JustysiaS
29 Nov 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]
difficult task for someone like you
difficult task for someone like you
JustysiaS
29 Nov 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]
oh hell yeah, not my £100 GHD's!!! lol
Dont you find it strange that she cracked up when her fags were broken lol...Id have gone Mike Tyson on him had he even touched my straighteners! (note my comments are a joke!)
oh hell yeah, not my £100 GHD's!!! lol
JustysiaS
29 Nov 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]
what is it with you attracting violent women? do you look like a punchbag? ;)
Foreigner4
what is it with you attracting violent women? do you look like a punchbag? ;)
JustysiaS
29 Nov 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]
how come this doesn't surprise me. lefty has more issues than he cares to share. this kind of intimidating, violent and crazy behaviour really needs treatment boy, and the slap was well deserved. i bet it hurt your male pride so much, having a little woman slap the big man you are. jerk.
kuki
how come this doesn't surprise me. lefty has more issues than he cares to share. this kind of intimidating, violent and crazy behaviour really needs treatment boy, and the slap was well deserved. i bet it hurt your male pride so much, having a little woman slap the big man you are. jerk.
JustysiaS
29 Nov 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]
that's what i tend to do, if we go out for a meal and the guy pays, i'll pay for drinks if we move on to the bar, or take them out and pay next time. if you like someone then it kinda feels right to treat them as much as they treat you.
If i asked someone out then i would expect to foot the bill but even then just the offer of "i will get the next round in" goes down well,
that's what i tend to do, if we go out for a meal and the guy pays, i'll pay for drinks if we move on to the bar, or take them out and pay next time. if you like someone then it kinda feels right to treat them as much as they treat you.
JustysiaS
29 Nov 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]
i always got on really well with my bf's moms but i never asked to be introduced, i let them introduce me in their own time
I don't understand this women's obsession with moms.
i always got on really well with my bf's moms but i never asked to be introduced, i let them introduce me in their own time
JustysiaS
29 Nov 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]
should've been, but love is blind eh, and i felt bad about making him pay cos he was always in debt (another red flag right there ha ha...)
i find it highly uncomfortable when you only just start going out with someone and they introduce you to all of their mates and family right at the start before you're even remotely sure that it'll last. and oh dear, a mommy's boy. i probably wouldn't give the miserable fecker the time of day, but hey, love IS blind ;)
that is awful. SHould be a red flag from the start;)
should've been, but love is blind eh, and i felt bad about making him pay cos he was always in debt (another red flag right there ha ha...)
As kind as he was he was a miserable fecker, plus his relationship with his mum was a bit too close...he brought her to the pictures with us once!
i find it highly uncomfortable when you only just start going out with someone and they introduce you to all of their mates and family right at the start before you're even remotely sure that it'll last. and oh dear, a mommy's boy. i probably wouldn't give the miserable fecker the time of day, but hey, love IS blind ;)
JustysiaS
29 Nov 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]
in the 3 years of my relationship i had to pay for almost every meal and drink we had, even when he took me out to apologise and make up. no wonder he's my ex ;).
i would disagree, if someone invites you out they should at least buy you a drink. it's like i was cooking dinner, invited my date over and got him to pay me 50% of what i spent on the food. now THAT would be tight.
Amathyst:
in the 6 years with my ex I didnt pay for one drink or one meal.
No wonder he's your ex.
in the 6 years with my ex I didnt pay for one drink or one meal.
No wonder he's your ex.
in the 3 years of my relationship i had to pay for almost every meal and drink we had, even when he took me out to apologise and make up. no wonder he's my ex ;).
No you are just tight!
i would disagree, if someone invites you out they should at least buy you a drink. it's like i was cooking dinner, invited my date over and got him to pay me 50% of what i spent on the food. now THAT would be tight.
JustysiaS
24 Nov 2009
JustysiaS
23 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]
i must say this, you are an odd one. when somebody visits you and they take their shoes off do you instantly give them a foot massage?
ok stockings maybe can pass, i'm a leg man myself so maybe the suspense is a little exciting but boots?? what?? the only reason a girl takes her shoes off is when she wants a massage!!! right?? (when she takes them off for a man that is)
i must say this, you are an odd one. when somebody visits you and they take their shoes off do you instantly give them a foot massage?
