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Speaks Polish?: yep
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LukeXX   
20 Aug 2009
Love / Is Polish girls' beauty a myth? [78]

Sometimes it can be fun to say a few words about things like this, usually in a less serious way. But I don't think it's healthy to analyze these things so much. I actually find it a little odd that people discuss things like these in thread after thread after thread. People must have other interests too, right?

Reading your posts the words soft and wuss and a** kisser come to my mind. My friend, there are more than enough of those church going guys in Poland.

Well, unlike you I'm not afraid to tell it the way it is!

And I think the answers to the initial questions in this thread are kind of obvious.

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LukeXX   
20 Aug 2009
Love / Is Polish girls' beauty a myth? [78]

It's out of question that, like in many Eastern European countries, there are many pretty girls in Poland. But, I I would like to offer an alternative to the other thread about "Polish girls the most beautiful in the world?".

I'd agree that the average is high, bu that is because MOST girls in Poland are average looking.

Now, the reason for it is that it level out more than in other countries. Say in the CZ Republic when a girl is hot she is really hot, often a stunner, and when she hasn't been blessed by genes, well .. she's a total dog (and I like animals)

In Poland the looks of most girls are in the middle. This becomes deceptive of course, and make some needy foreign guys spread the word that all Polish girls are hot, when in fact all (most) are average, and the average slightly above the average of other countries.

Last but not least, there is DECEPTION PROPER. Some Polish girls may appear to be pretty in certain situations:

1) under a good light, or in a dim place such as discos, bars, candlelight. Definitely more than other nationalities.

2) under the influence of cheap Polish beer. When the vision blurs, suddenly an avg. Polish girl appears hot.

3) from far away. Because the avg. girl is slim, and may dress up tarty, she will look hot from afar, but the good looks explode in your face from close up. Shocking experience

4) make up. I saw some friends of my ex, nasty looking girls, going up a couple of points on the good looks scale, from say 3 or 4s to above 6s. Incredible what the make up can do.

5) most Polish girls always have a major defect, often located on the face. Among the most common are a mould, dodgy chins, bad teeth, sticking out ears, etc. This is often well covered up.

6) more approcheable, friendly or "easy" factor? This does in guys influence the perception of how good they look.

7) combinations of the above. E.g. beers with dim lights etc.

In the list above I have had to be a bit harsh (sorry girls) but for a good cause which is to debunk this myth, and be honest about it.

Apart from the hate mail I expect from this post hehehe ... , it would be good to hear some comments about my points above :)
LukeXX   
19 Aug 2009
Love / Polish man dating Russian women [42]

My advice to you is run, as fast as you can.

What a collection of nonsense stereotypes. Russians are proud people with a rich culture. I bet any of your alleged Russian friends would smack you right in the face if they heard you talking like that. And rightly so.

But in any case, in the light of present and past history, I doubt that any relationship between a Russian and a Pole is ever going to work out. Unless you settle down in Egypt.
LukeXX   
19 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

I remember one case in 2003 when I took the bus,arrived in a resort with polish,serbian,slovak tourists at 22.00,got into hotel at 22.30,entered the club at 23.00 and was kissing a polish girl at 23.20 while her friends(also hot) told me kiss her and made their lips like kissing.These were great times put to an end in 2004 for the above mentioned reasons.

I have been there myself.

To make it happen again I guess we need a new cold war, followed by the collapse of totalitarian regimes, and a slow influx of foreigner guys. This would make all 'liberated' girls give it out easy again.

Maybe a bit too much to ask.
LukeXX   
19 Aug 2009
Love / Polish men vs German men: Who is hotter? [513]

southern:
Polish men vs German men: Who is hotter?
What a stupid topic again, lol. All Polish men are better obviously, ain't that what this topic is created for? C'mon please.

Being male I don't feel fully qualified to judge on this particular topic.

