Love / My Polish boyfriend fancies are Pakistani neighbor. What do I do ? [291]

Lol, ok let's clear up the behind the back thing, clearly is impossible to talk about somebody behind their back on a forum, as the words are visible to anybody in the world if they wish to view them.

Giong behind somebodies back is if Polishgirlx wrote to dtaylor for EXAMPLE, 'that uummmm hottie is a soft so and so' that is going behind somebodies back, as it is not visible to all and sundry.

As for the Lukasz thing, your boyfriend is/was called it and there was also a poster on the forums with the same name :)

As for being polite and making your point or making your point and being rude, there are two different approaches, from a male to a female it should ALWAYS be the first. Maybe its acceptable from girl to girl, although usually that is just being ******. There is a time for being rude and making your point though :)

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]


there is a difference between not being a specialist and not knowing, i thought you would know that :)


that is all i have asked for, however all i've got is abuse yet no answer. Seems some people would rather criticise yet not be able to produce the goods. I don't mind being told i'm wrong/have a lack on knowledge but please back it up with a bit of an argument and some facts, instead of the usual volley of abuse.


no but at least make it a 'discussion' not a 'slanging match' dosen't it make sense??

Love / My Polish boyfriend fancies are Pakistani neighbor. What do I do ? [291]


hahahaahahaha :):)


oh deary dear, did that have something to do with a bottle with a percentage stamp on it :)???

Love / My Polish boyfriend fancies are Pakistani neighbor. What do I do ? [291]


lol, hang on just one second, i don't think my words were soft, i just didn't 'f' and blind all over the show, i save that for when i'm really mad, hehe.

I think i told her in the best way possible but you obviously don't agree.


yes you do have a good level, i just hope the air up there is not to thin so you can't breathe properly :):)


agreed


spot on!!


forget all that meant to be rubbish, isn't that what got you into this mess in the first place??? take life as it comes, if you need to flex and adapt along the way then do it :)

News / Should Poland send volunteers to Georgia ? [100]


i totally agree with you about Poland, i also suggest that the rest of europe takes a back seat, this is between Russia and Georgia and it seems to me Georgia has dug itslef a hole it cannot get out of.

News / Poland's Future Includes Fewer Poles, More Foreigners [324]


i would agree with that in the main, although, i think a better idea would be to have a criteria for entering the country in the first place. Base it on the idea that Australia has, take in people who are going to benefit the UK, i've mentioned it before on the forums and to be honest i don't see what is wrong with that idea.

If you take in all the immigrants who have good qualifications, wanting to be educated etc etc, then it takes out those who are going to harm the country. The same Poland could start by using a system like that and learn from the mistakes of the UK.

Love / My Polish boyfriend fancies are Pakistani neighbor. What do I do ? [291]


It is very hard, who said it was going to be easy??? Its just the first steps you have to take and nobody else can take them for you. Yes you probably did give up a lot for him, your going to lose a lot if you do leave him and you will lose even more if you don't. It is better to cut your losses and get it done as early as possible, it will cause you less pain if you do. Whatever your thought about him being the one, you were wrong, he clearly likes somebody else and he has told you as much to your face.


well Alyssa, i guess your right, it is easy for me to sit here and give you the advice which you have to act on. I like many other people have found myself in a similar situation to yourself. My friends were telling me what i'm telling you know. Luckily your boyfriend has been very honest to you how he feels, which is more than what i go. I think you should respect him for his honesty and let him get on with his life, whether or not that includes you.


you don't have to answer the question publicly if you don't want to but why did you lose your family and friends?? was it a case of him or them?? or have you moved away from them, therefore not seeing a lot of your family and old friends anymore???

I wish you all the best as whatever you decide you have a tough time coming up

T

Love / My Polish boyfriend fancies are Pakistani neighbor. What do I do ? [291]


hi there, i don't know your name, so i'm just going to have to call you umm_hottie, its not the thing i usually call a lady.

On the original post, you typed out your situation and how you felt, then asked people for their advice on what you should do.

You have read a number of replies, here is mine to add, when i've typed out what i think you should do, i've got a few more home truths for you.

OK your situation is that your boyfriend is living with you and your friends. You have been together for a while but now he is feeling something for another girl, her religion, origin, race etc etc has nothing to do with it. As far as i understand it, he has told you how he feels about this girl. He wants to break up with you.

You on the other hand don't want to break up with a guy that 'DOES NOT LOVE YOU ANYMORE' how loud does he have to say it. Your so desperate because you do not see an ulternative to what you are used to or don't see a future for yourself without him. Well i've got news for you love, YOU HAVE!!!!. If he dosen't want to be with you then don't force him, there is nothing worse than forcing a relationship to continue when one side is not into it.