JustysiaS
23 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]
i don't like to think of myself as some blokes potential 'possession' to be honest! of course you need to make an effort when it comes to hygiene and appearance. still, they should cherish you no matter what, we all have bad hair and bad skin days, no? i say keep them on their toes and don't let yourself go just because they're yours now, but don't obsess too much about it. funny thing is men kinda expect you to look good but they get all p*ssed off when you're taking your time doing it ha ha. you just can't win! i take care of myself regardless of the fact whether i have a boyfriend or not, but it's still so nice when they notice that you made an effort or that you're wearing something new, changed your hair etc.
we are possessions, after all, and if we want to be cherished, we need to take care of ourselves ; )
i don't like to think of myself as some blokes potential 'possession' to be honest! of course you need to make an effort when it comes to hygiene and appearance. still, they should cherish you no matter what, we all have bad hair and bad skin days, no? i say keep them on their toes and don't let yourself go just because they're yours now, but don't obsess too much about it. funny thing is men kinda expect you to look good but they get all p*ssed off when you're taking your time doing it ha ha. you just can't win! i take care of myself regardless of the fact whether i have a boyfriend or not, but it's still so nice when they notice that you made an effort or that you're wearing something new, changed your hair etc.
JustysiaS
23 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]
ha ha oh yeah. poor chap...
- Doctor, when i make love to my girlfriend she always complains her toes really hurt
- Maybe try taking her tights off next time you do it
not always, it takes two to tango and if he doesn't wanna know then there's nothing she can do
Hes thinking of tights, poor sod.
ha ha oh yeah. poor chap...
- Doctor, when i make love to my girlfriend she always complains her toes really hurt
- Maybe try taking her tights off next time you do it
If the spark was there before, it can be rekindled
not always, it takes two to tango and if he doesn't wanna know then there's nothing she can do
JustysiaS
23 Nov 2009
News / nasza klasa in the news. [11]
I agree that facebook is not great but still, you can prevent pretty much anyone you want from ever finding out you are even on it. It's all in the privacy settings. You can get rid of the 'message' option so that only your frinds can write to you. The problem i have with it currently is that every now and again there are torrents on it, also some weird add ons and pop ups that are potentially dangerous to your computer. Apparently this is happening quite a lot now.
Same with nasza klasa, you can hide pretty much all the info about yourself that you wish. And if you don't like someone then don't add them and block them. Simples.
I agree that facebook is not great but still, you can prevent pretty much anyone you want from ever finding out you are even on it. It's all in the privacy settings. You can get rid of the 'message' option so that only your frinds can write to you. The problem i have with it currently is that every now and again there are torrents on it, also some weird add ons and pop ups that are potentially dangerous to your computer. Apparently this is happening quite a lot now.
Same with nasza klasa, you can hide pretty much all the info about yourself that you wish. And if you don't like someone then don't add them and block them. Simples.
JustysiaS
23 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]
torny torny, you keep the stockings on, that's the whole point! ;D oh and high heels too rotfl
yeah but that just means you have to take more off!!!! I'm all for bra and panties but don't you think stockings are a bit of a waste of time??
torny torny, you keep the stockings on, that's the whole point! ;D oh and high heels too rotfl
JustysiaS
22 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]
at first it does babe, not after an x amount of weeks or months though. you BOTH should make an effort, that's what keeps the spark there.
there are 2 possible reasons as to why that is. one - you're both in a stable relationship and his needs are considerably smaller than at first. two - someone else is doing it for him...
and there 's no need to make an effort to make things happen, it all comes by itself
at first it does babe, not after an x amount of weeks or months though. you BOTH should make an effort, that's what keeps the spark there.
before he used to beg for bj's
there are 2 possible reasons as to why that is. one - you're both in a stable relationship and his needs are considerably smaller than at first. two - someone else is doing it for him...
JustysiaS
22 Nov 2009
Life / Why Poles don't use Facebook? [43]
facebook is always on when i get on my laptop but i'm not always *on it*, if you get what i mean. i've been in trouble with work cos of facebook recently, but that's just because one of my "friends" snitched to my boss about something i said because she thought it was about work. had a lot of explaining to do, and i'll pick my friends more wisely in the future...
Justysia, I (accidentally) looked up how many hours a week you spend "on facebook".
facebook is always on when i get on my laptop but i'm not always *on it*, if you get what i mean. i've been in trouble with work cos of facebook recently, but that's just because one of my "friends" snitched to my boss about something i said because she thought it was about work. had a lot of explaining to do, and i'll pick my friends more wisely in the future...
