or definitely not in Poland, who was attracted to and dated Indian/Pakistani guys. i heard about them having affairs with Turks who employed them in their restaurants from my friend who lived in London, but no i haven't seen any Indian-Polish couples around here in the South. when we go out for an Indian meal, it's usually my English mates who go 'ooh that new <Indian> waiter looks hot'. when i've gone out with some Polish girls they were snapping their fingers at the Indian waiters to get served! is that what you call admiration and attraction?

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]


you feckin moron, these girls were not Polish girls, they were English schoolgirls catching a bus back from school. if you say they must've been Polish it's just gonna prove how stupid you are.

i believe you're one of them british born pakis and you're taking out your sexual frustrations on here. get a life.

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]


southern, get some fake tan and put an extra amount of it on your face and hands, then you might get lucky with a Polish lady if you are stupid enough to believe what 'brit' is saying.


how do they do that then cos i never noticed?

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]


what is your problem? i really do not care what other Polish girls do, i live my own life and i couldn't care less. what you want me to do about it? i've heard stories and the girls who date these men are sadly very naive, they are welcomed to them if that's what they want. i never fancied them, a bunch of them was standing in front of me at the bus station today and they were staring at every girl's ass so blatantly that i'm surprised they didn't get a punch on the nose. if some women choose to go out with them then that is their own choice, i can't argue with it and i find it absolutely idiotic that you think all Polish women are like that cos they're not. how the hell do you know what ALL british people say, just cos your stupid mates say it doesn't mean it's the rule. get used to it and maybe mind your own business in the future?

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]


oh really. aren't you supposed to be somewhat more tollerant since you're a 'brit' and you live in a multi cultural society? deal with it. it's not like English girls don't fall for middle eastern and black guys. you're just jealous cos there's no hot ass left for you, loser.

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]

brit, you're such a moron. i bet you're not even a 'brit'.

Love / Why do Polish women love to disrespect their fathers and their brothers? [78]


what a load of crap, but anyway, can you please explain to me how is it disrespectful of Polish women to date men with a different skin colour? i personally was never attracted to indians or blacks but i can understand some girls might find them attractive, why is it such a big deal and why do you even care? are you jealous of the 'pakkis'? live your own life and please stop making yourself look like such an ignorant, arrogant dick. thank you.

Love / I like this Polish girl, but she doesn't get my... English sense of humor [124]

with laughter?

Life / Polish Names day traditions? Presents? Food? [39]

Andrzejki is my name day lol, my birthday was in September ;)


yay Mikolajki. but sadly santa claus seems to have forgotten about me since i've been in uk lol

Life / Polish Names day traditions? Presents? Food? [39]


i never said it was not celebrated, i just said it was old fashioned and not everybody wants to celebrate their name day these days. geez.

Love / I like this Polish girl, but she doesn't get my... English sense of humor [124]

i make myself laugh

Life / Polish Names day traditions? Presents? Food? [39]

there's always Dzień Dziecka ;)

i am aware that it's my and my Dad's name day at Andrzejki, and sadly it's also on my birthday lol, but i just don't celebrate it cos i see no point. i definitely get no extra credit for it, never have.

Life / Polish Names day traditions? Presents? Food? [39]

me neither, i agree with you totally, name days are just for the older bunch, not the younger generation. so z_darius googled imieniny and found all that rubbish, but really it's just a personal preference, i am sure many people simply can't be bothered to celebrate a day that is so unimportant. for an aunty, for a parent - fair enough, but not for a kid/young person. i lived in Poland, went to school there and i never even heard of someone giving away invites to their name day party, it's just stupid and so old fashioned. you usually get the person some flowers and a card (yes before you google it z_darius you can buy happy name day cards in Poland, but you will find their design is pretty simple and the variety of them is rather poor). i even remember when i was a kid and it was my Nan's name day, my mom told me and i asked her if we were gonna get her a gift, and she said nah, don't worry about that, it's not her birthday. birthdays are the big thing in Poland and imieniny will never come any close to that.

Life / Polish Names day traditions? Presents? Food? [39]



but it's all older people like i said, not so much the younger generation. my memory is not false at all, i know people celebrate imieniny cos it's traditional and stuff but not like it used to be. there are people my age who celebrate it of course there are, but it depends on the family they were brought up in. i just find it very very old fashioned and basically people are using it to get presents and get drunk. fair enough if it's your birthday, but name day is just a day in the calendar that you can pick yourself as long as your name appears on it. it's not very serious.

Life / Polish Names day traditions? Presents? Food? [39]

well no, but it's not a good idea to call Polish people brainless just cos they don't celebrate their imieniny. it might've been popular years ago, but not right now. knowing the history is very very good, but just cos you know what it was like so many years ago doesn't mean it's still like that right now. michal is a brilliant example of such a narrow mind.

Life / Polish Names day traditions? Presents? Food? [39]


that may be true, but Poland is not the same country as it was 10 or 20 yrs ago

Life / Polish Names day traditions? Presents? Food? [39]

i'm Polish and i was brought up there and lived there for most of my life so i think i can tell when some yank is talking crap

Life / Polish Names day traditions? Presents? Food? [39]


oh no no no, the Americans (especially the ones who never even been to Poland and all they have is a Polish sounding surname) are the worst!