So the best thing you can do is agree to split with your boyfriend, stay as friends and get on with the rest of your life. It is very difficult and yes there will be a time where your down and you don't know whether your coming or going, you will get through that stage and be much better for it.

So there is the situation done, now for the other home truth:

Let me quote it once more:


and that is exactly what you got, whether you like what people have to say, that is their advice, break up with him, leave him or whatever. Just because you've heard something that you don't want to hear it does not mean its wrong!!!! Please remember that.


well what were you expecting people to say, 'yeah stick with it, its sure to work out in the end' or 'stay with him, don't worry if he starts sleeping with the girl next door, he will get bored soon' no no no no no no no no no, the thing is you know, you just need to wake up and admit to yourself that what people are telling you is right.


i'll take your thank you in advance.

T

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]


its typical though, people find it so easy to criticise the answer on the table, while at the same time not be able to come up with their own.

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]


every time you just question somebodies intellegence, why why why??? there is simply no need, what was the point of asking the qeustion in the first place, nobody on here is good enough to take every potential situation into account. So don't go calling me 'the dummy' or 'not the smartest guy' i don't exactly see Albert E in you either if i'm telling the truth. No i'm not a specialist on Poland or Polish history but at least i don't pose and act like i know everything like you do!!!!!

I would tell you to get off your high horse but you don't have one :). As for listening, i've heard enough of your rubbish too and as far as spreading 'Bullsh*t' i've not said anything!!! what have i said apart from the fact Poland is not ready for anoher war??? BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT.

Youbring me into question and slam me each time i have an opinion, well at least i have one and its much better than just bad mouthing people like you do. its always good to make a point as well as slag people off, how about it, try it :)

So do not do not do not preach to me, your not good enough to do so.

Love / How Many Dates Before Sex in Poland? [86]

do they even do dates in Poland, i thought it was let's skip the main course and get straight to dessert?!!! :):0

From personal experience two of the Polish girls i have been with were very reserved adn the other one didn't even bother with the date, pppfffff, so i'm confused

USA, Canada / DO AMERICANS/CANADIANS TRAVEL TO POLAND???? [57]


i agree with that to a certain degree.


care to explain that??

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lol, the EU should stump up again, what about the Polish or the Czechs, its their line not the rest of Europes.


ow dear

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]

ok so now only the Polish are allowed to answer??? although it would be interesting to have a polish view on this!!!! So over to the Polish.

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]


how can it be to late if i don't need to in the firstplace, but i like the slant you put on that :)


its neither mate, there are not a lot of countires that could just up and have a go at playing war at the momnet, Poland is one of them, stop trying to lead down the path of me being provocative because i'm not.


unlike you mate i can take a bit of bashing :)


I think the Germans kicked off anyway, regardless of what the Ruski's were doing, Hitler was driving the Nazi war machine and that was that.

Love / Is sex with Polish guys different to sex with English guys? [173]


lol, its a good effort, i think i'm a victim of what you described :)


You can say that again, so much for the good, catholic girls, hay :)

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]


I always apologise when i have done wrong, i have said 'NOTHING WRONG' so i am not going to apologise, i stated my point of view which was not an attack. I'm not trying to dig myself out of any wholes, i don't mind a three on one or even four on one discussion as it seems to be.


The Germans were defeated by themselves, Hitlers greed and the Russian winter.


exactly, apart from the USA, i cannot really think of a country who could launch into battle. Our forces are stretched enough already throughout Iraq, Afghanistan, UN Duties and other 'special' tasks which are not made public. So i would doubt the UK's hopes of getting involved in another war.

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]


That is the crucial point though Greg, 'was' Poland 'was' the biggest country in europe, it is not anymore. If it were that great would it not still be the same size, now as it was then. I am not saying Poland is/was weak, i was simply answering whether or not Poland could 'handle' another war like was asked at the top of the thread. In my view, no.

I didn't say Poland was useless or defensless, i mearly pointed out that i didn't think they were ready for another war. Even when under the control of Germany/USSR Poland continued to fight a 'secret war' in many of the major cities and beyond plus the fact throwing soldier and pilots at our ranks.

You've mistaken my 'view' of is poland ready to handle another war as an attack on Poland, ITS NOT, i should know as i wrote it!!!!!.


wow so thats your comeback, an attack on my intellect, did you not see the smiles after my comments about the aussies, for somebody who claims intellect you missed the fact that these were jokes.

I'm not getting into a 'who has the biggest d*ck' contest with you as there is no point, you like greg has taken my point of view on the subject as an attack on Poland rather than an honest point of view.


geeezzz more history, i'm talking about WII not Napoleon, in fact why don't we assess it on todays standings??? i mean after all that is what i originally ended on, its strange how everybody has picked me up on the 'back in the day' comments but not on the actual answer to the set question. So how about it??