JustysiaS
19 Nov 2009
Love / My Polish girlfriend checks my mobile phone all the time [70]
wah wah wah, here's the defender of all righteousness! the original poster never appeared again so we're just having a discussion - as you do on a forum - and it is related to this subject. i expressed my views, and i see you're expressing yours and even ganging up on one of the new posters just because you don't agree with her. nice job!
as for untrusting women poking around, it's just human nature that we're curious. of course you don't have the right to breach someone's privacy and it's a very insecure thing to do BUT sometimes it's best to come clean about the mistrust and ask for proof. and if you're suspicious because your other half all of the sudden doesn't let go of their phone or it's on silent or off at all times when that wasn't the case before, there is clearly something going on. same for their phone beeping or ringing very late at night. funny how their reaction is always the furious attitude, all the 'how dare you' rubbish and pretending to leave just to distract from the real issue. i have no problem with my other half knowing my passwords or even checking my phone.
if you are doing nothing wrong and your partner still doesn't believe you then you need to sit them down and talk to them, tell them how much you care and that you would never betray them but that they need to trust you. don't hide your phone, don't act sketchy, just let them feel secure again. unfortunately if your partner doesn't trust you with your phone, emails etc. it may signal that they are fooling around themselves!
have you dated an arab before, is this what they're like?
they guy comes on asking about what to do because his girlfriend keeps looking at his phone and all you've got to offer up is a point of view on what he does on the net?? what?? great help that. I actually think you have a point about people online but why post it here and now when we are supposed to be talking about untrusting women who poke and pry on mobile phones of their partners.
wah wah wah, here's the defender of all righteousness! the original poster never appeared again so we're just having a discussion - as you do on a forum - and it is related to this subject. i expressed my views, and i see you're expressing yours and even ganging up on one of the new posters just because you don't agree with her. nice job!
as for untrusting women poking around, it's just human nature that we're curious. of course you don't have the right to breach someone's privacy and it's a very insecure thing to do BUT sometimes it's best to come clean about the mistrust and ask for proof. and if you're suspicious because your other half all of the sudden doesn't let go of their phone or it's on silent or off at all times when that wasn't the case before, there is clearly something going on. same for their phone beeping or ringing very late at night. funny how their reaction is always the furious attitude, all the 'how dare you' rubbish and pretending to leave just to distract from the real issue. i have no problem with my other half knowing my passwords or even checking my phone.
if you are doing nothing wrong and your partner still doesn't believe you then you need to sit them down and talk to them, tell them how much you care and that you would never betray them but that they need to trust you. don't hide your phone, don't act sketchy, just let them feel secure again. unfortunately if your partner doesn't trust you with your phone, emails etc. it may signal that they are fooling around themselves!
No one told you to date an arab.
have you dated an arab before, is this what they're like?
JustysiaS
19 Nov 2009
Love / My Polish girlfriend checks my mobile phone all the time [70]
ass*hole. my ex did that all the time like it was something normal and harmless. what is it with men looking for reassurance from some annonymous women off the net? they're probably fat old hags getting their kicks online, watching them on webcam would probably make you sick. shame on you.
i was flirting with a girl from the internet that i had never met
ass*hole. my ex did that all the time like it was something normal and harmless. what is it with men looking for reassurance from some annonymous women off the net? they're probably fat old hags getting their kicks online, watching them on webcam would probably make you sick. shame on you.
JustysiaS
17 Nov 2009
Love / Is it really possible for a Polish man to be just friends with a woman? [32]
we've been friends for a good few years now, no advances have been made from either side and when people casually ask (as they do lol) 'so have you never...??' we're like noooo we're basically family. when i used to work part time in a pub i'd hang out with a bunch of guys, we went to partys and each other's houses and none of them ever hit on me once. friendship between men and women is possible as long as either of the sides has no hidden intentions or expectations.
if you haven't got a grasp on differentiating between flirting and being being friendly or treating and sponsoring then maybe that's why women run a mile from you or pretend they have vaginismus. think about it. and stop being so damn creepy, it's uncomfortable.
Women have friends who are guys and they are like brothers
we've been friends for a good few years now, no advances have been made from either side and when people casually ask (as they do lol) 'so have you never...??' we're like noooo we're basically family. when i used to work part time in a pub i'd hang out with a bunch of guys, we went to partys and each other's houses and none of them ever hit on me once. friendship between men and women is possible as long as either of the sides has no hidden intentions or expectations.
when i approach friendly i will be considered like a brother
if i order meals, give gifts, etc.., i fear i'll be considered as a father
if you haven't got a grasp on differentiating between flirting and being being friendly or treating and sponsoring then maybe that's why women run a mile from you or pretend they have vaginismus. think about it. and stop being so damn creepy, it's uncomfortable.