But what I noticed is that German guys have less of the wuss kiss up behavior of their Polish counterpart.
LukeXX   
19 Aug 2009
Travel / Kraków to Stockholm, Riga, and Helsinki - any suggestions? [19]

In Turku, we will disembark from the boat at 7:30 and hop on the train to Helsinki at 7:37 - I hope 7 minutes isn't too much time to spend there... :)

Sounds good to me. That's long enought to visit the station shop, buy some food, and rush to the train to Hensinky.

I have had the misfortune to spend a day and Turku couple of year back. Though I travelled many places, Turku still remains the most boring place I have ever visited. Highly above some desolate villages in Mongolia or small towns in central S.Korea.
LukeXX   
19 Aug 2009
Love / Why are more Polish girls marrying Americans? [77]

Slowly but surely other countries lose their identity under the powerful dictatorship ("democratic" dictatorship if you want) of the US

Good point. This is an Empire overlooking its far provinces. The kind of culture the US brings in those countries is mass brain washing.

Take the word democracy. The mass media have trumpeted this word left and right, coming up with such nonsense as exporting democracy. What is really going on, is that a country is undemocratic if it does not go down on its knees, completely sell out and obey to Uncle Tom's corporate interests.

Regarding Polish girls marrying yanks in large numbers, I put it down to many being dumb.
LukeXX   
19 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

Also, I think there were fewer losers around at that time - it wasn't so cheap or easy to enter the country so there were fewer foreigners and Polish society was less segregated than it is now so the differences between people in terms of wealth, style etc. were less noticeable.

Good point. The first wave of foreigners were the cool guys. Going there took some plannnig, and a bit of taste for adventure. And prob girls were receptive to that.

In more recent times, with budget airlines etc. , you got the invasion of Western losers. Obviously those guys got on top of hight value guys in such countries as Poland (that's the point I'm making here).

In fact, I blame Ryanair, Easyject etc for ruining the 'game' in Eastern Europe. All that they brought was mass tourist, drunken Brits on a stag night, scores of desperate needy guy and I connected to this last point the total delusion in local girls.

Hopefully it will be a long time before those damn airlines manage to fly to Siberia. It's a good thing now it takes 3-4 days by train from Moscow to get there.
LukeXX   
19 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

I think you are completely mistaken about Ukraine.One time I spoke to a girl in a bus stop and when I suggested to her to go together to a cafe,she told me she wanted to go to my hotel room instead of going to cafe.

This sounds to me like a story of some years back. There was a time when you could get laid on the spot in Eastern European countries. But that is long gone as far as I know.

Having lived a part of the golden era, I now find it difficult to stomach some of those same girls delusion, obviously as a result of scores of ass kissing tourists.

Polish dating is again also highly frustrating no so much for the results, that compared with other European countries can be good, but because of girls' mindset.

You cannot not notice their bad taste and say to yourself:"how can she go for that loser"?
This type of frustration gets on the way big time.
LukeXX   
18 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

Let me reinforce this point by adding that when it comes to bad taste in men (for whatever reason that might be), Polish girls are on a class on their own. No contest here.

Of course I can think of occasional instances of European girls who go out with low quality guys.

But here we are talking of something on a national scale.
LukeXX   
18 Aug 2009
Love / Polish interracial dating [333]

Lodz_The_Boat

If any man/woman thinks that another man/woman looks like ****... than it is them who are ****. Be is a Polish or anyone else who thinks such crap, they are crap themselves.

Well in the end everybody is entitled to have an opinion. And I prefer straight talk to kissing up talk, whatever that may be.
LukeXX   
18 Aug 2009
Love / Polish interracial dating [333]

LukeXX:
What this makes me think is the following: where is the only place in Europe where a Korean guy can score (with a European girl)? Yes, Poland.
This is not true. Come on man.