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]


right not anwering the question at all, by refering back to previous events, looking at the current sitation and saying whether or not i think they could handle another war!!!! As for the girl thing, we've been through this so many times, if thats all you've got then its pretty weak :).


lol, crush us so easily, stop dreaming were in 2008, the past is the past big boy :). I wasn't even talking British/Polish, just Polish. It isn't even me that turned this into a British VS Polish thing, your insecurities did that.

As for trying to provoce, i don't think so, if i wanted to do that surely i would have come on and said a lot worse.


Germany and Russia, how does that make it all sides????


lol, when was that??? 27BC :)

typical, the Poles referring to the past because thats all they have got, why not think about Poland today and the potential instead of needing to reach back into the past either depressing yourselves, like our historians on here.

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]


the French haven't got the stomach for a war, they just love their food to much :) We eat to live, they live to eat :)


hang on hang on, i'm not answering the question??? i'm looking at the current situation now and asessing it!!! As i said looking back historically, Poland does not fair well in wars, I expect if the Germans wanted anoher pop they probably could but the RUski's well i'm not sure if they could afford another war, they can barely feed their own people.

As for 'Slagging off Poland' what i've said is true, they have historically been invaved many times and even been shared between the Germans/Russians, how is that slagging them off???

Why are you slagging of my polish knowledge?? what have i said that is not true, are you telling me Poland has never been invaded??

Please as an Australian (Who tend to be three months behind the rest of the world, lol) correct me on everything i've said, although maybe the news the Poland was invaded by Germany hasn't reached you guys yet :)

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]

hang on a sec, i'm not talking about Belgium, Holland or Luxembourg, i'm answering the questin set by Polishgirlx at the start of the thread.


fighting away from home, what has to that to do with defense??

Love / Is sex with Polish guys different to sex with English guys? [173]

no because if they wanted Polish guys they would have stayed at home :)

They came over here for the British beef:)

News / 7 Poles in a Fiat Uno? [38]

I tell you i've just read the name of the thread and i have to agree with it totally. There has always been something myself and friends have wondered about the Polish, why when they come to the UK do they bunch up like this in a house that can fit four people with about twelve???

The only reason we can think of is because they want to save money, However this dosen't take away from the fact it is being done ileagally some of the tiem.

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]

Are you joking, fighting on all sides from start to finish, can you just remind me how long it took the German blitzkrieg to rumble through Poland????? I think the Germans ad Russians were having a race to see who could take most of Poland within four weeks :).

Fair play you had a lot of angles of attack but which did you actually defend?? Are you counting underground fighting, when occupied, or sending accross pilots too. I don't believe those two elements would constitute being able to 'handle' another war

Love / Is sex with Polish guys different to sex with English guys? [173]

ow so thats why all the Polish girls come to the UK, i've got it now :):):)

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]

what so everybody attacked Poland at the same time?? In WII the Germans and Russians had a go from both sides, that counts for one 'take over' :)

News / Could Poland handle another war? [63]

With all respect to say 'could Poland handle another war' the word 'handle' really ins't that relevant because when were poland actually ready to handle a war?

From what i can remember they didn't really seem able to handle world WII and have been invaded more times than the NODS on my Command and Conquer game :). So there for have not really 'handled' any wars, unless your clarification of handled is different to mine.

I would say however that Poland is probably in better shape to handle a war than it was back in the day, although i'm not sure on the current state of the army, navy, airforce and the technology involved.

UK, Ireland / Polish is suing because she cannot speak english!!! [45]

hahaha, well i only have one of the ones i wrote about and i'm not in a wheelchair or have a mental illness (That i know of :) ). Anyway thanks for taking the P*ss, i like a good sense of humour


ok ok ok now thats double P*ss taking, lol.


Well i have eyesight in one eye only, the one that does have sight in is not in full working order, lol. Dam there goes the RAF Tornado i always wanted to fly, pppffff or the F1 career to follow in the footsteps of Hill and Mansell. If you need anymore info just ask, i'm more than happy to discuss it, ow and by the way i lost my vision through an accident.

Travel / Alone in Krakow, what to do? [25]

When i was in Krakow, it was fine, sometimes i was with British and sometimes i was with Polish, both times i felt safe :)

UK, Ireland / The Daily snot rag (Mail) removes anti-Polish content [30]


yes on many occassions, not only in the forum but at work, in sport (The most!!!!), family life and many other areas which i really cannot be bothered to go into.

Criticism can be positive/negative depending on how you react to it. Thats my view anyway.