JustysiaS
16 Nov 2009
Love / Is it really possible for a Polish man to be just friends with a woman? [32]
friendships with Polish men don't seem to work for me. have a lot of English guy friends and they're basically like brothers to me but not the Polish guys, i find that they are a bit full on even if they know you're not single. a few girls i know complained about this too. i work with this Polish guy and i'm being nice to him because we see each other every day etc. but he takes my niceness the wrong way and basically stalks me. it's kinda creepy and annoying at the same time because we already established i'm not interested in him 'like that'. he's quite lonely and i do feel sorry for him, but the last time i invited him to go out with my flatmate and a bunch of English people, he ended up having more than half a bottle of vodka and a few pints, got thrown out from the bar we were in because he refused to stop smoking inside, then he walked off, got in his car and drove home! idiot...
friendships with Polish men don't seem to work for me. have a lot of English guy friends and they're basically like brothers to me but not the Polish guys, i find that they are a bit full on even if they know you're not single. a few girls i know complained about this too. i work with this Polish guy and i'm being nice to him because we see each other every day etc. but he takes my niceness the wrong way and basically stalks me. it's kinda creepy and annoying at the same time because we already established i'm not interested in him 'like that'. he's quite lonely and i do feel sorry for him, but the last time i invited him to go out with my flatmate and a bunch of English people, he ended up having more than half a bottle of vodka and a few pints, got thrown out from the bar we were in because he refused to stop smoking inside, then he walked off, got in his car and drove home! idiot...
JustysiaS
8 Nov 2009
JustysiaS
8 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]
i highly doubt it! don't forget to gag her before you do take her though. although wait, she might like that kinky stuff ;)
i highly doubt it! don't forget to gag her before you do take her though. although wait, she might like that kinky stuff ;)
JustysiaS
8 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]
hmm this sentence kinda looks emotional to me. thing is, you're just a b*tchy girl and every post you make is designed to offend Polish women. why, i can only guess, but i wouldn't go on an estonian forum just to offend your kind, i'm not that sad. i don't agree that there is an aids epidemic in Poland, those figures are only a small fraction of the Polish population and they are isolated cases, it is not out of control. stop being an idiot and looking for a problem where there clearly isn't one. get a hobby or something.
Let's be rational and talk FACTS and RATIONAL... not emotional blablabla bs
hmm this sentence kinda looks emotional to me. thing is, you're just a b*tchy girl and every post you make is designed to offend Polish women. why, i can only guess, but i wouldn't go on an estonian forum just to offend your kind, i'm not that sad. i don't agree that there is an aids epidemic in Poland, those figures are only a small fraction of the Polish population and they are isolated cases, it is not out of control. stop being an idiot and looking for a problem where there clearly isn't one. get a hobby or something.
JustysiaS
8 Nov 2009
Love / Help-my polish bf doesn't fancy me! [94]
this is a perfect situation for you to use your imagination. you're a woman, you should know what works on men, especially this one in particular. it's quite common that after a while the passion kinda cools down, you get used to each other, you know that other person will be there for you, it's good in a way but you need that spark. if you want more intimate stuff, take the lead and do something about it! new perfumes, lingerie etc. ask him if there's anything he always wanted to do, be spontaneous. if that fails then it's pretty bad :/. maybe try cooking for him, if all else fails lol. przez żołądek do serca :).
kasia24
this is a perfect situation for you to use your imagination. you're a woman, you should know what works on men, especially this one in particular. it's quite common that after a while the passion kinda cools down, you get used to each other, you know that other person will be there for you, it's good in a way but you need that spark. if you want more intimate stuff, take the lead and do something about it! new perfumes, lingerie etc. ask him if there's anything he always wanted to do, be spontaneous. if that fails then it's pretty bad :/. maybe try cooking for him, if all else fails lol. przez żołądek do serca :).
JustysiaS
8 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]
what are you trying to do? seriously some Polish girl must've really hurt you because you're so desperate to try make them look bad all the time. hiv is not out of control in Poland, we had a case a few years back when this Nigerian guy infected a bunch of women on purpose but you don't exactly hear about people dying there because of aids everyday. percentage wise, looking at the count of population in both Poland and Estonia, the latter looks worse off actually, and as Gaa stated, most of the infected are men. you just look stupid now because your arguement is not valid and all you're trying to do is incrimate Polish women. get over it and find a subject to discuss where you can show some of your intelligence, if you have any that is.
polsky
what are you trying to do? seriously some Polish girl must've really hurt you because you're so desperate to try make them look bad all the time. hiv is not out of control in Poland, we had a case a few years back when this Nigerian guy infected a bunch of women on purpose but you don't exactly hear about people dying there because of aids everyday. percentage wise, looking at the count of population in both Poland and Estonia, the latter looks worse off actually, and as Gaa stated, most of the infected are men. you just look stupid now because your arguement is not valid and all you're trying to do is incrimate Polish women. get over it and find a subject to discuss where you can show some of your intelligence, if you have any that is.