Well you will be surprised. I spoke to a number of Korean guys who travelled to Europe. In the Nordic countries they don't stand a chance. UK, Germany, France, Spain ... out of the question, unless they have big money or some unique rare talent.
LukeXX   
18 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

LukeXX:
Well this explanation give some credit to Polish girls, and I never thought about it.
It was too easy, perhaps wrongly to put it down only to bad taste in men.

I'm quoting myself, but after some pondering I think I'm on something here.

Do Polish girls have really bad taste in men?

This is a question that cannot be avoided. You can put it donw to how they feel about themselves, inferiority complex, etc. But in the end no doubts it has also to comes down to bad taste in men.
LukeXX   
18 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

how can one fake being a loser?

I'm not sure myself as it can be like to fake being a loser.
But that can be simply go down to their level, talk simple, don't bring up anything intellectual as that would definitely spoil any chances to success.

For wife I would choose polish girl because any long term attempt to handle the constant ukrainian girls unpredictable moody changes and their manipulations to gain the upper hand will lead to chronic depression where only alcohol can help.(no wonder why slavic men are such heavy drinkers).

I remember the times not long ago when the town's local loner (in Southern Europe), that dodgy virgin guy well into his 40s still living with his mum, would get married to a East European. You thought it was incredible what a little money and a dating agency can do.

Then the phonemenon extended. All those guys going dry for year back home, uneducated with nothing going for themselves, would suddenly score in Poland. It was the time anyone could do it there.

Now, I'm not saying that one should bring a girls back home as a throphy, but on the other hand neither totally swallow one's pride and principles. A local girl would be the best I think.

There are about 1.5 billion people with internet access world wide, so what are the chances of meeting someone with the same idea as yourself?.
Must be one in a million?.

Well UNLIKE YOU I'm not in this blog to get the girls. I'm just here to share my opinions with any one person.
LukeXX   
18 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

Nothing wrong, nothing personal.

But apparently not on top of the charts with European girls preferences in men. As simple as that. I wanted to make a point but it was surely unfortunate I put Indian guys in bad company.
LukeXX   
18 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

Well done, you can actually something in a foreign language.....that makes two foreign languages including Essex girl dialect ;)

Is Shelley one of them Essex girls?

Ha ha. Well then that explains it all. No contest here with (some disco type) Polish girls when it comes to undetected brain activity.

The Essex ladies would always win hands down.

Polish women still hiding from you, I see, you may have to step it up a bit and become a real ass. I would attempt that before hacking off any limbs anyway.

Man, let me confess I liked your comments at first. But this overstretched sarchasm .. ops... wait ... makes me .. wait ... keep yawning ... ops wait ... now.
LukeXX   
18 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

No, I believe in care in the community so I'll give a mile start.

So let's step out of the ring.

I still think that for guys there is reverse fortune in dating in Poland.

Haven't you anything to say about this?

So comments like this are showing what a wonderful loser LukeXXX is and all the Polish girls will be waiting for him at the airport, when he arrives.

Well I wish I had a magic wand to turn thick in the disco. But that is not the case. Plus, I don't particularly want to only date Polish girls.
LukeXX   
18 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

You're really not getting me are you...home is where family and friends are...therefore England is not your home.

Is this a competition?

I thought you had some point to prove here that English girl are more cleaver. Not the reverse. And you are failing me lady :))

Btw, nothing to say about topic? Haven't you noticed anything in clubs etc. Would be good to hear about that apart from the insults to me.
LukeXX   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

As Ive said, home is where friends and family are, you are merely an unwanted guest.

I never visited your home I think. Unless, wait ... was it you that really pissed English girls with the miniskirt I ban*** a few months back?

Damn I did not want this to get personal, but there you do.

Do you find a lot of Polish women hide from you?.

No, from this as well as other 'difficult' topics
LukeXX   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

don't agree with the first statement. Being loser gives you more chance than appearing as a loser. I think their intuition allows them to separate the men (read losers) from the boys (read fake losers).

LOL this is too hardcore even for me.

