is there any valid reason for this?
Probably.
is it all about better life and job?
maybe these are contributing factors rather than the only reasons.
are Americans better than us?
Well considering you are talking about the European descendants in the U.S.A., the question and answer is, are we better than us.
are we poor and worthless?
No, definitely not.
I have met people with a hell of a lot of money but they were very poor.
And worthless, well that is just too far.
I just can't see and tolerate this horrible practice.
Two friends of mine just got divorced after 2 years!!!.
He is from the U.S. and she is from Eastern Europe (not Poland).
He is back in the U.S. and his family will bring him out for drinks etc...
Just another divorce.
She, on the other hand, is from a different culture and it is going to be very difficult for her.
Thankfully they have no kids and she is pretty and he is handsome.
What I am getting at here is the cultural difference, it pisses me off big time.
Divorce is not Okay.