JustysiaS
8 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]
i think it's a massive lie and you know it. what's your beef with the Polish women, spill the beans.
i think it's a massive lie and you know it. what's your beef with the Polish women, spill the beans.
JustysiaS
8 Nov 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]
the only thing she should be afraid of is all those infections you might've cought while sleeping around. they say that if you love someone you will wait for them, but obviously in your case she'd be just another number on your scoreboard and you can't get over the fact that she doesn't want you. men like you should be avoided by all means.
I am also a muslim in love with a polish girl but if only she was strong enuff to stand for my love. she is just like you, she is also afraid of the things you are afraid of, its totally upside down of your situation for me. but i am not a forcer, i let her free its her life her choice, if she cant stand she chose it herself.
the only thing she should be afraid of is all those infections you might've cought while sleeping around. they say that if you love someone you will wait for them, but obviously in your case she'd be just another number on your scoreboard and you can't get over the fact that she doesn't want you. men like you should be avoided by all means.
JustysiaS
4 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]
ha ha the bullsh*t you post does nothing either bad or good to my self esteem, honestly. it just makes you look like a whingeing 'mangina' yourself. often when i read your posts i even tend to agree with some stuff you say, but the way you come accross and how you will not accept other people's arguements against your - admittedly mean and often unjust comments and critisism puts me, and i am sure not just me, off giving you some credit for your observations. just for the record, i've never been one of those evil, manipulating women, i've actually been through a lot of crap thanks to men but i didn't become bitter like yourself. i don't seek out opportunities to take out my petty, meaningless revenge on the male part of the population just because of my personal experiences, and look at yourself. i'm in an amazing relationship right now and my faith in good guys truly is back so there is hope!
ha ha i read some of the stuff people posted and thought i just have to say something! i'm surprised that in this day and age people still believe in myths and are pretty clueless about this part of their lives, that they choose to ignore discussing it or getting help because it's still such a taboo. embarassing or not, ignoring it might lead to very serious problems with yourself and your partner(s).
oh yeah whatever, you just can't get laid and i find it highly amusing that women explain themselves with vaginismus just to avoid sleeping with you...
Zimmy argues with facts and believes in the reality of 'real equality' and not the "PC" of feminists. I, Justysia am not yet ready to accept rational discourse because it it to threatening to my self esteem.
ha ha the bullsh*t you post does nothing either bad or good to my self esteem, honestly. it just makes you look like a whingeing 'mangina' yourself. often when i read your posts i even tend to agree with some stuff you say, but the way you come accross and how you will not accept other people's arguements against your - admittedly mean and often unjust comments and critisism puts me, and i am sure not just me, off giving you some credit for your observations. just for the record, i've never been one of those evil, manipulating women, i've actually been through a lot of crap thanks to men but i didn't become bitter like yourself. i don't seek out opportunities to take out my petty, meaningless revenge on the male part of the population just because of my personal experiences, and look at yourself. i'm in an amazing relationship right now and my faith in good guys truly is back so there is hope!
but atleast you educated everyone
ha ha i read some of the stuff people posted and thought i just have to say something! i'm surprised that in this day and age people still believe in myths and are pretty clueless about this part of their lives, that they choose to ignore discussing it or getting help because it's still such a taboo. embarassing or not, ignoring it might lead to very serious problems with yourself and your partner(s).
sure my sex life may not be as much active as yours, but, give it to my fear of sex diseases everywhere
oh yeah whatever, you just can't get laid and i find it highly amusing that women explain themselves with vaginismus just to avoid sleeping with you...
JustysiaS
4 Nov 2009
Travel / What a horrible vacation (the water in Poland destroyed my gallbladder) [36]
why do some people hide or lie about their nationality? i mean if you have the skills you can pass as a person from an English speaking country if you REALLY want to for some odd reason, but mistakes like that really give it away!
you’re not American no American would use “in bottom of my heart” no matter how uneducated, so who are you?
why do some people hide or lie about their nationality? i mean if you have the skills you can pass as a person from an English speaking country if you REALLY want to for some odd reason, but mistakes like that really give it away!
JustysiaS
3 Nov 2009
Love / Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that? [137]
you'd have to physically examine his parts, he might get excited and then what?? ;D
Well, check out his body before taking bath together.
you'd have to physically examine his parts, he might get excited and then what?? ;D