So me and southern seem to have a point here after all. I wish the Polish girls in the blog could come out of hiding.

You're just some idiot that girls dont like so you have to make up all these little theories about why they wont date you - was it same back in Pakistan?

Wrong part of the world I'm European, and as already said make the UK my current home

I bet you didnt, after all he was getting laid and you weren't.

I was doing OK myself. But merit to the guy he was doing really well.
LukeXX   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

You were being very kind Mr P, I just thought he was a bit of a thick tw*t.

He he. As i said before, I know fully well you are an English lady, but always come across as a man because of the swearing and that in your messages :)

After speaking to you, they were giving you advice they thought was the best route for you to get laid...since there was no other route.

With dumb girls perhaps yes. I wish you could see it my way.

poor guy not only deaf, he'd had lost all feeling too?

You surely know what I mean. He had long curly hair and that was partially hiding big hearing aid. A great guy no doubt. And I actually felt happy for him.
LukeXX   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

I thought the topic was about polish women finding losers attractive and PLK123 suggesting you to work on being a loser,
could heighten your chances with members of the female sex but only in Poland (acording to this thread) everywhere else you'd be an actual loser.

ha ha good one.

But I've actually head other foreign guys suggesting to talk simple on approach in clubs etc.
So at least pretending to be dumbo, if you cannot become one at once, can take you a long way.
LukeXX   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

Luke, you seem like a real loser.. work on that, ok?

Well, I cannot even take that as positive criticism. You are just saying nothing.

Can't you do any better when it comes to an explanation? :)

Perhaps saying something about the topic would help.
LukeXX   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

The moral of this thread is if you want to pick up a good looking Polish girl, cut your leg off and deafen yourself.

OK the ones I mentioned were extreme cases, but still true stories. And in many ways it's definitely good those guys are given a chance.

2.If he is ugly,he will appreciate my love because he had never such a beautiful girl

Well this explanation give some credit to Polish girls, and I never thought about it.

It was too easy, perhaps wrongly to put it down only to bad taste in men.
LukeXX   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

Polish girls do not seem to realize the fake part of the thing even if it is 90% fake!

Yeah I agree. But there is more to it than that. Fake also becomes attractive to them.

And I can tell of many stories like your Italian friend.
LukeXX   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]

What I have always seeing in Poland is a reversal of fortune for guys when it comes to romance.

And this goes beyond the typical mis-match, when a very hot Polish girl walks hand in hand with a guy that not only is ugly but doesn't seems to have anything going for him

What it seems to me is that in Poland not only any guy can score, but a big disadvantage turns into an advantage. So that the the typically handsome foreign guy does not have a chance again a guy with a disability.

My top 2 are the following:

1) An Sicilian guy deaf and numb.
He could not speak but only make sounds, and of course he would fake dancing cause he could not hear much of the music. But this guy with the local girls was a success.

2) Some English guy without a leg, knee down.
Saw him a few times walking around. At first I thought he only had a limp, then I realized it was more serious that that.

Other typical successful guys are (of course) ugly guys, v.old, short, Indian, brain dead looking etc. A total reverse of fortune compared with the rest of Europe.

I would like to find out if this is only my impression, or someone else has notice this as well.
LukeXX   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Polish interracial dating [333]

I'm a Polish woman and my boyfriend is South Korean. I live in a small town so we get the looks but I totally don't care, my family fully accepts him :)

I travelled to Korea last year and loved the country, and have Korean friends. Prob your boyfriend is a great guy. But that is not my point.

What this makes me think is the following: where is the only place in Europe where a Korean guy can score (with a European girl)?

Yes, Poland.

Where is the place any guys despite or actually because of his handicap can get laid?
Again only one answer: Poland.

This is what I call serving the Lord))
LukeXX   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

Amen, a guy who fails to walk away at a certain point lacks in the balls department, it takes nuts to leave too.

Well, I'd say that most times a girl is testing you, and she expects a reaction of some sort.